In the report of the Metropolis Express, the blind date of Sister Wang of Peace Square has aroused the attention of the society. A newlywed couple came to thank her for matchmaking, however, another couple who broke up also made Sister Wang sigh. All this seems to reflect that in modern society, it is not easy to find the right partner, even for the best older youth.
Blind date status: The efforts of the retired matchmaker and the "wonderful" encounter
Sister Wang, who was once one of the top ten public welfare matchmakers with good men and women, has been helping single men and women blind dates for free at McDonald's in Peace Square for more than ten years, building a bridge of love for people. However, with her efforts, in addition to the joy of the newlywed, there is also the regret of breaking up.
Among them, one impressive case is Xiao Feng, an excellent engineer born in 1979. Sister Wang reviewed Xiao Feng's blind date experience for more than ten years, and pointed out his "strange" aspects in the process of choosing a mate, such as the pickiness of girls' appearance and region, and his "stingy" personality. This case reflects that in blind dates, some people's self-positioning is not accurate, and the standards are too high, which makes it difficult to find a suitable partner.
Reflections on a breakup: Blind dates require sincerity, responsibility, and respect
Another couple who broke up also gave Sister Wang a lot to think about. The man is 34 years old and the woman is 32 years old, and the two have been talking for more than a year, but they broke up because of different concepts of life consumption. When the boy recounted the reason for the breakup, he mentioned that his annual salary was 300,000 yuan, but 50% of it was spent on eating and drinking, and he felt that he could not afford the woman's luxurious lifestyle.
This case has triggered a reflection on the modern concept of love. In the pursuit of love, is there really a need for an overly extravagant lifestyle?Should blind dates focus more on the sincerity, responsibility and respect of both parties, rather than just material conditions?
Thoughts and prospects: Optimize the blind date mechanism and establish a sincere communication platform
Blind dates, as a way to find love, still occupy an important place in contemporary society. However, through Sister Wang's experience, it can be seen that the "wonderful" phenomenon in blind dates and the reasons for breakups are mostly related to factors such as excessive expectations, unrealistic standards, and differences in material concepts. In order to better promote real and stable feelings, we need to optimize the blind date mechanism, establish a more sincere and equal communication platform, and guide people to pay attention to the fit of internal quality and human nature in blind dates, rather than paying too much attention to the matching of external conditions.
The society should work together to provide more opportunities for single young people to go on blind dates, and at the same time strengthen psychological counseling and cultivate a rational outlook on love and marriage. In this way, a blind date is not only to find a partner in life, but also to establish an emotional relationship based on sincerity and responsibility, laying a solid foundation for future family happiness.