Fu Seoul's divorce statement with Lao Liu has attracted widespread attention on today's hot search. Lao Liu said in a statement: "Our husband and wife fate has come to an end, but the memories of fifteen years cannot be easily formatted like more than 20,000 ** in mobile phones." These words are very emotional. The couple once fell in love when they were young, but when the wife had a successful career, the two drifted apart. Lao Liu mentioned the reason why they parted ways: "The core problem between us is that we have lost each other's love, which makes me feel sad and helpless, but this is the reality. How do we face each other when love no longer exists?However, how much love is still left between middle-aged couples?
It is often said that marriage is the grave of love. I also wrote an article about middle-aged couples the other day, emphasizing that we don't talk about love, but only about cooperation. Many middle-aged couples continue to be together even if they don't have love. Why can't Lao Liu and Fu Seoul insist on this way of cooperation?The reason is that Lao Liu lost the feeling of being needed in his marriage. It was revealed that they had divorced once during the seven-year itch of their marriage, but remarried at the request of Lao Liu, because Fu Seoul's career was just starting out at that time, he was very busy and needed his help. Although the two also had problems in their marriage at that time, Lao Liu felt that he was needed, so he returned to marriage.
Now, however, Liu feels the rapid growth of Fu Seoul and realizes that he is no longer needed. Anyone can do everything they need to do every day. It is alleged that in the card written to Fu Seoul, the words "help you fly high" hinted at Lao Liu's intention to leave. Perhaps separation is a relief for both parties. Perhaps Lao Liu's happiness was based on Fu Seoul's needs in the past, but now he needs to explore the value of his existence. Lao Liu said: "Nowadays, our happiness has almost nothing to do with each other, so where should this relationship go?"We searched for a long time, but the answer was always blank. Therefore, it is better to part ways with this.
Why bother with a question that you can't find the answer to, even if you fill the whole page, you won't get the right answer. In fact, most of the marriages of middle-aged couples are similar, lacking love but still needing each other. As I mentioned in my previous article, it is necessary to run a good family together, so you have to continue to live in a "besieged city". If one day they no longer need each other, they may be able to make the choice they are making now: give them freedom and help them fly. As Lao Liu said at the end: "Never stop, no matter what path you are taking. When faced with difficulties, we must move forward bravely and never back down.
It's like wading across a river, don't hesitate to take every step;In the face of mountain obstacles, we must have the courage to cross the peak;It's like a sunny day after a rainy day, dispelling the clouds and mist and seeing the sun. I wish you all the best for the future. I am Fat Orange, a middle-aged girl, and I will share my life and growth experience with you. Looking forward to becoming friends with you and focusing on each other's lives.