The circle of friends is a place where a person places their emotions. Some words are not suitable for those close to you, but you want to find an outlet for catharsis. The circle of friends becomes the best choice. Choose a suitable group and put all your emotions in the circle of friends. Whether it's the joy that no one celebrates, or the frustration that no one understands, you can speak freely in your circle of friends.
However, with the opening of the circle of friends, there are not only friends but also strangers in the circle of friends. Someday in the future, they will find that they have a little common language, and thus they will intersect.
As a more public occasion, before making friends with people in the circle of friends, you can make a reasonable screening through the remarks and content of the other party in the circle of friends.
When someone in your circle of friends posts this content, don't think about being friends with them. It's not worth making deep friends.
SHAKESPEARE: It was once said that money is a good soldier, and it can make one feel confident.
All the efforts made by a person in his life are related to wanting to make money. Only when they have enough money can they have more options and better maintain the relationships around them.
It's human nature to love money. Even Zhang Ailing, a talented woman, is lonely and talented. She treats money as dung, but she especially enjoys the convenience that money brings. She loves to make money and likes to use it for enjoyment.
However, if you flaunt your wealth excessively, you can foresee that you are a vain person.
Some people in the circle of friends will enjoy some income and material things to show that they are working hard or doing a good business. This is usually the behavior of people in a certain industry, and it is inevitable to bask in the sun on income and material.
However, if you are simply immersed in material things and income, it is not only mixed with the psychology of showing off, but also to a certain extent reflects that this person is more inclined to value material things when making friends with others. If you are a very wealthy person, you should be careful with the other person, probably because you fancy your money. If you don't have enough financial means, 80% of people won't be friends.
People who are really rich and worthy of deep friendships usually keep a low profile and will not easily post their income and wealth in the circle of friends, so as not to make others feel uncomfortable. Those who like to enjoy their income without a bottom line, whether it's their real screenshots or articles, send friends to satisfy their vanity.
The circle of friends is now an open and transparent place, and everyone can easily add strangers they don't know in various ways. So, if you make any remarks in public, you must be measured, otherwise you will expose your cultivation and qualities.
Some people like to expose their privacy in the circle of friends, which is a person's right and freedom, but if the personal privacy sent out makes others feel uncomfortable, it is a different matter.
Because I love writing, I have made a lot of friends in the writing circle. I thought the writer's heart would be pure. Unexpectedly, one day, I saw a partner with a lot of intersections in the circle of friends and posted some private matters between him and his mother.
It may be that there is an irreconcilable conflict within the family, so the screenshot in this chapter shows the dispute between him and his mother. If that's all there is to it, nothing can be explained. After all, everyone has conflicts with their parents. After paying attention to it for a while, I found that the painting style of this friend's circle of friends is getting stranger and stranger.
Not only did I tell the ins and outs of the conflict with my mother very clearly in the circle of friends, but I also called my mother's name in the circle of friends, and even threatened to sever the relationship with my mother, which was overwhelming. This friend was unilaterally deleted by a lot of people, including me.
People who like to expose their privacy will not feel at ease. To get along with such people is undoubtedly to plant a time bomb around them. Once they are unhappy, they will most likely reveal the secret that is hidden between you.
Or he will be outspoken and do something that doesn't seem to him to be too much of a hindrance that will hurt you. Instead of regretting it afterwards, it is better not to make too close friends until you recognize a person and keep a proper distance.
Everyone's life is a piggy bank, and in the process of experience, all kinds of things will be put into it. It's worth noting that the piggy bank has limited space. Something goes in, something is bound to come out.
There will be some unpleasant things in everyone's life to a greater or lesser extent, they often take unpleasant things to heart, their emotions are disturbed by bad things, and they can't accept positive energy and make themselves happier.
So, in a lifetime of endeavors, we should strive for what we want and keep an unaffected distance from people and things that make us feel uncomfortable.
If someone in your circle of friends likes to make a negative comment, choose to block or stay away from them. Don't make deep friends. The energy magnetic fields between people will infect each other. When you are with such people, their negative emotions will gradually transfer to you, making you gloomy and unhappy.
Just like I have a friend who always complains about her husband not making much money after getting married. The mother-in-law didn't know how to care about her, and posted all the negative emotions to the circle of friends, but she never thought about how to make the family environment more harmonious, and never thought about changing herself to affect her husband.
Instead of being a trash can for bad emotions with people who like to make negative reviews, it is better to keep a distance from such people and take the initiative to approach more positive and sunny people.
In life, we can't control what kind of behavior and mood others should have, but we can choose what kind of people we are close to and what kind of life we live.
As the saying goes, things gather by like, and people are grouped.
Don't underestimate the power of circles. If you fit into a circle of positive energy, you will become enlightened and positive. On the contrary, it will only plunge you into endless internal friction.