Some people often sigh that they are really tired of living. Tiredness is mental stress;Tiredness is a heavy psychological burden.
I know my own pain, and I feel my own happiness. Life is so funny, don't always doubt that spring is in others, the key is to adjust your mentality.
Why bother to lose your current mood because of the tiredness of life. It is also necessary to vent your complaints once in a while. But endless whining only adds to the annoyance. Once complaining becomes a Xi, then life will be dark.
If life becomes a lonely island, how can there be joy and comfort in life?If people are always full of gunpowder, can this kind of conflict and contradiction bring peace?People often get trouble in the voice of opposition, and they get happiness in the voice of support.
When a girl says she is tired, how can she reply so that she can feel comforted and have a good impression of herself?
Express your concern and care for her. Women are duplicitous creatures, and they crave pampering, so all the way you speak should appear to hold her in the palm of your hand, but not to express how much you like her.
An island of safety that adults need: someone who is willing to be there for him in his predicament.
A person's predicament must eventually be overcome by himself. But if there is one person around, this kind of waiting is the greatest courage, confidence and strength of a person.
Listen and respond without judgment. Listening is not only about "I care what you say", but also about respecting the situation and emotional state of others, and not covering the feelings and experiences of others with what you have.
Being willing to listen to others, not giving advice, is also expressing "I'm trying to see and understand you". At this time, the other person will feel that he is accepted by others.
Understand and allow everything that is truest in its entirety. In addition to responding to the other person's emotions and expressing support, the confidant needs to be truly seen what she has experienced and felt, including those who are wrong and irrational.
We all need to keep each other warm in life. Try to feel the darkness that the other person is in, and let the other person feel that her experience is deeply involved in the efforts of another person.
This sense of security is the most important thing.
Everyone desires to be accepted unconditionally by others.
Comforting others, in fact, there are not too many complicated routines. The most important thing is that having a good heart for others is comfort itself.
Accept all emotions and listen to each other's inner voice.
A relationship that flows in such goodwill nourishes both parties. At that time, your very existence will become the greatest concern for each other.
I wish you and I can meet such people.
Finally, I hope you can get out of the tiredness, most people in this world are not happy, there is a saying is "in the infernal world, the heart is in the paradise", although most people can't do it, but I still hope that you "if the heart is sunny, not afraid of sadness".