"My Name is Jin Sanshun" is indeed a drama work that makes the audience unable to extricate themselves from it again and again.
The last time I described the growth experience of the heroine of Sanshun, I still felt that there were still many unfinished parts.
So today I'm going to share an eternal topic about the show, which is the decade-long dispute between the heroine and the supporting actress.
This is a classic red and white rose theme - why did Zhenxuan choose to give up Bai Fumei Xizhen, who was his childhood sweetheart, tenacious, optimistic and had a relationship with him for 8 years, and chose to date Sanshun, an older fat woman who had only known him for 3 months and had no figure, appearance and family background?
Yoo Hee-jin is known as the most loved supporting actress in the history of Korean dramas.
Frankly, I have a soft spot for Yoo Hee-jin, who is the most dazzling supporting actress in the history of Korean dramas.
Compared with other supporting actresses who are either vicious or going dark, Yoo Hee-jin is undoubtedly the real White Lotus.
Whether it's the smiling queen, the resilient princess, or the terminally ill Hee-jin, they all add an irresistible charm to her.
But is Hee-jin really invulnerable?In fact, this is not the case, there are indeed some parts of her personality that do not match Zhenxuan.
First of all: in a lofty position.
Hee-jin shows a high level of self-confidence and sometimes even excessive conceit, which can be observed in many subtleties.
After completing her cancer**, she first went to the restaurant to look for Zhen Xuan, and entered directly during a break in the store. Although Sanshun tried to ask several times, he received no response. It wasn't until she confirmed that Zhenxuan was indeed not present that she began to talk to Sanshun.
Hee-jin didn't give too much care and consideration to Henry, the second male who has always had deep feelings for her and was willing to help her. Despite Henry's repeated assertions that his mother was blind, Hee-jin still didn't take it seriously.
She is full of confidence in her relationship with Zhenxuan, because these subtleties make her sure that when her boyfriend encounters a major incident, she will not hesitate to leave without giving any explanation.
Hee-jin asks Sam-soon to leave when she is unsure if Jin-hyun is really in love, and after realizing that Jin-hyun has feelings for Sam-soon, she negotiates with her again.
But Sam Shun refuted me with one sentence: "Memories are just memories, it has no real power"!
The second point: the idea of striving for perfection.
I always think that compared to Sam Soon, Hee Jin lacks enough wisdom in terms of feelings and life.
She has a strong penchant for emotional cleanliness, is only open to relationships with "princes and princesses", and is intolerant of any minor flaws.
Therefore, when she returned to China, she did not immediately explain the reason to Zhenxuan, but chose to travel around, hoping to appear in Zhenxuan's sight with the best image. She should have thought that as long as Zhenxuan**, they should be back together, without taking into account the self-blame, pain and suffering he has experienced in the past 3 years.
On that night when Zhenxuan misunderstood that she was with Henry, she firmly refused to turn back, just as she insisted that Zhenxuan hold hands first, she needed to get the other party's understanding and accommodation.
If it weren't for Henry revealing the truth, she wouldn't even have had a chance to reconcile with Zhenxuan - in her heart, Zhenxuan could only be with her because she loved her deeply, and no other feelings of sympathy or pity could exist.
However, for Zhenxuan, her self-sacrifice and inner touch also constitute a kind of mental torture
In fact, after reuniting with Jin-hyun Hee-jin, the two are obviously no longer suitable for each other, and they both have developed a crush on other people without knowing it.
At a critical moment in the relationship: Jin-hyun seeks Sam-soon's care and warmth, while Hee-jin needs Henry's care and care.
If Zhenxuan Sansoon mistakenly thinks that he will not have a crush on someone, but ends up falling in love with him, then Zhenxuan Hee-jin mistakenly thinks that she still has feelings for him, but changes her mind.
Three years ago, Zhenxuan was a carefree and wealthy kid, but after a car accident, he was under heavy financial pressure. The tragic death of his brother and sister-in-law also indirectly led to the death of the manager's son. His lovely niece suffered from aphasia overnight, and it was at this time that his girlfriend, who had been in love with him for many years, chose to leave.
Therefore, he incarnates as a cold prince and does not even leave himself the right to laugh.
Whenever he meets Hee-jin again, he is always bound by "moral shackles". Obviously, in his eyes, he will always look like a "bad man".
Although Hee-jin's departure has caused him deep pain, he can't open his heart without pressure and return to the carefree days of the past, citing "I love you" and "I'm for your good".
Love at this moment is no longer sweet, but full of responsibilities and memories.
It was the timely appearance of Sanshun that saved his life.
He has the ability to get into a quarrel with Sam Shun, cry while lying on her stomach, and laugh during a flour fight. There's no need to hide your vulnerability.
Sanshun's theories about chocolate, the Pacific Ocean, and hormones often touched his heart and caused him to rekindle his expectations for life.
His pursuit of Sanshun is undoubtedly based on his nature, he cannot resist the desire for happiness, and perhaps as people get older, what people pursue in love is the most stable and ever-changing part of life.
Hee-jin has long developed feelings for Henry, but she herself has not yet realized it.
In a moment of depression, she approached Henry for companionship and expressed her grief to Henry, and it was Henry's words that made her revisit the choice she had made three years ago.
If it were you, would you choose to leave alone?」
No, I am willing to share this responsibility with him. 」
Hee-jin had a date with Zhen-hyun, but found that he didn't care about the disappearance of the restaurant before, and she couldn't help but say, "Henry will never be like this, he always cherishes every precious memory!."”
Therefore, love is actually a blind worship of time and place.
Every relationship is inseparable from sincere giving, but to be together for a long time, you need the right time and place.
In love, everyone has their own best time node, and only by grasping this opportunity can the flower of love bloom more gorgeously. At the most critical moment, if you miss it, you really miss it.