The countryside not only gives birth to a good harvest of crops, but also carries generations of peoplelifeTale. Grandma Liu's life is like a book, and it is not an exaggeration to describe it as miserable. She persevered in the ups and downs and shouldered the burden of supporting her family. However, fate has been unfair to her again and again, allowing herlifeFull of twists and turns and setbacks. This story is a true reflection, let us walk into Grandma Liu's world together, feel her patience and strength, and also think about whether there are similar unfilial sons around us.
Grandma Liu's husband died in a car accident when she was 30 years old, and the news came as a bolt from the blue for Grandma Liu. Since then, she has raised three sons on her own, and the burden of the family has fallen on her at once. There was no abundance of food and clothing in that eralife, Grandma Liu barely filled her stomach and even had to rely on itSweet potatoesleaves, bark to live. She did her best to pull the children up, there was no abundance, but her family was warm and whole.
Her appearance contrasts sharply with her strong heart. The neighbors around her persuaded her more than once to find another "man" to help her share some of the burdenlifeThe burden. However, Grandma Liu is a strong person, and she is unwilling to let others have the opportunity to gossip, let alone let her children grow up in the shadow of their stepfather. She is determined to raise her three children on her own and support the family on her own.
lifeFor Grandma Liu, every day is a difficult challenge. The biggest problem is eating, she gets up early and is greedy for night, and in the morning she goes to the river to dig soil hungry, although she has no salary, but she can get a meal for a day's work. She had to work six hours for the meal, and because she was a woman, the foreman at the river would not let her do it, saying that she could not keep up. Grandma Liu had to beg in exchange for this job in order to survive.
At the end of work, she can only eat a steamed bun, drink some cold water, and take the rest home to keep with the children. She saved the best for the children, and she could only eat a little for herselfSweet potatoesleaves and bark. For dinner, Grandma Liu had to go to the field to pick up the rottenSweet potatoeswithSweet potatoesLeaf. SuchlifeIt has become the norm for her, and she carries it alone and stronglylifeof the burden.
Time such asThe white horse crosses the gap, Grandma Liu's eldest sonGrow up**In order to take care of his family, he saved money and sent dozens of yuan home every month. Children slowlyGrow up**, Grandma Liu's regret is that she can't afford them to go to school. When it was time to talk about marriage, Grandma Liu borrowed money from relatives and neighbors, and even almost knelt down to barely get enough of her daughter-in-lawDowry。It took her 11 and a half years to pay off all her debts and get her sons to marry their daughters-in-law.
A few years later, Grandma Liu welcomed several grandchildren and granddaughters, which made her feel extremely happy. However, this happy time did not last long. After a few years, the children have plans to separate and want to go out independentlylife。Grandma Liu felt aggrieved, she remembered that she had given everything for the children, but now she could only rely on them to take care of herself. However, none of the three sons shirked their responsibilities and were willing to take care of her.
In the old house where Grandma Liu lived alone, she and her grandson were the only ones who were with her. When she was sick and bad, her three sons were unwilling to take care of her, and they put all the blame on her eldest son. The eldest daughter-in-law said, "There is a big brother, why should we worry about it? The eldest son also said: "Now it depends on the second and third sons." The three sons shirked their responsibilities for their own convenience, and Grandma Liu felt extremely painful and aggrieved in her heart.
However, what saddened Grandma Liu the most was the divorce of her second son. Grandma Liu once spent a lot of effort to make up for her second sonDowryand took a wife for him. However, soon after the marriage, the second son had a conflict with his wife, which eventually led to a divorce. Grandma Liu wanted to give her sons a happy family, but her sons made her feel extremely disappointed and sad.
Grandma Liu's health also gradually began to have problems, and she was hospitalized several times**. In the face of high medical expenses, Grandma Liu's family did not come up with a penny to help her. She can only bear these burdens alone, relying on the community's assistance and subsistence allowance to survivelife
Grandma Liu's life was full of ups and downs and injustices. She once supported a complete family with her hard work and persistence. However, when she needed help and love the most, she was betrayed by her sons. herslifeFull of patience and strength, but the wounds in her heart could not be healed.
Grandma Liu didn't give up, she tried to maintain an optimistic attitude and stay with her grandchildren. She still holds on to her job, albeit with a few odd farm jobs, but she is able to support herself. Her strength cannot be described in words, and she has no regrets for herself and her grandchildrenlifeStruggling.
Grandma Liu's story makes us reflect and be vigilant that family care and filial piety should be virtues that everyone should have. We can't be because of our ownlifeWhen they are busy and difficult, they are indifferent to the elderly and shirk their responsibilities. Grandma Liu still had hope for her sons in the midst of a difficult situation, however, they betrayed her. Such unfilial sons should arouse our vigilance, and we should cherish the love of our family members and repay their efforts in a timely manner.
Everyone should have the responsibility and obligation to care for and care for their parents. We need to remember that they gave selfless love and support to us when we needed it most. Regardless of their ownlifeNo matter how difficult it is, none of us should forget the importance of family. Let us take Grandma Liu as an example to cherish and repay the nurturing grace of our parents for their old agelifePitch in.