In real life, everyone can't have everything. There will definitely be something that you have that others don't. There will also be things that others have that you don't.
When faced with some special situations in life, it is normal to occasionally ask others for help or lend a helping hand to others. However, in the process of going forward, you must be wary of those who have bad intentions towards you.
Indeed, some people appear to surprise you, and some people appear to let you know what is sinister in the world.
The most important thing you should do in the face of those bad people is to keep your distance from them, and never use your heart to satisfy their sinful desires and finally let yourself sink into the sea of misery.
Remember, there are many good people in this world, but there will always be some people who can't see your good.
Generally speaking, if a woman asks you to "borrow" this thing, no matter how good the relationship is, she has to refuse, she has no good intentions to ruin your good fortune.
1.Borrowing money from you with all kinds of lies
Most men want to show themselves in front of women that they are capable, rich, and capable, and can help her.
If it is indeed your best friend, and it is indeed a special situation, then you should naturally lend a helping hand as much as you can. But if you say that you love face and cheat your money, then it's okay to cheat once or twice, and after three or four times, you must decisively tell her to stay away.
Generally speaking, when a woman will find all kinds of lies to borrow money from you, and never pay it back, then even if the relationship is good, she has to refuse, she is not at ease, she is here to ruin your good fortune.
To put it simply, in the face of such a woman, no matter how much money you lend her, it is impossible to awaken her conscience. When facing you, she is insatiable, and she will only treat you as a wronged person.
If one day, when you can't satisfy her, she will attack you without knowing the good people's hearts. In the face of such a vicious woman with no conscience, why should you ask for hardship?
2.Borrowing your power or fame to do bad things
In life, there are some people who deserve your respect, and there are some people who are like flies around you, and you should tell them to go a little farther. Between friends, when the other party needs help, they can indeed lend a hand.
Especially those who are favorable, there is no big problem with a little effort. But if it is a matter of principle, especially something that violates morality or the law, it must be forbidden.
Generally speaking, when a woman asks you to borrow your rights or resources to do bad things, or those shady things, no matter how good the relationship is, she has to refuse, she has no good intentions, and she is here to ruin your good fortune.
Don't feel that you are also a victim and you don't know about it, otherwise, in the end, once the East Window incident happens, it will definitely bring you a lot of unnecessary troubles and even disasters.
3.Knowing that you have a lover, I still ask you to borrow a shoulder
You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people. If a woman really regards you as a friend, if she really cares about you, then she will definitely not ruin your life.
If you are still single, and she does have a good impression of you, then she can naturally take the initiative to approach you, take the initiative to show favor to you, and hope to meet a good life. But if your role is not suitable and she is still obsessed, then be careful.
Generally speaking, a woman knows that you have a lover, or even knows that you are married, and she still comes to you to borrow a shoulder, so even if the relationship is good, she must refuse, she is not at ease, and she is here to ruin your good fortune.
By doing this, to put it bluntly, she is destroying your marriage and ruining your life. As a woman, no matter how long you have known each other before, after you have someone to take care of, she should consciously withdraw from your world and become someone else in your world. Anyone who gets too close is harming you.