1. Learn to say less and do more, and don't say what you shouldn't say.
In our lives, there are often many people who have a good mouth, who like to exaggerate and talk about other people's things in a big way, but in fact they don't really do much.
On the contrary, those who are obscure are often the ones who really do things, and they don't say too much, but prove themselves with actions.
I used to have a colleague who always liked to exaggerate his abilities and achievements, but he didn't actually do anything worth mentioning.
On the contrary, another colleague of mine, he rarely speaks, but his work is obvious to all. This example made me understand a truth, that is, say less and do more, and don't say what should not be said.
2. Unless the other party takes the initiative to ask for advice, don't point anything to others casually.
In our lives, we always come across some self-righteous people who like to point fingers at other people's things, but don't really have much real ability.
I used to have a friend who always liked to give me all kinds of advice on my life and work, but his advice didn't necessarily work for me.
On the contrary, another friend of mine, he rarely gave advice on my life and work, but he was always able to provide the most appropriate advice when I needed help.
This tells us not to think that we are better than others, and not to give random advice to others unless they ask for our opinion.
Everyone has their own way of living and working, and we should respect the choices of others rather than trying to change them.
3. Interpersonal relationships are essentially value exchanges, if you have no value in your own right, not many people will pay attention to you.
In our lives, we always encounter a variety of relationship problems. Sometimes we feel that others don't value us, but it's actually because we don't provide enough value to them.
Relationships are essentially an exchange of value, and if you don't have much value in your own right, not many people will pay attention to you.
It's not that we need to be valuable in everything, but we need to find what we're good at and keep improving our abilities.
When we have our own expertise and characteristics, we will attract more people's attention and recognition.
4. Friends will also turn against each other, and you never know if your friends will fall into the well when you need it most.
Friends are one of the most important relationships in our lives. But there will also be all kinds of problems between friends, and sometimes there will even be cases of rebellion, betrayal, betrayal, and betrayal.
This is not to say that we should not trust our friends, but we should recognize that people are separated from each other. When we encounter difficulties and setbacks, friends are one of the people we need the most.
But sometimes friends aren't always able to help when we need it most.
This is not to say that we should not trust our friends, but to recognize that everyone has their own lives and problems, and they also have their own difficulties and challenges to face.
5. Learn to refuse some things that you can't help. Some people shouldn't be helped, and some people don't deserve help.
In our lives, there are times when we encounter some people or things that need help. But there are some things we can't help, some things we shouldn't help, and some people don't deserve help.
At this time, it is especially important to learn to refuse. These perspectives have given us a lot of inspiration and made us more aware of the nature of interpersonal relationships and the issues that need to be paid attention to when dealing with interpersonal relationships.