In the hearts of parents, the biggest hope is that their children can have a stable job. In this way, the child can be guaranteed in life and does not have to worry about food. At the same time, as a parent, it is natural to be happy to see that your child can achieve something in the future. Therefore, when the child is promising, parents will also be full of pride, and it is understandable to show off when the time is right.
However, in reality, we can often see that some children have different attitudes towards exams and future careers than their parents of our generation. They seem to be more focused on personal comfort and freedom, and sometimes even behave like "Versailles", leaving many parents confused and incomprehensible.
Recently, a boy complained about his mother on the Internet, saying that he had a serious cold, but his mother forced him to participate in the national public *** the next day, which caused many people to discuss. He thinks that his mother asked him to take the civil service exam not out of concern for him, but for himself to have the capital to show off, and he doesn't care about his health.
It can be seen from the screenshot that the boy had a severe cold on the eve of the national examination, his body temperature soared, and he was also accompanied by chest pain. He was hanging on the water**, and the national exam was on the second day. However, his mother was not completely unconcerned about his physical condition, she just hoped that her son would persevere and take the exam. However, his son's response was surprising, he was very dissatisfied, feeling that his mother was forcing him to take the national exam and did not care about his health at all.
However, in fact, there may be a certain deviation in the boy's understanding of his mother. From the mother's point of view, she may just think that although her son's cold is serious, he can still take the test if he can take the test by hanging water and slightly alleviate his symptoms the next day. After all, the opportunity to take the national exam is rare, and if you miss it for a year, you will wait for another year. It's a pity that this boy misinterpreted his mother's meaning, thinking that his mother disregarded his health and forcibly forced him to take the exam.
This incident has sparked a lot of discussion on the Internet and has been presented with different points of view. Some netizens questioned whether the boy used the cold as an excuse that he was not ready to take the national exam. They believe that people with a little bit of blood will insist on taking the exam in this situation. These netizens said that parents hope that their children can have stable jobs, and the admission to the civil service is also out of such expectations, and it has little to do with whether the mother is showing off outside.
What parents expect from their children is nothing more than that they want them to have a stable job and be able to live a happy life. For children, being admitted to the civil service means a relatively stable job and can get a certain treatment and social status. Parents are naturally happy to see their children accomplished and proud of their children's outstanding performance. The so-called "show-off capital" is just a kind of parents' recognition and celebration of their children's success, and should not be over-interpreted.
In this matter, we should understand the position of parents and children from different perspectives. Both parents and children have their own difficulties and considerations. Parents hope that their children will be able to overcome difficulties and go to exams out of concern and expectation for their children's future. They want their children to show a strong attitude and the courage to face difficulties and not be knocked down by difficulties. Children may be resistant to physical discomfort and want more care and understanding.
In the face of such a situation, we cannot simply put the blame entirely on the parents or children, but understand the positions and ideas of both parties. On the road of life, children will face a variety of difficulties and choices, and these difficulties and choices need to be faced and solved by themselves. Parents only give them some guidance and support, but the final decision is up to the child.
Looking back on my upbringing, I am reminded of a similar situation. At that time, I was also exhausted from the upcoming exams. I was experiencing some symptoms of discomfort and I wanted to be able to take a break and regain my strength. However, my parents insisted that I take the test, believing that it was an opportunity not to be missed.
At that time, I felt very puzzled and aggrieved, why couldn't my parents understand my difficulties and be more concerned and considerate of me?But, after thinking about it, I understood what they meant. They wanted me to overcome the difficulties and face the exam bravely. They believe that this experience will allow me to grow and develop my perseverance and commitment skills.
In fact, they were right. Despite the very difficult situation at the time, I ended up bravely taking the exam and got a good score. This experience made me understand that the road of life is full of difficulties and challenges, and in the face of these difficulties, it is more important for us to have a positive attitude and courage.
Therefore, I think that in this case of the boy and his mother, we should understand the positions of both sides, rather than simply criticizing either side. Parents have normal expectations, and they want their children to have a stable job and live a happy life. When children face difficulties, they should also learn to overcome them and face them positively. After all, setbacks and difficulties in life cannot be avoided, the key is how we can cope and grow. Such experiences will be a valuable asset in our future lives, making us stronger and more confident to face the challenges ahead.