Everyone wants their life to go smoothly, but often in real life, things backfire and everything seems to be working backwards. At this time, we might as well stop and reflect on whether we have turned our lives backwardsLife is like a road, if we don't know the direction and don't know the priorities, we are prone to act blindly and all the grass and trees. Mai Jia wrote in "Working Towards Talent": "Stubbornly making up for clumsiness is equivalent to going in the opposite direction, which pot is not opened, which pot is not opened, and it is equivalent to going in the opposite direction after discovering talent, which is equal to oneself." ”
We must have a clear understanding of ourselves, understand our strengths and weaknesses, and be clear about our goals and limits. Just like Ma Guangfu, he knows that he is oneFarmers, even if he can sing at the Spring Festival Gala, he doesn't forget to go home to farm. No matter where we go, we must not forget the way we came, otherwise we will lose ourselves.
Sometimes, we live happily, but our hearts are often restless. Why is this so?Probably because we have a lot of thoughts, we can't see through the essence of things, and we can't calm our hearts. Therefore, we must learn to understand the cause and effect of things and look at problems in a backward way. For example, an old lady worries about her daughters' lives, whether it's raining or sunny. However, a kind person pointed out her misconceptions to her, telling her that when it rains, the younger daughter makes money, and on a sunny day, the eldest daughter sellsShoes。When we feel worried, we should use reverse thinking to adjust our mentality and look at problems with a positive way of thinking, so that we can be truly happy.
We often end up in dead ends, or from good to ugly. Some people like to stubbornly persevere, even if they go in the wrong direction, they will persistently move forward. But we can't always put our feet in someone else'sShoes, to understand a pairShoesOnly you know best whether it fits or not, and only you know whether a path is suitable for you. When we encounter a difficult situation, we should not go all the way to the dark, but learn to choose again and try many times, so that we can find unexpected surprises.
If the words are not good, it is better to be silent, and it is written in the "Analects of the Zilu": "If the name is not right, the words are not good;If you don't go your way, you won't get it. "Many times, our words fail to convince others, not because there is something wrong with our words themselves, but because our thinking patterns are not reasonable. When one's words become more and more ineffective, we should remain silent and prove our abilities and opinions with practical actions and achievements. A war of words will only lead to contradictions and troubles, and a proper silence will make others see you as wise.
When we encounter a situation where work or things don't go our way, we often rush to do it, but the results are not satisfactory. It's like catching a chicken, we can't catch a live chicken with a lot of effort. WhileRuralof people can easily catch chickens because they are used to the way they raise chickens. It is often said that "habit becomes nature", if we are not used to a certain job, a certain environment, we should not rush into action. We have to learn to take it step by step, practice more, and after a long time, we can do it smoothly.
We often hope that things will get things done quickly, but often it backfires. When we were children, our parents forced us to become child prodigies, hoping that we would endorse us at the age of three;As adults, we hope to earn tens of thousands of dollars a month, find the perfect partner, and so on. However, the real thing is not that the days are bad, but that there is something wrong with our way of thinking and the wrong direction. Take a turn, make a U-turn, and start over, although it may be a step late, but there is also a chance of being a late bloomer. So don't rush things, be patient and persevering, only in the right direction, success will come faster.
When everything is not going well for us, it is likely that we have turned our lives backwards. We need to reflect on our direction and way of thinking in a timely manner, and adjust our mentality and way of acting. Only by finding the right direction, maintaining inner peace and persistence, can we smoothly move towards success. Remember, life is a tortuous road, and we must continue to learn and grow, constantly adjust and improve ourselves in order to go further.