Singer Yu Shuzhen became famous for singing the song "Our Life is Full of Sunshine".
Her friend commented pertinently: "Be honest and honest, and be serious in your work." ”
This old artist is both virtuous and artistic, but in his later years, he fell into the situation of spending 17 years in a nursing home!
Shuzhen once appeared on the Spring Festival Gala and sang 4 songs in a row, which was one of her most glorious moments.
"Phoenix Tail Bamboo in the Moonlight" has become a classic that has been praised by people for a long time.
Although she obviously has a son and a daughter, her old age is "bleak" in the eyes of outsiders.
Sook-jin's children were accused of disrespecting their parents for a while.
The audience was even moved, but they didn't know that there was another reason for all this.
So, why did Shuzhen choose not to go home, but to live in a nursing home?
Career and love are balanced.
At her peak, Yu Shuzhen was a well-known soprano singer in China.
It is not only loved by domestic audiences, but also highly praised by international friends even during international visits.
The reason why she lives in a nursing home and has a "bleak evening" all starts with her husband's story.
Despite her fame, Yu Shuzhen still maintained a love and satisfaction for life when she was young.
However, some veteran troupe members began to worry about her private life, and they thought it was time for her to find her own home.
As a result, everyone began to look for a suitable other half for this excellent girl.
A man surnamed Yan, who stands out among many suitors, successfully catches her attention.
Sook-jin wasn't very interested in romance at first.
However, once she understood Comrade Yan's character, she even had a trace of expectation for love.
What's more, I have reached the age suitable for marriage, maybe I can try to date.
Finally, under the pursuit of Comrade Yan, Yu Shuzhen agreed to associate with him.
In the process of falling in love, she was deeply touched by the other party's thoughtfulness and warmth.
The relationship between the two was full of warmth and mutual respect, and soon came to the stage of marriage.
At that time, people's love was very simple.
In their day-to-day lives, they also ushered in the birth of a son and a daughter.
Although their daily lives are uneventful, they are full of happiness.
Yu Shuzhen's career ushered in a new turning point in 1976.
When she was preparing to perform in Japan with the Tianjin Song and Dance Troupe, she met Lu Yuan, a famous songwriter, while reporting on the performance in Beijing.
Lu Yuan plays the role of a benefactor in her career, just as her husband is in her family life.
After listening to Yu Shuzhen's singing, Lu Yuan said that he must cooperate with her, and he was full of expectations.
Sure enough, 3 years later, Lu Yuan created the theme song of the movie "Sweet Career".
He immediately remembered Yu Shuzhen and sent her an invitation to sing.
As a result, Yu Shuzhen's masterpiece "Our Life is Full of Sunshine" came out.
Since then, Yu Shuzhen has completely become a well-known figure and almost a household name.
She sang four songs alone at the second Spring Festival Gala in 1984, and her popularity reached its peak.
She later sang songs such as "Phoenix Tail Bamboo in the Moonlight" and "Spring Water Ding Dong", each of which became classics.
However, she sang diligently for more than 10 years and finally had to retire from the stage when she was old.
Yu Shuzhen was 62 years old in 1998.
After spending most of her life busy, she decided to retire and enjoy life leisurely.
Children are accused of being unfilial because of a decision made by their husbands.
Children are unjustly blamed at a young age.
Comrade Yan, Yu Shuzhen's husband, actually suffers from high blood pressure, diabetes and other geriatric diseases, and often needs to be hospitalized**.
Whenever she was sick, Yu Shuzhen's children would rush home from Tianjin and Beijing to visit her, but this often affected their work.
In order not to increase the burden on her children, Yu Shuzhen took the initiative to live in a nursing home after retirement.
Her children were both surprised and upset by the decision.
They worry that their parents' quality of life in nursing homes may deteriorate, and they fear that they may be misunderstood.
However, Sook-jin firmly sticks to her own ideas.
She believes that she can be accompanied by her peers in a nursing home, while also being cared for by professional caregivers.
She and her wife, Comrade Yan, think this is their best choice.
Although the children have opposed and persuaded her many times, Yu Shuzhen has made up her mind.
She is worried that her pension problems will have a negative impact on her children's lives, so she is reluctant to do so.
However, once the news spread, some netizens began to question whether Yu Shuzhen's children were filial.
Faced with this situation, Yu Shuzhen certainly did not want her children to be wronged.
She explained it herself and said it was the best choice for her and her wife.
She also hopes that her children will not be misinterpreted, as they are very filial children.
This decision undoubtedly shows that Yu Shuzhen's thinking is very avant-garde and very open-minded.
In fact, going to a nursing home does not mean that the children are not filial piety.
The younger generation is now under so much professional pressure that they simply cannot take care of the elderly.
Although the old couple agreed to live with their children.
They go to work during the day, and only the old couple are alone at home.
The residents of the nursing home are not only well cared for, but also enjoy a rich and varied entertainment life.
Of course, the most important thing is to reduce the stress of children.
It was touching to learn that the old artists cared so much about the children.
Everyone no longer criticized her children, but was touched by her understanding of them.
Yu Shuzhen and her husband, Comrade Yan, have been living in the nursing home for several years and have long been Xi to life here.
They love to chat with their peers, and although occasionally someone comes to learn to sing from Yu Shuzhen, she always politely declines their requests.
She believes that singing and teaching singing are completely different, so that just because she sings well herself doesn't necessarily mean that she can teach singing well.
Looking back on her life journey, Sookjin feels very satisfied.
It is a blessing to be able to sing well in my life and win everyone's love.
So, how did Sook-jin start her singing career?
After her mother's unexpected death, she took on the responsibility of taking care of her eight younger siblings and took on the responsibility of the family early.
Yu Shuzhen's family moved to Tianjin in 1949.
She has reached the age of 16 and is assigned to an apprenticeship in an instrument factory, where she has to repeat the heavy manual labor every day.
In order to ease the financial burden on her family, she had to give up her dream of studying and instead devote herself to earning money to support her family.
Even so, Sook-jin still tries to teach herself to sing in her spare time.
She devotes almost all of her free time to singing, even late at night when she goes to the amateur singing group to learn Xi.
While the teacher was explaining in class, she carefully took notes in her notebook, and after returning home, she had to continue to practice repeatedly Xi, and she didn't dare to slack off.
Every day after work, Yu Shuzhen will quickly go to the singing group for singing training.
Her singing and performance gradually reached a moving realm, singing and singing, the more her voice sounded, and the more brilliant her performance became.
The leaders happened to hear Yu Shuzhen's singing at the Tianjin Opera House and were deeply moved.
Yu Shuzhen was arranged to perform in a factory that day.
She was engrossed in singing, but she didn't expect that it was the leader of the Tianjin Opera House sitting in the audience.
The leader was moved by Yu Shuzhen's singing voice and was impressed by her.
Therefore, Yu Shuzhen was transferred to the Tianjin Opera House to receive professional and systematic training.
From now on, she officially stepped into the path of becoming a singer.
Under the guidance of her teacher, her singing skills were taken to the next level, and she soon became a skilled professional singer.
At the same time, Sook-jin also ushered in the true love of her life.
The handsome guy who sent the order sent it to her personally sent it back then, and later became her husband.
They supported each other until their gray hair turned gray.
There are many other celebrities who have chosen to live in nursing homes in this way.
An old artist who doesn't want to add trouble to his children.
Lao Xu, do you want a wife or not?
I believe this line will not be unfamiliar to everyone.
This sentence is a line from Niu Ben in the original book of "Wrangler".
The works accumulated over the years have won many fans, making Niu Ben a well-known old artist who is loved by people.
Not only did he excel in his career, but he also sponsored hundreds of underprivileged children, for which he was awarded the "Lifetime Achievement Award".
However, even this talented and artistically accomplished veteran actor will inevitably face a lonely situation in his later years.
Niu Ben has smooth sailing in his acting career, but his family life is not so smooth.
His wife died of illness in his later years, leaving him alone for the rest of his life.
Whenever Niu Ben saw the bits and pieces of the house where he lived with his wife, he felt sad and unwilling to live alone.
Despite having two sons, Niu Ben was reluctant to live with them.
Even if they live together, they can't take care of themselves.
Therefore, he decided to spend his old age alone in a nursing home so as not to burden his children.
Zhu Xijuan, an old actor who starred in "Red Detachment of Women", also made the same choice.
In 2016, Zhu Xijuan and her husband followed their daughter's advice and decided to return to Shenzhen for the elderly, because they believed that "falling leaves return to their roots" was a wise saying.
Zhu Xijuan, 79, made a decision in 2017 to live in a nursing home with her 82-year-old husband.
This decision was well thought out and discussed**.
Although their children were surprised and tried to stop it, they eventually agreed to the matter.
Zhu Xijuan explained that this is mainly due to several considerations:
The concern is that living together for two generations could lead to conflict.
The second point is the difference between the elderly and the young.
They also take into account that they don't want to put additional financial pressure on their children's families.
The nursing home facilities are now in good condition and can find more happiness.
The decision of the two veteran artists shows their attitude towards living independently and understanding their children.
They want to be able to live their lives and not be a drag on their children.
It is necessary for us to learn from and Xi learn from this independent concept of pension.
Conclusion: Teacher Shuzhen's wisdom and outlook on life have given us profound inspiration.
They approach the issue of aged care with an open mind and are aware of the importance of space for each other.
This concept has an important enlightening effect on family relations in contemporary society.
Although she has entered her old age, Yu Shuzhen still has a fiery love for **.
She was also invited to participate in and sing "My Motherland and Me", which was in 2019.
Her physical and mental health remains good, and we wish her a long and healthy life.