Recently, a boy vented his dissatisfaction with his mother on the Internet, saying that he had a severe cold but was forced by his mother to participate in the national public *** the next day, which caused widespread discussion and controversy. A lot of people are thinking that today's children think about problems in such a peculiar way that they seem to be more focused on self-expression. The boy complained: "It wasn't the national exam that defeated me, but my mother." She asked me to take the civil service exam, not for me, but for herself, to be able to show off, without caring about my physical health. However, judging from the content of the screenshots, the boy apparently had a severe cold during the national examination, with a high fever and chest pain. He was hanging on the water**, and it was just in time for the day before the national exam. His mom wanted him to take the test anyway. The boy thinks that he is in a very bad situation now, his health is very uncomfortable, and he does not want to take the national exam the next day. He found a reason he couldn't refuse:"The body really can't. "Judging from this conversation, the boy was very dissatisfied with his mother's approach, thinking that she was forcing herself to take the national exam and not caring about her physical health at all.
However, judging from the content of the screenshot, the mother did not care about his health as the boy said, nor did she mean to show off. These are all wishful thinking and interpretations by boys. The mother may think that the child just has a cold, although it is more serious, but it has been treated with water, and under normal circumstances, it should be relieved the next day, so you should be able to take the test if you stick to it. After all, the national public *** only has one chance a year, and if you miss this day, you will have to wait another year. However, the boy seriously misinterpreted his mother's meaning, thinking that his mother didn't care about his life and death, and forced him to take the exam, and was dissatisfied. The boy's remarks caused an uncomfortable reaction from many parents on the Internet. Many people are questioning that this boy is using the cold to make excuses for not being ready for the national exam. People who are a little bloody will go to take the test on time. Parents want their children to live a happy life, and being admitted to the civil service is also one of the ways. They will rejoice in their child's accomplishments, not to show them off. As a father of two, if my children were in a similar situation, I would encourage them to take the test. After all, it's a valuable opportunity, and taking the exam is an attitude in itself, regardless of the outcome. If you give up outright, it will make people doubt your child's determination and ability to cope with difficulties.
I believe that all parents are selfless and want their children to have a stable job when they get their children to take exams against all odds. As for whether it will show off, it's just a side thing, and there has to be enough capital to show off. So, what should we make of this matter?Everyone's position and opinion are different, and we should understand our parents as well as our children. Faced with such a situation, no matter what we say, it pales in comparison. The road ahead is still up to the children themselves, and parents can only give care and support. For better or worse, parents worry about their children. We should encourage children to think independently and make their own choices, but also to give guidance and advice when appropriate. The most important thing is to give your child enough space to grow and develop, so that they can learn to make decisions and take responsibility. This is the direction in which every family member works together, and it is also the path of each child's own life.
Through this incident, we can see that contradictions and conflicts between parents and children are inevitable now. Both sides want the other to understand their positions and feelings, but there is often a lack of effective communication and understanding. Parents work hard and put a lot of effort into their children's future, hoping that their children will have a stable job and be proud and proud of it;Children, on the other hand, pay more attention to their own feelings and wishes, and want to enjoy more freedom and choice. In this case, both sides need to have more mutual understanding and tolerance, and find a balance between each other through communication and exchange. Only in this way can a good relationship be established in the family and jointly promote the growth and development of the child.
As a member of modern society, we should also reflect on and pay attention to these issues, strive to promote and disseminate positive and healthy values, and strive for the harmonious development of the relationship between parents and children. We want every family to build an atmosphere of mutual respect and understanding, and to provide an environment for children to be healthy, happy and growing. Only in this way can our society be more harmonious, stable and prosperous.