Family education is very important, in a family, parents can communicate with their children, the family atmosphere is harmonious, the style of work is democratic, and family members can feel that there is a sense of happiness in this family, such a family is a truly happy family. However, in real life, there are not too many such families. In the family, either the father is very macho, or the mother is too strong and self-respecting, and some children are"Little Emperor", no one dares to mess with it. It leads to a tense family atmosphere and a lack of happiness among family members, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of children. Such a family urgently needs members to communicate with each other.
Many parents think that you are my child and should listen to me. This can make my child feel irrational and lose the desire to speak. In addition, many parents do not control their children. They only believe in their own understanding. I think what kind of person you are, or what people say you are.
This recklessness and ** disappoints the children. In his cognition, you, like passers-by, naturally do not have important communication. Some parents also understand the need to master their children, but what's wrong with their approach?They do not respect their children's personal privacy, so that children lose their attention and trust in them, and naturally they will not communicate with them.
Parents should not always look at their children's problems from a personal point of view. Children are growing up and are different from the point of view of things, so the voices that come out are likely to be simple, but they are guessed and misunderstood by the parents themselves because of their differences.
Parents should try to put themselves in the child's shoes so that communication can go smoothly. Children's minds are not easily distorted by the subjective will of the individual, and their feelings are further hurt.
Culturally educated children, such as raising flowers, can succeed by watering them with care, fertilizing, and loving. However, in fact, not everyone can raise flowers well. If you don't understand, you need to consult others, learn Xi and train the accumulated experience and art of growing flowers.
If parents lack the knowledge of their children's education and do not know how to obtain science in **, if they are just looking for books to learn Xi, then this set of books for cultural education of children is the best choice.
This set of books is known as a must-read parenting book set for parents.
Includes five volumes of fine finishing, including:Positive disciplineDon't yell or shout, and cultivate good children, good mothers, better than good teachers"You are the best toy for children" and "How to say that children can listen" five volumes.
In the process of growing up, children will have many thorny problems, such as rebellion, introversion, sensitivity, and school aversion.
Parents have always felt powerless in the face of such parents, but these 5 books are close to life examples to help parents systematically sort out problems and be able to guide their children accurately and correctly.
The content of this book is practical rather than rhetorical. It combines hundreds of real-world cases for in-depth discussions. It's clear what parents should do and what children should do. After reading, you can get a lot of practical operation methods. This is a very practical set of professional books on parenting education.
On the premise of letting children learn respect and gratitude, parents can also learn how to calmly communicate with their children and truly enter their children's hearts.
According to this set of books, parents can clearly know what methods and countermeasures must be adopted to educate their children culturally.
It is not easy to cross the river by feeling the stones, it is ambiguous, and it delays the child.
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