Those of us who were in the first few fights won "prestige" among children, and also grasped the "power" to judge right and wrong and judge. If there is a dispute between children, they will come to us to deal with it. At this time, in order to avoid being bullied, some "smart" children will give us delicious food or small toys that they bring from home to play with for a few days, on the condition that we are required to "protect" them for a few days. Depending on the "value" of what they send, we judge the number of days they are "protected", ranging from one day to a week, and then the two parties come to a verbal agreement.
After we get the benefits, we will abide by this "rule" and fulfill our "protection" responsibilities with due diligence. If someone wants to beat up a child, he suddenly says, "Whoever 'cares' me!".By "controlling," he meant being "protected" by whomever he was. The man usually stops. If that protector is better than his own fight, it is because he doesn't dare, or he sells favors to give the other party a face. Everyone has their own sphere of influence, and they are generally uneventful. Now that I think about it, this is the typical monkey king principle. From the perspective of human sociality, it is the "Liangshan Law", which is the nature of small "**". But what about the "white society"?
Teacher Zhao will definitely hear about our daily fighting, killing and killing, but I think she may not be able to really understand the whole and truth of the matter, for example, she may not know that other children will take the initiative to "pay protection money" to us, and the psychological insight into children is a Xi that requires professional learning and practice. I certainly don't expect from the early to mid-80s of the last century, and my 18-year-old teacher who had no professional training. But our teacher Zhao must be very angry with us for this behavior, but it seems that there is no way to deal with it, and there is nothing to be done. In the end, she pointed the finger at the boss Zhao Liguo. She admonished him not to be naughty and to be "honest and obedient", but Zhao Liguo didn't care.
I remember that there was a lunch break that summer, Zhao Liguo was lying on the floor of the classroom, the teacher said that he didn't listen, and the teacher gently stepped on his calf with the front part of the high heel, the purpose was to "punish" or "warn" him, but Zhao Liguo "giggled" and laughed. As soon as the teacher saw it, he increased his strength a little more and stepped on it again, and Zhao Liguo was still laughing. As soon as the teacher saw that he was still smiling, he really stepped on it hard, this time Zhao Liguo stopped laughing, felt the pain, and cried directly. In fact, this was not the intention of my kind teacher, as soon as she saw it, she knew that she had overexerted herself, and she felt regretful, and she was at a loss for a while.
There were a few days in kindergarten, during class, some children would raise their hands and tell the teacher that they wanted to go to the toilet, but the teacher disagreed. I suspect that the teacher may have thought that the children, especially the boys, were deliberately mischievous and wanted to go out to play under the pretext of going to the toilet, so they were not allowed. Actually, this is not the case, but when children say this, they do have a need to go to the toilet, and they are not lying.
Once, my former Tazhuang classmate Zhao Chundong shouted a report to the teacher, saying that he was going to relieve his hands. And the teacher never agreed, and later forgot about it, so Zhao Chundong had to hold it all the time. It happened that Zhao Chundong's crotch opened that day, revealing a small **, he had no choice, so he sat on the small bench and urinated directly on the ground during class. At the end of class, the teacher saw a puddle of water on the small bench and the dirt floor, and understood that he really wanted to pee. However, my kindergarten teachers basically respected the laws of nature and human physiology, and agreed with the basic needs of the children. Therefore, this incident can only be regarded as a minor episode and can be ignored. The real distress we were over was the teacher we met in the first and second grades of elementary school.