Introduction: Marriage is an important topic in life, and how to maintain oneself and be respected in marriage is a question that many women have been exploring. There are women who compromise in their marriages and still don't get the respect they deserve;And some women can make their in-laws dare not despise them. What kind of "power" is hidden behind this?
1. Have your own career and income**.
Xiaoling is a career-oriented woman, she has a stable job and income before marriage**. After marriage, she did not give up her career, but continued to work hard and constantly improve herself. Her mother-in-law initially had some opinions about her, thinking that she should be at home with a husband and children. But Xiaoling was not affected by these remarks, she said firmly: "I have my own career and income, and I can contribute my own strength in the family." Her firmness and self-confidence made her gradually change her perspective and begin to respect and appreciate her abilities and values.
Inner Monologue: I know that my career and income are independent and confident**, and I will not give them up because of anyone's words. I want to prove my worth with my own efforts and let my in-laws see that I am not only a good wife, but also a capable woman.
Second, it has its own principles and bottom line.
Xiaofang is a gentle and kind woman, and she always accommodates her husband and in-laws in her marriage. However, her accommodation did not get due respect, but made her in-laws feel that she was weak and deceitful. In a family conflict, Xiaofang firmly expressed her principles and bottom line, she said: "I can accommodate and tolerate you, but this does not mean that I can tolerate your contempt and disrespect for me." Her firmness made her in-laws realize that her principles and bottom line could not be touched, and they respected and valued her more from then on.
Inner Monologue: I know that accommodation and tolerance are part of a marriage, but that doesn't mean I can give up my principles and bottom line. I want to use my firmness to let my in-laws see the strength and value of my heart.
3. Have the ability to think independently and solve problems.
Xiaoli is a smart and independent woman who is always able to think independently and solve problems in her marriage. When her in-laws encounter some difficulties, she is always able to put forward constructive opinions and suggestions to help her in-laws solve their problems. Her intelligence and independence made her in-laws trust and respect her.
Inner Monologues: I know that the ability to think independently and solve problems is one of my great strengths in a marriage. I want to use my wisdom and strength to contribute to the family, so that my in-laws can see that I am not only a good wife, but also a capable partner.
4. Good communication and presentation skills.
Xiaomei is a good communicator, and she is always able to maintain good communication with her husband and in-laws in her marriage. When encountering some misunderstandings and contradictions, she is always able to listen patiently and explain to resolve the contradictions. Her good communication and presentation skills make her in-laws trust and respect her.
Inner Monologue: I know that good communication and presentation skills are one of my great strengths in a marriage. I want to use my patience and understanding to listen to and understand the thoughts and needs of my in-laws, and use my expressive skills to convey my thoughts and emotions. This will not only avoid misunderstandings and conflicts, but also enhance mutual understanding and trust.
5. Have the ability to improve and grow yourself.
Xiao Jing is a woman who pays attention to self-improvement, and she is always learning and Xi and growing in her marriage. Whether it's learning Xi new skills or participating in various social activities, she is always able to continuously improve her abilities and values. Her ability to improve and grow makes her in-laws full of respect and appreciation for her.
Inner Monologues: I know that self-improvement and growth are one of my great responsibilities in a marriage. I want to use my efforts and Xi to constantly improve my ability and value and make myself a better and more attractive woman. This will not only make you more confident and independent, but also bring more happiness and joy to your family.
Conclusion: It is not easy to be respected and valued in marriage, but as long as we have the above five "great things", we will definitely be able to maintain ourselves in marriage, be respected, and win the appreciation and support of our in-laws. Let's work together to become a capable, principled, intelligent, communicative and self-improving woman who can show her worth and charm in marriage