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My husband and I have been married for seven years, and life is dull and Xi. Every day, we go to work at home, the company gets off work, and occasionally we go out to eat and watch a movie on the weekends. My husband works as a manager in a foreign company, and he is very busy at work, often needs to work overtime, and it is already late when he comes home. We also communicate less and less, except for some common words, and we haven't sat down for a good chat for a long time. I put my bag on the couch and thought about waiting for my husband to come back and have dinner together. At this time, I accidentally caught a glimpse of my husband's mobile phone on the coffee table, and the screen was still on. I wanted to help him dim his phone, but I saw that there was still some recording on the interface. I curiously leaned over to take a look, the interface said "Little Swallow", and next to it there was a voice that I had never seen that should have belonged to a young girl, and was saying angrily: "Husband, I miss you today, see you tonight!" My brain "buzzed" and exploded all at once. Husband, little swallow? Meet? At night? This is clearly a flirtatious tone! Oh my God, is there another woman out there for my husband? Is he cheating? Impossible, we have been married for so many years, how could he go behind my back to find a mistress? My brain was a mess at this time, and my mind was full of pictures of my husband hooking up with this "little swallow". Jealousy, anger, and unwillingness came to my heart, and I felt like my internal organs were about to burn. At this moment, I heard the sound of the door opening from the entrance, followed by my husband's voice: "Daughter-in-law, I'm back!" ”
When I heard the word "Xiao Wang", I suddenly understood. This little swallow may be the little king! My husband came out after washing his hands, saw that my face was wrong, and asked suspiciously: "What's wrong with you, are you **uncomfortable?" I pointed to the mobile phone on the coffee table with a calm face: "Husband, explain to me, what's going on?" My husband looked at my hand, and his face suddenly changed: "Did you listen to the recording inside?" ”
How else! I said angrily, "Husband, we have been married for many years, and you are looking for a junior behind my back, do you still have a conscience?" Who is Little Swallow, huh? You made an appointment to meet in the evening, just to open a room, right? "Calm down! The husband hurriedly waved his hand, "I really don't know what you're talking about, I don't have a woman!" This must be a misunderstanding! "Misunderstanding? I heard it with my own ears, and you still want to fool me? I finally couldn't hold back my tears, "We've been married for seven years, how can you do this to me!" You guys are behind my back and secretly someone! "Not really! The husband explained anxiously, "That little swallow is really just a new female Xi in the company, you know that there are many girls in our company, they all like to call me old public jokes, nothing else!" "Are you kidding? Was she joking when she asked you to meet at night? I sneered, "Do you think I'm going to believe this lame excuse?" We've been married for years, how can you torture me like this! ”
There really is no other woman! My husband stepped forward and grabbed my hand, "You believe me, it's just a joke of girls, I don't have any thoughts about them, I've always loved you alone!" "I don't believe it! I shook off my husband's hand, "Since we got married, have you treated me like this?" I've paid so much for this family, but you stole people behind my back when I didn't know it! Seeing that the explanation was fruitless, my husband's attitude immediately hardened: "Just a joke, you slander me like this, we have been married for many years, how can you distrust me like this!" I was irritated by my husband's words: "Slander? It's you who is a thief! I heard the recording with my own ears, how long do you want to quibble? "The more the two of us argued, the more intense it became, and our eyes were red. I was so sad and angry, the marital emotions that had accumulated for many years collapsed at this moment, and I could no longer trust this man who betrayed me! 
Hearing me say the word "divorce", my husband's face changed instantly. He stepped forward and hugged me, and his tone softened: "Don't be like this, let's talk well, don't be impulsive." I pushed my husband away hard, tears welling up in my eyes: "Have a good talk? I thought we had been married for many years and had a stable relationship, but you were looking for a woman outside, what else could we talk about? Am I so annoying to you? "No, it is! My husband also had red eyes, "Give me a chance to explain, it's really all a misunderstanding!" Trust me! "I've trusted you for so many years! I cried, "Now I hear the evidence with my own ears, and I still want me to believe your words?" Are you taking me for a fool? ”
My words seemed to sting my husband, and he was silent for a few seconds, then suddenly knelt down on one knee and held my hand hard: "Am I wrong?" Even if it's just a joke, I shouldn't have let you get hurt, it's all my fault, you forgive me this time, I promise never again! "Looking at my husband's reaction, I have mixed feelings. The man in front of me, I have been married to him for seven years, and I always thought that we would grow old together. I thought our relationship was very strong, but I didn't expect him to be ambiguous with other women in private. I was so sad and disappointed. "Please, don't do this to me. The husband pleaded with red eyes, "Divorce is a devastating blow to both of us, the child is still young, are you willing to let him not have a complete family?" I promise that from now on I will only concentrate on you alone, and there will never be any mistakes again, please give me a chance to make amends! "I looked at my husband's pleading, and I felt very uncomfortable. I thought we would grow old together, but I didn't know that my husband had another woman outside. Even though he was sincere now, I couldn't trust him right away. "I'm sad and disappointed right now and need time to calm down. I looked away, I couldn't bear to look at my husband begging for mercy. 
Seeing that my attitude had softened, my husband hurriedly asked: "Just calm down, as long as you are not in a hurry to divorce, we can talk about the rest slowly." The child is still young and needs the two of us, please don't do anything decisive! I was silent for a while and said, "I'm in a mess right now, don't talk to me." I need to be alone and quiet. With that, I turned around and went back to my bedroom and closed the door. I knew I reacted violently and maybe I did misunderstand my husband. But as a husband, he is still having an affair with another woman, which has seriously hurt my feelings. I need time to calm down and think about what is wrong with us and what I can do to save our marriage. I was lying alone in my bedroom, my mind in a mess. I can't understand why my husband and wife suddenly found a woman outside, but our husband and wife had a good relationship. Is it because I have neglected my husband for too long, and his heart has left me, so I will look for other women to seek comfort? 
This sense of betrayal cut my heart like a knife, and tears flowed uncontrollably. We were married for seven years and had children, and I thought we were going to go on forever. Now the home that I have built with great difficulty is about to be broken because of a foreign woman, and I am unwilling and sad. At this moment, there was a knock on the door, and it was the husband's voice: "Daughter-in-law, don't be angry, can we have a good talk?" I was silent, and when my husband saw that I was silent, he said, "I'm sorry, I was wrong just now, and I shouldn't make you sad." Let's open our hearts and talk, shall we? I wiped away my tears and got up to open the door. My husband was standing outside the door, still holding my favorite snacks and flowers in his hands, and his face was full of guilt. "Are you hungry? Shall we eat something first? The husband asked cautiously. 
I didn't speak, so he had to put the snack on the table and pull me to the edge of the bed and sit down: "I was not good just now, you are qualified to question, as long as you open your mouth, I will tell you everything, and I will never hide it." I looked at my husband's eyes, still full of apologies and love. Maybe I really misunderstood, I was out of control and too excited. "So what's going on? I took a deep breath and asked as calmly as I could. "It's just an unintentional joke, nothing else. My husband explained, "You know that the company comes to the new female Xi, they all like to call me old public jokes, I usually don't mind much, I don't specifically stop them." I probably didn't have Bluetooth off when I left today, that's why you heard that sound. But I assure you that we really don't have any ambiguities, just ordinary colleagues. Listening to my husband's sincere explanation, I had fewer doubts in my heart: "Then don't let other girls call you that in the future, we are husband and wife, this kind of joke is too much." ”
I know wrong. The husband nodded hurriedly, "I promise that it will only belong to you in the future, can you trust me and give me a chance to start over?" I looked at my husband's serious eyes and apologetic expression, and most of the anger in my heart disappeared. Maybe I really misunderstood, as long as my husband is willing to correct it, our relationship can be salvaged. "Then you won't let me eat this kind of flying vinegar in the future, I will always believe you. I finally nodded in agreement. My husband shook my hand with satisfaction: "Don't worry, I will treat you well and give me a chance to win your trust again." I looked at my husband and nodded. After this quarrel, I realized that our relationship was so fragile that it only took a misunderstanding to break up. We must rebuild a solid foundation of relationships and not let suspicion and misunderstanding ruin our homes.