According to surging news reports, on December 25, a Mr. Wu in Hebi, Henan Province, shared that he rented a bus as a wedding car. Mr. Wu said that it was his wife's idea, and his parents also expressed their support. Judging from the scene, the entire bus compartment was decorated with a red happy word very festive, and a couple of newlyweds and their relatives and friends sang and clapped their hands with smiles on their faces, a festive and lively scene, which made people feel "a different kind of romance".
The groom, Mr. Wu, said in an interview that at first they also went to see the wedding car fleet, but they felt "quite ordinary and unremarkable", and with the support of their parents, they finally chose to rent a bus as a wedding car. Because the bride is a foreigner, the groom also specially customized the route, taking the bride and her relatives and friends around Hebi City to let them see the local characteristic neighborhoods. "It not only saves economic costs, but also is particularly memorable, which feels good. ”
In all fairness, having a wedding is indeed a headache for prospective couples, not only taking into account the opinions of both parents, but also taking care of the feelings of relatives and friends, and even having a "can't be worse than a little friend" comparison mentality. From the selection of guest lists and gifts to the formulation of banquet standards for wedding car venues, after a wedding, the newlyweds often feel only one word: tired. The reason why the newlyweds in Henan rent a bus as a wedding car is not only because it is "rare and distinctive", but also because it is a brave choice for a couple to have a lot of discussion, never internal friction, and intentions.
As a notarial ceremony, the original intention of the wedding is to obtain the recognition and blessing of the society, and the significance should be greater than the formality. However, due to the influence of traditional customs, some newlyweds often come up with "requirements and standards" when they talk about marriage. If the two parties agree on the same concept, it is understandable, but the embarrassment lies in the fact that due to the influence of factors such as the growth environment and educational philosophy, there are more or less conceptual conflicts between the married parties.
For example, in some areas, there is a custom of giving a bride price to a woman, and the specific number ranges from tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands. One side believes that this is a long-standing local tradition and a litmus test of love, and it is a must. The other side believes that it is a backward custom and an obstacle to love, which cannot be given or cannot be given. The end result is either unhappy or resentful. Customs such as "engagement to bride price and marriage to buy a house" directly point to economic strength, which has an impact on the current social mentality is that some young people have marriage anxiety and frequently complain on the Internet that they "can't get married".
Love begins with a heartbeat and ends with peace of mind, and no matter how vigorous the relationship is, it will eventually return to the simple "life". As the bride Ms. Fan said, "It is more cost-effective to use the bus as a wedding car, and you can use the saved money to travel", which is the attitude of living a down-to-earth life. In this sense, the most important thing for young people to get married is never to do a big job, as long as both parties are in love with each other, a bus can also bring full romance.
Standing dusk with you in your spare time, smiling in front of the stove and asking for porridge and warmth. The reason why the wedding of this young couple ** touches people is because in them, we see the simplest appearance of marriage and love.
Upstream news commentator Yao Li.