In this fast-paced oneSocialWe are always busy with chores and it is difficult to find time to improve our abilities. However, each of us has leisure time in the morning and evening, it's just that we tend to Xi using our phones to browse social** or **entertainment** instead of picking up a book to read. However, truly talented people know that cultivating good reading Xi is to become capable peopleCritical。Through reading, we can absorb knowledge, learn from life Xi, and apply it in practice. Therefore, do not have an aversion to books, but read them carefully and put your thoughts and thoughts into them.
For example, Chen Wangdao is a translator who he usually lovesRead a book。One day, while he was working as a translator, his mother brought him sugar water. Because he was so focused on his work, he accidentally put his hand into the ink, and even put the zongzi into the ink and stirred it, without noticing. When my mother saw this, she burst into laughter. This story tells usRead a bookThe fascination is so great that we forget everything around us in our reading and devote ourselves to it.
One of the most important things in a person's life is to build a solid family. However, we will meet many people on the road to growth, and some may make our hearts flutter, but they are not necessarily suitable for our future. Therefore, we need to force ourselves to forget those who cannot spend their lives with us and understand that there is only oneMarriage, we can find our true home. It's easy to fall in love and it's hard to stay together, this is a familiar saying, becauseLoveIt's not simpleEmotion, but it requires the joint efforts of both parties.
LoveMentor Tu Lei once said: "Don't believe that your husband needs to be free-range."LoveA rope is required. This sentence tells us that inMarriageBoth sides need to build a bond of responsibility and loyalty, so that the relationship between them can be firmly developed. Therefore, when we choose a person to live a lifetime, we should love him wholeheartedly and no longer be nostalgic for the pastLove。Only in this way will our family be happy and peacefulMarriageIt will continue for a long time.
InModern societyPeople often seek to be lively and social, hoping to socialize with more people. However, as good people, we need to learn to reduce social activities moderately and be a loner. 《Information GovernanceThere is such a story in "Tang Taizong", when Tang Taizong faced an old subordinate who asked for help, he was trapped by friendship and didn't know how to deal with it. However, Taizong's minister Wei Zheng reminded him that as the king of a country, he should not easily abdicate his responsibilities because of the friendship of history. Therefore, Taizong finally and decisively decided not to pay attention to this old subordinate.
This story tells us that we meet so many people in our lives that it is impossible to socialize with everyone. The best course of action is to build some relationships of interest based on who you are, and keep a few sincere confidants. Such a social circle is enough for us. Reducing useless socializing, although it will make life less lively, also avoids the entanglement and anxiety due to interpersonal problems. At the same time, it also allows us to have more time and energy to deal with our own affairs.
In life, when we have achieved something and achieved a certain amount of success, it is easy to feel complacent and stagnate. However, really good people know how to leave their comfort zone, dare to ride the wind and waves, and continue to fight. As suchLiu BangAttackXiangyang CityFacing the gorgeous palace and lively streets, he didn't want to leave at first. However, the clever minister Wei Zheng advised him that he should leave and continue to expand his power. Eventually,Liu BangHe followed Wei Zheng's advice, returned to the overlord, and finally became the king.
This story teaches us that success doesn't mean sitting on your laurels, but about constantly working hard and expanding yourself. Excellent places are often hard, but they are also worth watering with our sweat. Therefore, for us personally, we should dare to leave our comfortable places, chase our dreams, and face challenges and difficulties bravely.
It is often said that "it takes two years for a person to learn to speak, but it takes a lifetime for him to learn to shut up." This sentence tells us to carefully control our mouths and not to speak casually. In social situations, it is not uncommon for people to say inappropriate words or unwise things, which often lead to controversy and conflict. So, instead of talking casually, it's better to be silent. Silence allows us to have more time and space to think and thus make more informed decisions. At the same time, silence allows us to remain humble and calm, and not to lose hearts and minds by being too aggressive in our words.
On the road of life, we often encounter difficulties and challenges, but we should believe that only through continuous efforts and the pursuit of excellence can we surpass ourselves and achieve greater achievements. Therefore, whether in work or life, we should strive for excellence and keep moving forward. For example,Li BaiHe was a famous poet of the Tang Dynasty, and he wrote many excellent books in his lifePoetry。However, he was never satisfied with his immediate achievements in creation, but constantly pursued a higher realm. It is precisely because of his hard work and pursuit that he has become a "poet immortal" praised by later generations.
By pushing ourselves to constantly surpass ourselves, we can break through our limitations, constantly improve our abilities and qualities, and achieve greater achievements in any field. Don't stay in your comfort zone, always maintain the pursuit of excellence, in order to go further on the road of life.