Speaking is a simple and basic skill, which is the basis of people's daily communication and communication, however, whether to speak properly and proportionately is a more challenging task, which requires more precipitation and wisdom in life. Speaking and being able to speak, these two concepts, although related, are completely different.
A person who is a good communicator does not say arrogant words, as this may cause disgust and hostility from others. They also don't say anything too categorical and put themselves in a situation from which there is no turning back. Above all, not telling lies is a sign of respect and trust in others, as well as a requirement of one's own moral character.
There is a saying:"When a man says three things, he violates the will of heaven. ”So, what are the best things not to say?
1. If you complain about the sky, it's best not to say itIn life, people will inevitably encounter setbacks and difficulties, but complaining and blaming will not solve the problem. People who complain a lot can have a negative impact on those around them, making people feel bored and dissatisfied. Moreover, complaining will not solve the problem, but will put yourself in a deeper predicament. We often say that language is powerful, and often saying something resentful can lead us to fear the problem itself even more, which can lead us to a deeper predicament. Complaining is not an effective way to solve the problem, on the contrary, we should accept and face the reality positively, and try to find ways to change, which is the real smart thing. Only through positive actions and efforts can we change our destiny and achieve our dreams and goals. Go forward and create your own success and happiness. 
2. If you curse maliciously, don't put it in your heartMalicious words can not only hurt others, but also get yourself into trouble. When we attack someone with vicious language, it is likely to provoke the other person, trigger a violent reaction, and even trigger a larger conflict. What's more, the frequent use of these languages can affect our interpersonal interactions and isolate us. Therefore, we should avoid using malicious words to attack others, but instead get along with others in a friendly and respectful manner. In modern society, slandering and negatively judging others will only destroy our interpersonal relationships, and even bring legal problems to ourselves. In life, when dealing with others, we should be kind and respectful, solve problems with a positive attitude, and not attack others with vicious words. 
3. If you look down on others, reflect on yourselfIf we always look down on others, we create more enemies for ourselves, causing those who might have helped and supported us to be less impaired of us. This will hinder our progress and will also make us experience more difficulties and challenges on the road of life. Really smart people are people who love to learn Xi. They improve themselves and enhance their abilities and qualities through continuous Xi. They are aware of their weaknesses as well as their strengths and are able to treat others kindly. They know how to get along with others and how to treat them with respect, which is not only good for their relationships, but also for their growth and development. "When a man says three things, he violates the will of heaven. This sentence is more to express the impact of language on our practical life. In life,We need to learn to respect and treat others with kindness, so that we can gain their respect and support. Only in this way can we go more smoothly in the journey of life and realize the value of our life.
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