Chapter 1: Sober or Ruthless Apathy?——The younger generationBehind the rise of the phenomenon of "abandonment".
In recent years,SocialA phenomenon has emerged, namelyThe younger generationSelect withFamily members"Breaking off relatives" or not leaving relatives has aroused widespread discussion. Young people are increasingly absent from social occasions such as family gatherings, gatherings of relatives and friends, and choose to stay at home or goTravel, going on vacation, etc. This phenomenon is commonly known as "not leaving relatives", which means that the connection between young people and their relatives is becoming less and less.
There are currently two main interpretations of this phenomenon. One view is thatThe younger generationThe choice is based on sober reflection and choice in the world. They value personal independence and autonomy, and are unwilling to be bound by traditional social norms in pursuit of meaninglife, rather than blindly following conventions. Another view is that it is a sign of indifference among young people towards family and affection. They are too selfish and only care about their own needs and happiness and ignore the importance of family relationships. This attitude is seen as indifferent and irresponsible.
First of all,SocialStructural changes have had an impact on this phenomenon. With urbanization and increased opportunities for career advancement, young people often need to work and work in different cities and even countries away from homelife。This makes it more difficult to attend family gatherings, where they face physical distancing barriers. Therefore, the absence of young people from family gatherings is not due to unwillingness, but due to objective constraints.
Secondly, the complexity of family relationships is also an important factor. Some young people may be withFamily membersThere are discordant relationships, and attending family gatherings can trigger tension and conflict, so they choose to avoid this. In addition, some families place traditional expectations and pressures on young people to play specific roles in gatherings, and young people may not want to be limited by these roles and therefore choose to hide.
In addition,Social**The rise of is also rightThe younger generation's social Xi had an impact. Although they may not go relatives, they areVirtual worldsmaintains a wide range of social contacts, throughSocial**platform to share with relatives and friendslifeDrip. This virtual social approach becomes their expressionEmotionand ways to make connections, satisfying their need to socialize.
In summary,The younger generationChoosing to "not go to relatives" has both a sober side and a ruthless and indifferent side, and it is more a combination of personal choice and external factors. We cannot generalize, and we should understand and respect everyone's choice. At the same time, it is also necessary to reflect on society's expectations and pressures on family and social relationships to adapt to the needs of different peoplelifeManner.
With the advancement of urbanization, more and more young people are choosing to leave their hometowns and toBig citiesFind better employment opportunities and development space. This choice widens the distance between them and their loved ones, making family gatherings difficult.
Many young people will choose to work in different cities or countrieslifeAs a result, traveling back and forth to your hometown to attend a relative's gathering is more expensive and the schedule is more difficult. Many times, they can only choose to pay more attention with limited time and resourceslifequality and personal development.
Some young people withFamily membersThere is some disharmony and contradiction between them, and family gatherings can add to tension and conflict. For young people facing family strife, choosing to stay away from family gatherings may be to avoid further conflict and unpleasantness.
In addition, some families place excessively high expectations and pressure on young people to play a specific role in the gathering, which young people may not be willing to. They want to have more freedom and independence, free from traditional responsibilities and obligations. As a result, they choose to stay away from family gatherings in pursuit of self-identity and personal development.
withSocial**The popularity and development ofThe younger generationGradually, a different way of socializing has been formed. Although they do not go relatives, but they passSocial**The platform maintains a wide range of contacts with relatives and friends.
PassedCircle of friends, Weibo, WeChat, etcSocial**and they are able to sharelifeDrip and expressionEmotionand establish more frequent and timely contact with relatives and friends. This virtual social method has become an important way for young people who choose to "not go to relatives", and it has become an important way to express themselves and build social relationships, satisfying their needs for socialization.
While virtual socializing is no substitute for face-to-face intimate communication, for young people who are unable to attend family gatherings in person, there is a differenceSocial**Provide them with a way to stay in touch and express themselves with their families and relativesEmotionimportant platform.
AlthoughThe younger generationThe choice of "not to go to relatives" has caused some controversy and discussion, but we should understand and respect everyone's choice. Everyone has their ownlifeMethods and values, we cannot force others to follow our expectations and conventionslife
Young people's choice to "not go to relatives" may be based on a variety of reasons and considerations, including personal developmentSocialchanges, etc. We should respect their autonomy and choice, and give them more understanding and support.
Young people's choice to "stay out of relatives" also reminds us to reflect on society's expectations and pressures on family and social relationships. Are traditional family gatherings and social norms too rigid and restrictive, making young people feel constrained and stressed?
We need to think about how to adjust and adaptSocialThe changing needs give young people more space and autonomy. Family and social relationships should be based on mutual understanding, respect and equality, rather than sacrificing individual needs and development.
It is important to maintain communication and understanding, and to build healthy family and social relationships, whether it is to go to relatives or choose not to go to relatives.
Family and social relationships are humanSocialThey have an important impact on personal growth and well-being. We should actively communicate, understand and support each other, and respect everyone's choices andlifeManner.
Finally, the phenomenon is complexSocialThere is no absolute right or wrong. We should keep an open mind to the values of diversity and inclusion to build a more harmonious, understanding and respectful oneSocial。Thank you!
(Material**: Today's headlines).