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For many parents, a very headache is that they always feel that their children are not enlightened, they can't do a very simple thing, and they are not active in learning Xi. So when will the child be able to open his mind?
I think this is a question that many parents are very interested in. Because once the child is enlightened, the efficiency of doing things will be greatly improved, and the child's academic Xi performance will naturally improve. But the problem is that parents don't know how to make their children enlightened. In fact, there are four things that are very important for children to open up in the process of children's growth, and we parents must write them down.
First of all, the first thing is to be willing to use children. There is a saying that "the big children are talents, and the children who are spoiled are waste materials". But in real life, many parents are often reluctant to use their children, often treat their children as pets, do everything for their children, and their children will not do anything, so how can such children adapt to society when they grow up?Therefore, parents must be willing to use their children, so that children can become talents.
In ordinary life, we parents can let their children participate in family affairs, such as laundry and cooking, tidying up the room, family planning, these can be involved in children, children can learn how to deal with various problems in daily life Xi by participating in family affairs, and gradually master some life skills, children can only gradually open up in practice, grow up to become talents.
The second thing is to cultivate children's strong thinking. In the family, the relationship between children and parents is that if you are strong, he will be weak, and if you are weak, he will be strong. For example, if a mouse is found in the house, even if the wise mother is not afraid, she will pretend to be scared and let the child rush to the front to protect herself, instead of the mother herself rushing in front and trampling the mouse to death, so that the child becomes the object of protection. Parents should make their children feel that they are the protectors of family life, not the protected.
Therefore, in family life, we parents must encourage our children to show more their ability and independence, so that children can rush to the front to solve some problems and become heroes in the family. This will make it easy for children to build confidence and a positive mindset to face future challenges.
The third thing is that after the child goes to elementary school, call the child's big name, and don't call it by a nickname or baby baby. Because a daimyo means maturity and independence, while a daimyo means weakness and needs to be protected. Calling the child's name also makes the child feel that his identity has changed, and since he has grown up, he has a sense of responsibility. Calling a child's first name represents recognition of the child's identity and respect for the child's independence, and it also helps the child gradually adapt to his or her own identity and become the master of life.
The fourth thing is to develop children's problem-solving skills. When a child encounters something after the age of six, we parents can first ask the child about their views and solutions, and guide the child to think about how to solve the problem on his own. Specifically, we can do this, we can ask the child, child, what do you think about this matter, do you have any solution?Or you can also say that in this matter, who did the right thing and who did the wrong thing, do you need the help of your parents?The main thing is to guide children to think about how to solve this problem. The more you think and the more your brain uses, the more likely it is for your child to open up. Cultivating children's problem-solving skills can not only help children develop thinking skills, but also improve children's cognitive level.
In short, the above four things can help children continue to open up their minds in the process of growth, cultivate children's independent thinking and problem-solving skills, and lay a solid foundation for children's future growth. If you want to know more simple and practical home education methods, you can follow me, I share it every day.