The child lied, the teacher asked me to go to the toilet to eat, and the parents came directly to the door, and the principal took a leave of absence!
Every parent is worried about their child's schooling, especially when they are away from their side, and that worry becomes even heavier. It is difficult to keep an eye on the child at all times, and parents worry about whether they are being adequately cared for and whether they will be harmed.
However, parents must understand that when we send our children to school, it represents trust in teachers and school.
Xiao Xuan is a very naughty child, but despite this, due to his age and gender, his parents don't care too much.
One day, when Xiao Xuan came home from kindergarten, he cried sadly as soon as he entered the door. Xiao Xuan's mother felt very distressed, because the child is usually not a person who cries easily, and she felt that she must have been bullied.
She hurriedly asked, "Child, what's wrong?"”
The child sobbed and said, "The teacher slapped me and told me to go to the toilet with a bowl to eat." ”
The child cried even more as he spoke, and Xiao Xuan's mother saw the child's tears, and her heart was angry and heartbroken.
While comforting the child, she told him that tomorrow she would find a teacher to theorize.
In Xiaoxuan's mother's view, entrusting the child to the teacher is because of her trust in the teacher, and she also hopes that the child can get a better education instead of being beaten and bullied.
The more she thought about it, the more angry she became, and silently decided that she must teach the teacher a lesson.
The next day, Xiao Xuan's mother brought the child to the kindergarten and gave her five slaps as soon as she saw the teacher. The teacher was a little confused at first, not knowing what was going on and not understanding why the parents were doing what they did.
Xiao Xuan's mother thought that the teacher would apologize, but she didn't expect the teacher to become even angrier when she said the reason for her anger.
The teacher made it clear that she did not allow the child to go to the toilet during meals, nor did she inflict corporal punishment on the child. The teacher took Xuanxuan's mother to check the kindergarten monitoring of the day while speaking.
Subsequently, this incident attracted the attention of the kindergarten principal, who said that he felt speechless and helpless about the incident, and persuaded parents on the spot: consider dropping out, because such children, such parents, it is difficult for kindergartens to continue education.
After learning the truth, Xuanxuan's mother felt very embarrassed and embarrassed to let her child continue to go to school in this kindergarten. Later, under her questioning, I learned that the child lied only because he didn't want to go to kindergarten.
We all know that many children lie, some are influenced by the environment, and some are because they have benefited from lying before, so they have developed the Xi of lying. However, most children lie only in exchange for a favor and do not understand the possible consequences.
While it may be appropriate for a child to lie, it can be infuriating for parents to ignore and let their child lie when they are discovered.
If a person is not a sage, he can do no wrong, and if he changes it, he will be very good", and the same is true for children. Children make mistakes and lie, but more importantly, whether children can correct their bad Xi of lying.
When parents find that their children like to lie, how can they help their children correct this Xi?
First of all, parents should carefully observe their children's expressions and daily behaviors, and timely discern whether their children are telling the truth or lies. When parents first find out that their child is lying, they should firmly tell their child that lying is wrong and that it may have bad consequences, so that the child can learn a lesson.
In addition, in their children's school Xi and life, parents should also cultivate their children's honest character, and stop their children from lying or bad behavior in time.
But when children admit mistakes, parents should also praise children for being honest and honest, so that children can understand what is right.
For the kindergarten teacher above, she did suffer a grievance. She taught seriously, but she was suddenly slapped five times by her parents because of a lie about her child, and she didn't even get a chance to explain and listen, which was really wronged.
And for the child, witnessing his mother slap the teacher five times, what kind of thoughts and feelings will he have?This undoubtedly sets a bad example for children.
Therefore, it is important for parents to understand what happened when dealing with their children's problems, and then take appropriate action, otherwise they will only hurt their children and may even harm others.
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