Comics The real marriage status of middle-aged couples, happiness depends on pretending!
You see, after so many years as a husband and wife, aren't others still envious of us?Chen Wei looked at his wife lying on the edge of the bed in the dimly lit bedroom at night, smiling meaningfully.
Shao Yanwei didn't answer, just sighed softly and turned over.
I know what's going on in her heart, because so do I. Our marriage is all about pretending.
Chen Wei and Shao Yanwei were a college couple, and after graduation, they entered the palace of marriage. They have a smart and lively daughter, a house, a car, and a job, and they look extremely happy on the surface. However, behind this happiness, there is the loneliness and depression that two middle-aged people silently endured.
In the morning, Chen Wei stood in front of the mirror to arrange his tie, and I asked, "Are you happy?"”
He stopped his movements and looked at me through the mirror, "I don't know. ”
We act every day, to our daughters, to our parents, to our friends, and even to each other. Shao Yanwei often thinks about whether the marriage can still be maintained if she no longer pretends
Are we really happy?One night, Shao Yanwei couldn't help but ask Chen Wei a question.
Chen Wei was silent for a long time, "I think we are happy, but there is just some pressure and trouble. ”
His words made me feel even more lonely. Shao Yanwei understands that what she is talking about is not only the pressure and troubles of life, but the pursuit of true happiness.
However, in this real society, who can calmly face their hearts?Everyone is running away, they are pretending, all the joys, sorrows and sorrows are drowned in this piece of falsehood.
Every time my friends envy us, Shao Yanwei always smiles very brightly, as if she is really happy. But only I know that it was her fake smile.
The happiness of marriage depends on pretending. This is the real situation of middle-aged couples. We can choose to continue pretending, or we can choose to face reality. But no matter what way we choose, the only thing that can't change is that we still need to live and face each day.