In the 90s of the 20th century, a singer named Geng Weihua was at the peak of his smash hit. He is extremely popular, and the show is sold out. Once, Geng Weihua came to Xi'an, Shaanxi Province with a concert. The scene was filled with thousands of fans, including a female doctor named Zheng Jia. Zheng Jia has loved Geng Weihua's singing voice very much since she was a child, and she has almost all of Geng Weihua's **. 
Finally had the opportunity to meet me, Zheng Jia was so excited that her palms were sweating. After the concert, she excitedly ran backstage and asked Geng Weihua to sign an autograph for her. At first, Geng Weihua politely said that the autograph session was over, but seeing the sincere admiration in Zheng Jia's eyes, he finally couldn't help but agree to sign her. A piece of paper is signed, but two hearts are connected. Zheng Jia began to appear at Geng Weihua's various performances intentionally or unintentionally, and even flew to follow his tour to the province. Geng Weihua keenly noticed that this girl appeared more and more frequently, and a trace of pity rose in his heart. Perhaps it was Zheng Jia's enthusiastic and sincere star-chasing psychology that moved him, and Geng Weihua accepted this fan by chance. The two began to correspond, date, and eventually entered the palace of marriage. 
When Geng Weihua took Zheng Jia's hand and said "I do", the fans in the audience gave warm applause, cheering for the amazing story of the pair of idols and fans. Geng Weihua and Zheng Jia's wedding was held in Beijing. The two met in Xi'an, and became friends with the identities of fans and idols, but finally entered the palace of identity. After marriage, Zheng Jia gave up her original job and devoted herself to her family. She learned to cook, although she was not good at it at first, Geng Weihua would smile and encourage her. Gradually, Zheng Jia also learned to take care of the housework. Geng Weihua also fulfilled her husband's responsibilities, and often went into the kitchen when she came home from work to cook delicious meals. At first, Geng Weihua's parents had a lot of complaints about this daughter-in-law, but when they saw that she loved their son very much, they accepted it with relief. 
A few years after marriage, Zheng Jia gave birth to a little daughter for Geng Weihua. A family of three is warm and happy. Geng Weihua's singing career has also reached its peak, and he often goes out for concerts. Fortunately, he has never changed his dedication to his family, and he must go home to accompany him every holiday. After a curtain call, Geng Weihua deliberately took the microphone and confessed to Zheng Jia in the audience: "I will always love you, just like the title of the song, it is still the warmest home." The audience let out a "ahhhhh It's been a good story for a superstar to propose to his fans, and now he is once again in the spotlight when he confesses to his fans and wife. seems to be an orderly life, but it also reveals cracks. Geng Weihua is a thrifty person, and he is reluctant to spend every penny. But Zheng Jia's concept of consumption is completely different from his, she is a typical pragmatic strong woman who never hesitates to what she wants. 
Once Zheng Jia took a fancy to an expensive brand-name dress, and bought it with a credit card without saying a word. Geng Weihua saw it in his eyes and thought that Zheng Jia was too willful and too reckless. The two inevitably got into an argument over the matter. Maybe it's just a difference in consumption concepts, but in the course of the long-term life of the two, there are more and more discordant factors. Geng Weihua thinks that Zheng Jia's education for her daughter is too lenient, and Zheng Jia thinks that Geng Weihua is too strict;Geng Weihua thinks that Zheng Jia spends money recklessly, and Zheng Jia thinks that Geng Weihua is stingy. As disagreements accumulated, quarrels erupted more frequently and severely. The relationship between husband and wife has cracked in the run-in day after day. In fact, behind these discords, it reflects the differences in values and concepts between the two. In the final analysis, Geng Weihua and Zheng Jia are people from two worlds. The tearing up of feelings is only a matter of time, and inadequate communication undoubtedly accelerates the process. 
When love fades and family affection cannot make up for the rift, it will inevitably break down. On this day, Geng Weihua received Zheng Jia's divorce agreement. "I can't go on with this anymore, so let's break up. Zheng Jia's words were resolute. Geng Weihua was shocked, but he still went to keep Zheng Jia. He begged Zheng Jia to think again, for the sake of his daughter's happiness. However, Zheng Jia has a resolute attitude, believing that her daughter can live well with her father. The signature on the divorce agreement has been set, and the book of husband and wife feelings is coming to an end. 
At the moment of divorce, Geng Weihua burst into tears. He locked himself in the house and wept loudly. The infant daughter was frightened by her father's crying, and scratched the door while crying. For a while, the cries of the father and daughter came and went. The aunt who came in to appease was also infected by this bleak scene, and couldn't help but redden. And Zheng Jia has packed up and left, and she has no nostalgia for her former warm home. She wiped away her tears and turned away. After the divorce, Geng Weihua lost weight, his face was pale, and he could no longer see the spirit of the past. He no longer took the initiative to receive notices, and spent all day at home drinking to drown his sorrows. When his friends saw his haggard appearance, they advised him to cheer up. But every time Zheng Jia was mentioned, Geng Weihua could not restrain himself from shedding tears. He was very affectionate, and this blow directly broke him. 
Perhaps only the passage of time can slowly heal the wounds in his heart. Day after day, the years go by. Seven years have passed since the divorce, and Geng Weihua has gradually come out of the pain and learned to take care of his daughter alone. In the early days, he still couldn't let go, and often cried sadly in the middle of the night. Occasionally his daughter's crying woke him up, and he went to check, only to find that his daughter was also in tears in her sleep. It turned out that the daughter secretly kept a photo of her parents, and she would take it out from time to time to look at it. Although she is still young, she also subconsciously feels the pain of a broken family. 
Looking at his daughter's sad appearance, Geng Weihua knew that he had to cheer up for his daughter. He no longer dwells on the sadness of the past, but lives in the present and gives more love to his daughter. He learned to cook all kinds of food, practice the piano and sing with his daughter. Gradually, the smile returned to his face. He no longer deliberately avoided Zheng Jia, but took the initiative to let his daughter visit her mother every month. Although Zheng Jia re-established a family, she still did her best to care for her daughter. Life will inevitably encounter gloom, but as long as you have hope, you will eventually see the sunshine. The 52-year-old Geng Weihua has rediscovered the power of happiness. Not only for himself, but also for his beloved daughter. Geng Weihua's life experience is full of ups and downs, he has experienced the sweetness of love, and also tasted the pain of divorce, but finally found happiness again under the baptism of time. 
First, the relationship needs to be managed by both parties, and the difference in values cannot be ignored;Second, after the divorce, you should face it rationally and give more care to your childrenThird, don't be overtaken when you are frustrated, learn to actively live in the present. Life is full of unknowns, and only by grasping the present can we create a better future. Finally, don't forget to trust in the power of time, after precipitation, the sun will eventually come. Geng Weihua's story tells us that by letting go of the past and embracing hope, we can all find our own happiness.