"Engagement ** case"Not pure: the man's mother reveals the woman's family backgroundOn December 25, the Datong "engagement case" that has attracted much attention from netizens finally ushered in the moment of the verdict. Defendant Xi XX was sentenced to three years in prison, but he was not satisfied with this and appealed in court.
The verdict has aroused tremendous repercussions in society. Netizens expressed their opinions, and some people thought that Xi's behavior was self-inflicted and that he should take responsibility for his actions;Some people also believe that Xi did not respect his girlfriend before marriage, and he is more likely to intensify after marriage.
At the same time, Xi Moumou's mother also posted on social **, describing in detail the process of her son's engagement to the woman, and insisted that her son was wronged. According to her, on May 1, 27-year-old Xi and a 24-year-old woman held an engagement banquet. They met through a marriage introduction, and although there were some differences in educational backgrounds, it did not hinder their relationship. The man graduated from secondary school, while the woman graduated from college.
At the engagement feast, the man prepared some valuable items for the woman in accordance with local customs, including a piece weighing 72 grams of gold engagement ring. In addition, they also gave the woman's family 100,000 yuan in bride price and promised to give the remaining 100,000 yuan when they got married. In order to further protect the rights and interests of the woman, Xi and her parents also wrote a letter of commitment. This letter of commitment clearly stipulates that as long as the woman has been married for one year, they will add the woman's name to the real estate certificate of the matrimonial house. The letter of commitment also bears the handprints of both parties, which is very formal.
However, things did not go in the direction that both sides had hoped. Soon after the engagement, the parties had a conflict over some trivial matters, which eventually led to this tragedy.
In rural areas, marrying a wife has become a threshold that is difficult to cross. Behind this, hard conditions such as bride price, car, and wedding room are like a mountain. The amount of the bride price varies from place to place and from person to person, and tens of thousands of yuan may just start, and in some places it even soars to hundreds of thousands of yuan.
Kimchi Long in the northeast, only 21 years old, married the 28-year-old gambling king Qianjin, the dowry is as high as 5 million, and the dowry is even more staggering, worth hundreds of millions.
In the early summer morning, Xi and his fiancée were immersed in the joy of engagement, looking forward to a better future. Xi's mother smiled like a flower, revealing full of pride"We have already spent more than 100,000 yuan for this woman. "
The next day, the woman's house was very lively, and the homecoming banquet was held as scheduled. When the sun turned west, Xi and the woman returned to the marriage room, and everything seemed to fall into place. However, no one expected that beneath the calm exterior lies rough waves.
Xi's mother frowned"The woman suddenly asked us to go home and get the house book, and add her name. also offered to give her a bride price of 100,000 yuan at the time of marriage in advance. "There was a hint of helplessness between the words"The house book was not in hand at that time, and the family couldn't take out 100,000. "
When the woman heard this, she was furious, and a fierce quarrel was inevitable. The woman claimed to sue Xi Mou**, and the atmosphere was instantly tense to the extreme.
Xi's mother was very anxious"My mother-in-law found my son afterwards and asked for a bride price of 100,000 yuan, and added her name to the real estate certificate, and even secretly recorded our conversation. "
Soon after, the woman resolutely walked into the police station and claimed that she had suffered Xi's **. The police quickly dispatched, and Xi was taken away. At this moment, the man's family was in a mess, and panic was shrouded in his heart.
In the police station, in the face of the police's questioning, the man's family panicked, and even wrote a letter of guarantee, saying that they would immediately meet the woman's request. They quickly took the house book, hoping to save the situation. However, the woman coldly refused, saying that it was too late.
Some netizens broke the news that in fact, the two parties had negotiated privately, but the subsequent delay of the man's family made the woman feel disappointed and angry.
The man's mother was filled with grief and indignation"Although we are farmers, we have already bought a wedding house in full for the sake of our son's marriage. "An imperceptible hint of resentment flashed in her eyes"The woman's family background is average, she lives with her mother, and has 3 older brothers. I don't know if their family is divorced or separated. "In her opinion, the woman's behavior was too eager for quick success"The purpose is all about money. "
She added through gritted teeth"Immediately after the two had sex, she asked us to give the bride price and add names. "
The man's statement attracted everyone's attention. Local officials began an in-depth investigation into the case in an attempt to restore the truth of the matter. And the woman's clear opposition to premarital sex also shocked everyone. However, the man is forced to have sex with the woman against her will. Afterwards, the woman became emotional and set fire to the cabinet and curtains. After examination, it was also found that the woman's two large arms and right wrist were bruised to varying degrees. The court held that although the two parties had negotiated the circumstances, it did not affect the determination that Xi's behavior constituted a crime!
The man's mother was unwilling"We will continue to appeal. "There was a hint of stubbornness in her words. We can only wait for the official response to the outcome of this incident.