Many elderly people retire and spend their days doing nothing.
It is better to go to a party, eat, drink, and chat.
More people can indeed drive away loneliness, but it also hides disaster.
It is said that there are sweet birds singing in the woods, and poisonous snakes crawling around.
The door to visitors is outdated, after all, whoever has more guests is excited;The home is a private place, the house may be bought by the child, and the elderly cannot be the owner.
In the group of elderly people who gather, eat, and slowly rise in the outside world, they must know etiquette when participating and protect themselves.
Don't be a "heavy drinker" and drink less.
There is a terrible proverb: "A drowned man can still swim." ”
If you are rude, you will not be rude. It's also worth pondering and finding similarities.
When you're young, your ability to drink well is primarily carried by your body;He was old and healthy, but he couldn't drink too much.
Don't be arrogant about how much you drink in a day, that's all in the past.
Good people never talk about his courage. Drink less, everyone stays sober and goes home.
If you don't bring your "naughty grandson", you'll have less trouble.
A group of people eat together and get together to chat. Children are arguing in boxes, or several children meet and sneak out. A series of troubles began.
The children will feel that the supervision of the elderly is not in place, so they will be dissatisfied;People are in the mood to eat and drink at dinner because the child is lost;In the hotel, everyone was looking for the kid, and it looked smoky.
It's that the child doesn't wander around, picks and chooses when eating, and barks at everyone. You could say that the old man with the child lost face.
Treat gatherings with respect and in line with children's safety, and don't bring children to parties and dinners, especially if you're mischievous.
Don't use a "critical tone" and avoid verbal abuse.
Man has a bad nature – the habit of refutation.
There are some people who are very good in the workplace and think that their status is very high, so they refute others, and no one "disagrees".
If the habits of the workplace are carried over into life, then dealing with people will not be very smooth.
We are all old people, and we have no authority, so why should we be judged by you?
You always contradict others, indicating that your quality is very poor, and there is also a kind of arrogance and bureaucracy.
When you arrive at the meeting place, you are a guest, speak politely, and obey the host's arrangement. If you're going to split the bill, be respectful of the person leading the meeting.
Respect everyone's differences and think of yourself as a normal person so that the conversation will go more smoothly. We don't have a conflict of interest, we all have a good heart, so why find fault with each other
Don't take a "swagger" attitude, keep a low profile.
Showing off is actually a very stupid act, unknowingly revealing your family background.
At one time, a girl named "Arctic Catfish" said on the Internet, "Grandpa is retired from the unit and has nine-figure savings. ”
Soon, netizens paid attention to the life story of the grandfather. The relevant departments followed up and decided that it was grandpa's fault.
Whatever the outcome of the processing, we have to reflect, right?
The upper beam is not crooked and the lower beam is not crooked", the older generation, talking eloquently, showing off everywhere, then the descendants will be proud and use money to support their face.
Whatever your wealth comes from, keep a low profile.
Since ancient times, the best way to get rich is to get rich in silence.
The elderly should not only show off their wealth, but also hide their children's ways of making money, and do not talk about their children's work.
It's okay to maintain a simple appearance and pretend to be poor.
Don't bring a "late plan", go early and return early.
Older people should have a sense of time when they go out.
When you go to a distant party, you should check the time of the last train and don't miss it.
If there is no bus, you should also arrange in time for your children or other friends to pick you up at a certain time.
I came home too late, maybe because there were so few people on the street that I couldn't hail a taxi;It may also cause dissatisfaction among family members and be too lazy to pick up.
Think about it, the child will go to work tomorrow, and picking up the elderly too late will definitely delay the energy of work.
The most important consideration is safety. In the middle of the night, trouble is more likely to occur.
At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, Cao Cao was an official in Luoyang, and ordered that night travel was not allowed and patrols were strengthened.
The eunuch's uncle, Jian Ding, got drunk and went out at night to fool around. I was caught by the patrolling soldiers and beaten.
It can be seen that going home late at night is a truth since ancient times, don't be too willful.
Don't carry a "low battery" with you and stay connected.
Some elderly people, when they go out, they find that their phones are almost dead.
With the idea of having chargers everywhere, I went to the party place. At first glance, the place to meet may be a meadow;A place to eat, maybe a small place in the countryside, with a chance to recharge?
You know, people don't have cell phones these days, so it's especially inconvenient to contact them.
How anxious are you when your family can't contact the elderly?If the elderly ride home alone and do not have a mobile phone, it is troublesome to pay, troublesome to locate, and difficult to call a car.
Before going to a party for dinner, it is necessary to check the mobile phone, whether it has electricity, and whether it has a phone bill.