Hello everyone, I'm Xiaoyu!
I don't know if you have this feeling: when a girl starts to become more confident, independent, and self-reliant, she will always encounter good things!
This is because when girls become confident, this self-confidence can help them stay calm and determined in the face of challenges and difficulties, so that they can better cope with difficulties and seize opportunities;Independence, on the other hand, helps girls to take more control of their lives, and they are free to pursue their dreams and goals, and to choose their preferred lifestyle and work.
And when women have the ability to be confident and independent, they are more likely to attract the attention and respect of others, which leads to more opportunities for them, such as better job opportunities, more social networks and resources, etc. These opportunities allow them to realize their potential and achieve more and succeed, which gives us the impression that they always seem to be in good hands.
Let's take a look at 8 signs that girls are starting to have good luck1. No longer have high expectationsLearning to lower expectations is a sign of wisdom and maturity. When we expect too much from ourselves or others, we feel disappointed and frustrated when the results are not as expected. Learning to lower expectations can reduce this disappointment and anxiety, allowing us to face the uncertainties in life more calmly, objectively and rationally. For example, when we go on a trip, we may have high expectations for the travel experience before we set off, hoping to have the perfect experience and memories of the trip. However, there may be various unsatisfactory situations during the trip, such as traffic congestion, unsatisfactory accommodation, etc. If we can lower our expectations and understand the uncertainties that may arise during the trip, we will not be overly disappointed and frustrated even in the event of any of the above. On the contrary, we can look at the unsatisfactory journey more calmly, and actively seek out other pleasures and discover new beauty. 2. Accept imperfectionsReconciling with oneself and accepting imperfections is a positive attitude and wisdom. When we are able to accept our imperfections, we will be more willing to try new things and challenge our limits. This attitude of courage to try allows us to continue to grow and improve, and improve our abilities and qualities. At the same time, this mindset also helps us to understand and accept others more, which allows us to build healthier and more harmonious interpersonal relationships, improve our social skills and emotional intelligence. For example, many people have high expectations of their body and appearance, hoping that they can have the perfect body shape and appearance. However, this expectation often leads to body anxiety and low self-esteem. If we are able to reconcile with ourselves and accept our imperfections, such as a slightly chubby body or ordinary appearance, we can reduce inner stress and anxiety and face life more confidently and positively. 
3. Learn to love yourselfOscar Wilde said, "Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance." "Loving ourselves means not relying on others for happiness and fulfillment, which makes it easier for us to be independent, self-respecting and self-loving, and thus have a more free and fulfilling life. For example, when a girl starts to love herself, she will care about her physical and emotional state and pay attention to self-care. She will arrange her diet reasonably, maintain a good routine and Xi, and pay attention to physical exercise. At the same time, she will also actively seek solutions when she encounters emotional distress, such as communicating with family and friends, seeking professional psychological counseling, etc. 4. Pay attention to your feelingsWang Xiaobo said: "In life, you always have to feel something. ”
When a girl begins to care about her feelings, she will pay more attention to her needs, emotions and values, which can help to increase her sense of self-worth. In addition, she will be more confident, positive and optimistic, and this confidence and positive attitude can allow her to perform well in life and work, attracting more attention and appreciation. 
5. Abandon negative energyAs the old saying goes, "Take away the dross and take the essence." "It is only when we get rid of what is useless and harmful that we can make room for what is beneficial.
Girls often accumulate a lot of objects and emotional burdens in their lives, such as clothes they no longer wear, items they no longer use, people they no longer contact, and so on. Girls who know how to break away will constantly examine their lives and hearts to find what they really need, so as to reduce the distractions and noises in their lives, and focus more on their lives and goals, so as to better control their lives, achieve their dreams and goals, and at the same time make themselves more satisfied and confident. 6. Invest in your own growthInvesting in yourself is a cost-effective investment with a high rate of return.
By investing in themselves, girls can continue to explore their potential and value, improve their skills, knowledge and experience, and thus enhance their self-confidence and self-esteem, which can make them more confident to face life's challenges and difficulties, and more actively pursue their dreams and goals. For example, Xiaoyu's friend Meng Meng is a person who likes to socialize and make friends. She believes that investing in herself can expand her relationships, which can lead to more opportunities and resources. As a result, she regularly participates in social events, makes friends in various fields, and actively maintains these relationships. These relationships have also brought many benefits to her life and work, including career development, information sharing, and emotional support. 
7. Become self-disciplinedAudrey Hepburn said, "Elegance is the only beauty that never goes out of style." "When women start to be self-disciplined, they are better able to control their emotions, behaviors, and decisions, stick to their goals and plans, and manage their emotions, stress, and negative emotions, so that they can better cope with life's challenges and difficulties, and take control of their lives. This will make her develop a lucky quality in herself, increasing her chances of luck.
For example, Xiaoyu's friend Lili used to be a short-tempered person, but since she began to learn to control her emotions, she no longer loses her temper easily or falls into negative emotions. By adhering to self-disciplined emotional management, her interpersonal relationships have become more harmonious and stable, and she is also more able to cope with challenges and difficulties. This self-discipline has made her more graceful and calm, which has led to more luck and success in life. 8. Improve cognitionGoldstein said, "You don't see the real world, you see the world." "But when a girl is no longer growing up and stuck in a preconceived notion, she may refuse to accept new information and ideas, and it will be difficult for them to generate new ideas and solutions to problems, which will weaken their ability to innovate, make them unable to respond flexibly to challenges, and thus limit their personal development." For example, some female students may think that some occupations are only suitable for men and others are only suitable for women. This stereotype may limit their career options and prevent them from trying and pursuing a career field that they are truly passionate about and suitable for. Or some girls may think that only with a slim figure and perfect appearance can they gain confidence and happiness. This perception can lead them to focus too much on their body and image, and ignore their inner qualities and worth. 
In the end, Xiaoyu wants to say that when a girl is the most beautiful, it is not how beautiful she is on the outside, but how strong she shows herself. This strength comes from her inner qualities, self-worth, wisdom and knowledge, kindness and compassion, and tenacity and perseverance. These qualities and traits will make her more confident, attractive, responsible, and responsible, thus exuding a unique beauty. So, from now on, please love yourself, improve your awareness, and help yourself grow!
The above encouragement!