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Preface: In the process of family education, parents often encounter various problems and troubles. How to better guide children so that they can better and more confidently cope with all kinds of difficulties in life in the journey of life is a topic that every parent should seriously study. On the road of family education, we can learn from many experienced teachers and famous teachers, and draw a lot of valuable educational wisdom from them. Today, I would like to tell you the story of Mr. Zhang, a parent named "".
Disrespect for her daughter.
My daughter was in second grade, and once in evening class, a boy suddenly jumped on her shoulder belt. This was extremely displeasing and rude to her daughter. It wasn't the boy's first time, and he came twice more without fear. Her daughter did not show weakness either, turned around and gave the little boy a slap. But the little boy did not show weakness, picked up a book and smashed it on her head. The girl was slapped even more by him, she got up from the ground, picked up a chair and scuffled with the little boy. The class was in a mess, and the class president walked over and called both of them into the principal's office.
Expansion: The film is about a girl who shows strength and bravery when she gets into an argument with a boy. She did not blindly tolerate it, but took the initiative to defend her rights and expressed her dissatisfaction and indignation to the fullest. In the process of educating children, we must vigorously advocate and nurture this spirit of daring to fight. Children should be taught the importance of self-protection and sticking to the bottom line, and taught how to deal with conflicts and not to use force to solve problems. At the same time, it also shows that the current phenomenon of school bullying is very serious, and it requires the joint efforts of schools and the whole society to make every child learn and Xi develop in a good environment.
Teacher Zhang's concern and understanding of family life.
The little girl's actions attracted the attention of the school, and the parent, Ms. Zhang, received ** and asked to resolve the matter. After understanding the situation, the first thing Mr. Zhang did was to hug his child and give her emotional recognition and understanding. This hug let her know that no matter at any time, at any time, anywhere, anywhere, there is a warm haven. This kind of acceptance and understanding is essential for children to feel loved, accepted, and understood, which in turn improves their self-confidence and self-esteem. Mr. Zhang's embrace is not only a kind of love, but also a kind of parenting wisdom.
Expansion: Mr. Cheung has shown love and understanding for his children in family life. When she saw her daughter being bullied and hurt, Ms. Zhang did not blame or scorn, but gave him a big hug and comfort. This hug made her feel the warmth and security of her family. This wisdom of parenting teaches us that parents, when their children are in trouble, they must hold on tightly and lean on themselves. When children encounter difficulties and setbacks on the road of life, they must also have a solid and warm "backer" to support, so that they can feel that there is a force behind them to support them. Only in this way will his mental state be more stable and will not be so easily defeated.
Mother's strength and support.
When she returned home, she told her mother everything she had been through. However, the little boy's father, as well as his teacher, asked his daughter to apologize. Her daughter categorically refused to admit her mistake and said that she would never read again. When my mother heard this, she said to the director of discipline and his father, "Both, try my daughter's shoulder strap to me first, and see if she agrees." What does it mean that you asked my daughter to apologize to you?These words made the director of education and the child's father speechless, and then they realized what they had done wrong and made an unreasonable request. The girl's mother stood up and stood firm for the rights of her children. Her mother's persistence and help made her feel loved and cared for, and gave her greater courage to face difficulties bravely.
Expansion: In the film, the girl's mother shows her determination and help. As a mother, she is not only a mother, but also a staunch supporter. Whenever she faced unfairness and ignorance, she would stand up and support her with actions and words. She firmly rejected the request of the director of discipline and the boy's father, and made it clear that she wanted to protect her child. Such firmness and support are the most precious and precious for children. It's a good lesson that when we see something wrong with our children, we shouldn't just stand by and don't blame them. We need to stand up and speak up for our children with our words and deeds, and provide them with adequate support and protection. Only then will his son become more determined, more determined, more determined in the face of any obstacle.
Conclusion: The cultivation of confidence and courage in children is the focus of family education. We need to care for and understand children so that they can feel cared for by their families, schools and society. The story of Tutor Cheung teaches us that when our children are disrespected or disrespected, we should have the courage to face them up and give them the support and assistance they need. On this basis, it is necessary to actively cooperate with schools and communities, increase the intensity of education for students, increase the importance of student safety education, and create a healthy environment for every child to grow up.