The list of high-quality authors is 8,000 yuan for my wife's pension and my salary card, but I want to live with him.
Hey, I thought that I would finally meet my soul mate this time and spend my life together, but the truth is that after living together, problems have come one after another. Aunt Li, who is in her 50s, said with emotion.
Aunt Lee's memories
In the past, I was a kindergarten teacher in the factory, and my husband was the head of the workshop repair class.
Once, the factory organized a mountaineering activity, and I wanted to fight for a good ranking and speed up my pace with a competitive mood. Unexpectedly, I accidentally sprained my foot halfway up the mountain, so I had to sit on the side in unbearable pain.
My husband followed closely behind me, carrying several bags on his back, and I could feel his hard work. I guessed that these bags must have been made by someone else who was tired and asked him to carry them, and I couldn't help but smile in my heart. However, he stopped and asked me with concern what had happened. After learning that I was injured, he took the initiative to give up the opportunity to reach the summit and expressed his willingness to carry me down the mountain.
Even though we weren't very acquainted, he gave up a possible reward for my sake. I was embarrassed to let a stranger carry it, but he said, "Don't be embarrassed, you can't sit here until dark." "At that moment, we started to get to know each other and eventually came together. After getting married, our life was full of peace and warmth, and we also welcomed a smart and lively son, and everything went according to our wishes.
However, there are always unpredictable variables in life. When my son graduated from junior high school, my husband died of illness, which made me fall into an ice cave. Although my son was sensible and studied hard to comfort me, my friends persuaded me to find a new partner. However, my longing for the deceased made me unable to accept others, and I was also worried that my son would be hurt. So, I raised my son alone until he graduated from college and had his own job. Later, I used my savings for many years to hold a wedding for my son.
As time passed, my son grew up and so did I. After I retired, I often stayed alone in my empty home, and I couldn't help but reminisce about the time I spent with my wife. Seeing other old couples accompany each other, take walks, and buy groceries makes me deeply envious.
When I was in my 80s, my mother advised me to find another partner and give myself something to rely on. My friends also introduced me to someone, so one day, my friend asked me for tea and met a man who introduced me.
Through chatting, I learned that he was a friend's cousin, Lao Ding, who was three years older than me, a retired teacher, widowed and his daughter married out of town. Lao Ding is tall and handsome, funny and humorous, which makes me have a good impression of him. My pension is not high, but he said he didn't care, and took the initiative to say: "As long as you are willing to be together, I will be the mistress of the house, and the salary card will be handed over to you." This sentence made me feel the satisfaction of being trusted.
Since then, Lao Ding has often asked me to go for a walk in the park and go to the supermarket to buy groceries together. In my tiny room, we wash and cook together, evoking a sense of familiarity from years ago. Once again, I became the little woman who was cared for and cared for.
In the past three months, one night, Lao Ding asked me to go to the restaurant for dinner. Under the influence of the wine, his face flushed, and he suddenly said to me: "Ali, we have been together for a while, what do you think of me?".Would you like us to try together?I was slightly stunned, and then proposed, "Then why don't we get a certificate?" Lao Ding hesitated for a moment and revealed: "My daughter said that she can find a companion, but it is better not to get a certificate." ”
Actually, I have thought this way too. My son Xiaofeng has always thought that I am more honest and worried that I will be deceived, so he does not advocate that I get a certificate.
So, the next day, I packed up and moved into Lao Ding's house.
In the morning, we went shopping together at the nearby supermarket and then went home to prepare breakfast together. After noon, Lao Ding told me that he was going to take a lunch break, and his eyes were full of deep feelings. After the intimacy, although I didn't feel sleepy, I didn't expect his snoring to be so loud that I couldn't sleep. I had to let him sleep alone, while I went to the living room ** TV series and ate some fruit by the way.
In the afternoon, Lao Ding woke up and was a little surprised to see that I had not rested, and asked, "Why don't you take a lunch break?"We, the elderly, had better develop a good habit of taking a lunch break. I replied, "Oh, your snoring is so noisy, how could I fall asleep." Lao Ding said with some embarrassment: "My deceased wife never said that I snored, maybe I was too excited last night and didn't sleep well, but today I am a little tired." ”
In the afternoon, we went for a walk in the park and bought a pot of flowers. Lao Ding said: "Let's plant it together and watch it bloom." ”
After dinner, I felt a little tired and wanted to rest early. However, Lao Ding may have been resting in the afternoon, and he is in a good mental state, and he has been swiping Douyin on his mobile phone, watching ** singing, and his voice is very loud and intoxicated. I reminded: "Lao Ding, be quiet, I want to rest." Besides, if it's so noisy, the neighbors may have an opinion. Lao Ding felt a little embarrassed after hearing this, so he picked up a ** and sat on the edge of the bed to read it. And I started to rest.
However, as soon as he entered a shallow dream, he was woken up by Lao Ding's snoring. It turned out that he fell asleep crooked on the side of the bed, the book in his hand fell to the ground, and the snoring began to sound again. I tossed and turned, and couldn't sleep again.
I had to get up, grab the sheets, and lie down on the sofa in the living room. But the couch was too cramped, and I was uncomfortable lying down. In the middle of the night, Lao Ding woke up and saw me on the sofa, and understood the reason, he said to me a little embarrassedly: "I heard you say that I snored at noon and deliberately stayed up, and I wanted to wait for you to fall asleep before sleeping." I didn't expect me to have this problem. ”
I suggested that perhaps we should end the relationship, because living with you would make it difficult for me to find a moment of peace. Lao Ding responded with a sincere attitude: "Think about it, our temper and character get along so well, such a tacit understanding is really rare, why don't we try to divide the room, so that you can have a good rest." ”
His sincerity made me feel guilty, and I hesitated, thinking that maybe I could give each other some more time, maybe it would be a solution. After all, finding the right person isn't easy.