Many children are too addicted to mobile phones, resulting in a decline in children's learning and a serious lack of social skills. Take your children out for a walk, let them touch the outside world, let them make friends with other people, and let children improve their social skills.
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What should I do if a girl in the second year of junior high school is addicted to her mobile phone and doesn't go out
1. Cultivate children's interests and hobbies between boring learning and playing with mobile phones. Therefore, if you want a girl in the second year of junior high school to automatically put down her mobile phone, she must learn to cultivate her children's interests and hobbies. For example, drawing, singing, dancing, musical instruments, etc., when children find fun in it, they will spend more on hobbies and hobbies, and at the same time they can make more playmates who are in love.
2. Lower your parental posture.
Girls in the second year of junior high school often have a "** feeling" in their hearts, they hope that their ideas, behaviors, and emotions will be recognized by the people around them, if parents still treat them as children, they will naturally respond and resist parents in immature ways. In this regard, parents can try to communicate with their children from their perspective, encourage them to express their ideas, clarify the reasons for their children's addiction to mobile phones, and then patiently guide their children to clearly understand the damage of mobile phone addiction.
3. Have a good adolescent parent-child relationship.
Communication is a bridge to solve problems, and adolescent girls are very difficult to communicate, because they are beginning to rebel, no matter what parents say, she has a reason to refute, in fact, this is a manifestation of the imbalance in the parent-child relationship. Parents should not only point out the wrong place of the child, should not directly inform the child of the way to improve, but should listen to the child's voice, in the harmonious parent-child relationship gradually teach the child a lesson, let the child understand and improve, let the child realize their own mistakes.
4. Let children have a clear understanding.
Parents can not be too tough on the second year of junior high school girls who are addicted to mobile phones, so that children can have a correct understanding of games and reality, and must be restrained when children play mobile phones, complete their homework, reward them for playing games, and be able to make an appointment with their children, and review their homework every day after finishing their homework, they will be able to play for about 30 minutes, so that the child's psychology is more bearable, and it will not delay her studies, and gradually control and manage the moment. Parents are also able to guide their children through educational software.
The reason why girls in the second year of junior high school are addicted to games.
1. Children have no right to speak at home.
Many times, Mom and Dad are too strong, dominate the authority at home, say everything, hope to listen carefully to their own words, and become a well-behaved and obedient child, but in the world of a 14-year-old child, he will think that he has no value at home, no right to speak, so he competes for hegemony in the game and builds the world of his dreams, even if it takes a lot of money, he is not reluctant. Therefore, parents should communicate more with their children on an equal footing and listen patiently to their children's ideas.
2. The child lacks self-control.
It is difficult for every adult to control what they are interested in, not to mention a child, when they are having a lot of fun, parents shout to stop, which is very painful for them. Therefore, stop your urging and use the parent-child appointment method to help the child control the moment and enhance the concept of time.