14-year-old children have no parents to accompany them, so they can only be accompanied by their mobile phones, and overnight, they have formed the habit of playing with mobile phones. Parents should guide their children in a timely manner, don't put too much pressure on their children, assist their children more, care for their children, take their children out for a walk, and encourage them to make more friends, so that children will not be addicted to mobile games.
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What to do if a 14-year-old is addicted to games and has a tough mouth
1. Develop good habits.
Good habits are the foundation of children's self-discipline in the future. Arrange a plan every day, supervise the 14-year-old child to implement it conscientiously, help the child develop good study and life habits, and it is best to establish rules to seriously control the time when the child uses electronic products. Children will be willing to put down their mobile phones when they live a regular life, do things in an organized and planned manner, and have good habits, and slowly learn to self-control, know what they should do when they want, and will not be addicted to games all the time.
2. Give children abundant care and companionship.
The more lonely and frustrated the children, the more they lack a sense of belonging and accomplishment in real life, the more they simply indulge in games. Therefore, the younger the child, the more parents should give the child satisfactory time to accompany and interact with the child. Only then will the child build a solid sense of security and belonging, and the heart will be full. During holidays, parents can take time to take their children to the park for a walk, read books in the library, play outdoor sports, visit museums, travel to various places, etc., and take their children to touch the outside world.
3. Seriously control time.
Respect for children at the same time, ask 14-year-old children to respect the appointment, especially for adolescent children, rebellious psychology is more serious, they often have their own independent thoughts, and are unwilling to follow the parent's arrangement, under the influence of this thought, violence and coercion, are not good results, on the contrary, a contract model of good customs is more pleasing. Parents may wish to make an appointment with their children to play online and give them the least amount of respect.
4. Establish a model of behavior.
The power of exemplary is immeasurable, 14-year-old children play mobile phones, most of the time is due to seeing their parents, people around them are playing, then he also wants to play, because the child's curiosity is strong, the desire for knowledge is strong, and he simply accepts new things, online games are full of them**, coupled with the bad "model" effect of parents, many children are simply trapped in, difficult to self-control. We parents should be ourselves, don't play with mobile phones for a long time, and it will be more convincing when guiding children.
Reasons why 14-year-olds are addicted to mobile phones.
1. Parental influence.
Modern mobile life has become a trend, mobile phones and other electronic life devices have become an inseparable part of life, and it is simply impossible and not entirely correct to want children to completely isolate their mobile phones. Since it is a part of life, it has a reasonable value for its existence, and the more positive the parents' emotional concept of the mobile phone, the more formal the children's emotions about the mobile phone. In fact, we often teach our children not to play with mobile phones, but we hold a mobile phone ourselves, which affects our children.
2. The child lacks companionship.
Without the company of their parents, the second year of junior high school girls feel lonely and have nowhere to appeal, and the rich content information in the mobile phone impacts the child's vision and brain, and the child is more briefly interested in it, indulging in it and forgetting, bored and depressed. Mobile phones have become another entertainment companion for parents to accompany their children, and it has become a habit and cannot extricate themselves.