Recently, the engagement ** case has been in an uproar, which makes some people panic. Lost confidence in love or marriage, after all, such a thing still has a great impact on people.
Especially in the eyes of some people, if they are engaged and give a bride price, the other party is their wife, and it is natural to have a relationship.
There is no absolute right or wrong way of thinking. But there has to be a prerequisite. That is, you get along well with the other person, are in love, and are willing to have a relationship with you.
What I'm afraid of is that the two parties know each other on a blind date, and the relationship is still relatively weak, and they are eager to have a relationship after they get engaged. As a result, they were resisted and resisted fiercely, and what was more serious was that the bride price was accepted, and the wedding was held, who wanted to run away the next day and elope with his beloved. You say it's not. (Real Events).
As soon as I heard such a thing, it made people feel indignant, isn't this just cheating people and cheating money.
The only thing to be thankful for is that it is not as serious as the engagement case.
So if we want to avoid such a thing, we have to pay attention to the following points:
1.Relationship management: Whether you talk about it yourself or meet on a blind date, if you want to have a relationship, you must first maintain a good relationship with each other. Through communication, we can understand and familiarize, find common ground, and make the relationship between the two parties deeper and more integrated. Facilitate the occurrence of relationships as a matter of course, 2Retain evidence: When a relationship occurs, it is necessary to keep certain evidence in advance, such as chat records, recordings, etc., to avoid the girl's remorse and unreasonableness.
3.After-the-fact maintenance: After having a relationship, you have to bear certain responsibilities, (such as: gifts, promises) after all, you are rushing to get married. Unless they're just playing with each other.
People's cognition is very important, and if you want to avoid the occurrence of engagement cases, you have to change those wrong ideas in the past.