In today's times,MarriagePerceptions have changed a lot. PastMarriageIt is often up to parents and matchmakers to decide, and girls do not have the right to choose. And now young people treatMarriageBe more cautious, especially women. They no longer pursue the material conditions of just having a car and a house, but pay more attention to each other's character and character characteristics. Therefore, they formulated a new standard for choosing a mate, that is, the "three non-marrying" criteria.
First, girls are reluctant to marry "mom bao men". This kind of man has no opinions of his own and always listens to his mother's opinion. In life, whatever decisions they make, they must get permission from their mothers. Such a man is inMarriagewomen often lose their voice, and women are wronged in the family. Especially inMother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationshipStressful situation,MarriageIt may become more difficult.
Second, girls are reluctant to marry into families with many siblings. In some families, boys are seen as the preferred choice, and girls are seen as a burden to the "breadwinner". In such a family, where there are many siblings and complex relationships, girls often need to put in more effort to maintain a good relationship with their relatives. In addition, a family with a large population also means more responsibilities and burdens, which is an ordeal for girls who prefer quiet.
Thirdly, girls are reluctant to marry into families where their parents do not have pensions. withEconomyThe development of the current marriage needs a certainEconomyFoundation. In addition to the man's stable income, the man's parents also need to have a certain amount of savings. Today's young people not only have to bear their own living expenses, but also have to support their parents. And some elderly people are not satisfied with the simple cost of living, but also need some entertainment and pastime expenses. If the parents do not have a pension, it will bring more to the coupleEconomyPressure.
However, these new criteria for mate selection have also caused a lot of controversy. Some people think,MarriageIt should be based on mutual understanding and support, not just material conditions. In addition, some people also believe that the other party's family background and conditions are not the decisionMarriageThe key factor of happiness or not, and more importantly, the communication and understanding between couples. However, these perceptions do not change the perception of many young people todayMarriageattitude.
Marriage is a commitment and a responsibility for everyone. When choosing a partner, we should be more cautious and rational and avoid making bad decisions on the spur of the moment. After all, a period of failureMarriageNot only will it cause pain to yourself, but it will also affect the happiness of others. Therefore, we should stick to our principles and values and choose a partner that is truly suitable for us.
MarriageThe change of concept and the improvement of women's independence have made modern girls put forward new requirements for mate selection standards. They no longer pursue material satisfaction, but value each other's qualities and personality more. Although there are disagreements about this criterion, everyone has the right to choose their ownMarriageManner. I hope that everyone can find a partner who is truly suitable for them and create a happy family together.