Married lifeThe dilemma is often unpredictable, especially when fertility problems become a hidden danger between couples. This article will show the absurd behavior of mothers-in-law in the treatment of children, and the huge impact they have on the issue of children. Mother-in-law for sonXie ZhiqiangThe desire to inherit is very strong, but the couple has different positions on the face and treatment of fertility difficulties. In a series of absurd acts, the couple'sMarriageThere are also huge tests. Let's take a look at this puzzling family story.
At the beginning of the story, we met the young couple Yu Fei andXie ZhiqiangDesire for children. However, fate played a cruel joke on them, Yu Fei'sFetusStops developing, resulting in the child not being born. It was a hard blow for the young couple, but they didn't give up. However, due to the failure to induce labor in time, Yufei's uterus became infected, further delaying her againPregnancyopportunities. The accident not only caused the couple great pain, but also caused concern to the mother-in-law.
The husband and wife are in the knowFetusAfter the news of the cessation of development, it fell into a huge setback. Yu Fei was traumatized, but she did not give up and believed that a miracle would occur. She chose to lie in bed to protect the baby, hoping to save the child. Although Yu Fei's efforts and persistence are somewhat moving, tragedy still happened. After the miscarriage, Yufei's uterus became infected, which became more difficult for her againPregnancyobstacles. It was a relentless wheel that left the couple disappointed and distressed.
Xie ZhiqiangThe family is a traditionalRuralfamily, and as the only boy in the family, he bears the heavy responsibility of continuing the family incense. The mother-in-law especially hopes to welcome her grandson as soon as possible. However, due to Yu Fei's problems, her mother-in-law's expectations became more and more urgent and decided to startRuralrushed to take care of Yu Fei, hoping that her body could be ** as soon as possible, againPregnancy
The expectations of the family are an important responsibility and mission for each member. Xie ZhiqiangAs the only boy in the family, his mother-in-law hopes that he can pass on the family as soon as possible and continue the incense for the old Xie family. She worries that her son's offspring will not be able to continue the bloodline, and she is anxious about it. Especially after Yufei's miscarriage, her mother-in-law felt urgent and decided to rush to the city to take care of Yufei non-stop, in order to recover her body as soon as possible, againPregnancy。This hope and responsibility made the mother-in-law devote herself to solving the child's problem without hesitation.
The mother-in-law was supposed to come to assist and take care of her, but her behavior troubled Yufei. In order to speed up the gestation, the mother-in-law collected home remedies everywhere. Every day when she comes home from work, Yufei is not greeted with food, but a bowl of indescribable tastedecoction of medicine。Yu Fei felt miserable and asked for it many timesXie Zhiqiangconfides, but he is tolerant of his mother-in-law's behavior. In order to avoid her mother-in-law, Yu Fei began to find excuses to apply for a business trip, preferring to work overtime rather than go home. However, the mother-in-law did not intend to give up easily, and still followed Yufei's pace.
The mother-in-law's behavior can be said to be very ridiculous. Unable to deeply understand Yu Fei's difficulties, she put all her attention on the child's problems. The mother-in-law kept asking around about the continuation of this hastily approach. She didn't pay attention to Yu Fei's feelings, and prepared all kinds of things for her every daydecoction of medicineShe believes that these extreme measures will speed up the arrival of children. However, for Yu Fei, thesedecoction of medicineThe taste is indescribable, and after many tastes, she can't help but start to get tired and reject such a "delicacy". In order to avoid face-to-face contact with her mother-in-law, she began to apply for business trips and even worked overtime when she was in a bad mood. But the mother-in-law did not give up easily, and still persistently tracked Yufei's every move.
In the days that followed, Yu Fei suddenly discovered the code words between her mother-in-law and an old lady in strange costumes. The old lady stared at Yu Fei directly, looked at it for a long time, and then stuffed a yellow bag to her mother-in-law. Yu Fei felt uneasy, and when she checked in the middle of the night, she heard a moan of "oops" coming from her mother-in-law's house. She found her mother-in-law kneeling on the ground with three incense burners in front of her and three wrists. The mother-in-law cut her fingers and dripped blood into three bowls as she muttered words in her mouth. This absurd scene surprised Yu Fei, and she let out a scream.
Yu Fei was shocked by her mother-in-law's ridiculous behavior. She discovers the secret words between her mother-in-law and an old lady in a strange costume, which makes her feel a little uneasy. She witnessed the old lady's unusual gaze at her, and she carefully studied Yufei for a long time, and then stuffed a yellow bag to her mother-in-law. When night fell, Yufei was thirsty and went to the living room to pour water to drink, but heard a strange moan from her mother-in-law's room. The panicked Yu Fei hurriedly went over to check, only to see her mother-in-law kneeling on the ground, with three incense burners in front of her and three wrists. The mother-in-law muttered words in her mouth while cutting her fingers and dripping blood into three bowls. This scene frightened Yu Fei, and she couldn't help but let out a scream.
The absurd behavior of the mother-in-law seriously affected the relationship between the husband and wife. Whenever the husband and wife start to be intimate, Yu Fei's mother-in-law's behavior always comes to mind, making her completely lostLibidoXie ZhiqiangGradually, tooMarriageLost confidence and began to avoid reality by not going home for some reason. In the end, after a year of tossing, the couple had to go to divorce.
The mother-in-law's behavior had a serious impact on the relationship between the husband and wife. Whenever the husband and wife were ready to start intimacy, Yu Fei's mind would always flash the image of her mother-in-law cutting her finger and dripping blood, which made her completely lostLibidoXie ZhiqiangI get bored and get tired graduallyMarriageLost faith. He began to find excuses not to go home and avoid face-to-face contact with Yufei. This coldness and alienation caused the relationship between the couple to deteriorate. Eventually, after a year of tossing, the couple decided to go for divorce.
This story brings us a lot of reflections and lessons. First of all, we should respect everyone's choices and privacy, and should not interfere too much with otherslife。The absurd behavior of the mother-in-law not only did not solve the problem, but exacerbated the conflict and centrifugation between the husband and wife. Second, we should face difficulties and setbacks rationally and not blindly pursue results. When faced with fertility difficulties, the husband and wife did not fully communicate and understand, but took extreme actions separately. Finally,MarriageIt is based on mutual support and understanding on both sides, without such a foundationMarriageIt will not last long.
This story brings us deep reflection and valuable lessons. First of all, we should respect everyone's choice and freedom, and should not interfere too much with otherslife。The absurd behavior of the mother-in-law did not solve the problem, but only exacerbated the conflict and centrifugation between the husband and wife. Her actions were motivated by concerns and expectations for the continuation of the family, but she did not take into account the feelings and needs of the couple. Second, we should face difficulties and setbacks rationally, and should not blindly pursue results. When faced with fertility difficulties, the husband and wife did not fully communicate and understand, but took extreme actions individually. Yu Fei tries to save the fetus, while her mother-in-law adopts a ridiculous home remedies. This blind pursuit of results only complicates the problem. Finally,MarriageIt is based on mutual understanding and support. Husbands and wives should support each other and understand each other's needs and difficulties. If there is no such foundation,MarriageIt's hard to last. Instead of supporting each other in the face of setbacks and difficulties, the husband and wife further alienated each other, which ultimately led to failureMarriage
Whether it's the mother-in-law's absurd behavior or the way the husband and wife deal with it, this story has brought us a profound lesson. We should respect the choices and privacy of others, face difficulties and setbacks rationally, and at the same time build on mutual support and understandingMarriagein order to be long-lasting. Let's learn from this story so as not to be caught in our ownMarriageRepeat the mistakes of the past.