When college students enter a university, they enjoy a wider range of freedoms. Especially in the field of love, these young people, who have been restrained by parents and teachers for many years, can finally face emotional affairs openly under the sun.
Many students are full of yearning to meet the person who makes their hearts flutter in college. Relationships on campus are often simple and pure, and it's truly a rare experience. However, a significant portion of the population has observed a trend in which college boys seem to be less enthusiastic about pursuing romantic relationships.
College boys seem to have become more "Buddhist" in their approach to campus romance and less proactive than they used to be. For many students, there is little attention and experience in their studies before they enter a university campus. Not to mention that while they are busy with school, the supervision of parents also makes them have little time and mind to think about other matters.
Looking back on my own experience when I was in college, the boys at that time were extremely proactive in finding a lover once they stepped into college life. However, it seems that the group of college students has changed, and many male students have become more "Buddhist" in their approach to this issue.
They no longer take the initiative to show affection to their female classmates, including attending evening self-study together, meeting in the cafeteria and library, and these ways of shortening the distance between each other seem to have caused the boys to be indifferent.
In other words, many students prefer to stay in the dormitory and play on the computer rather than go out to "chase girls". This doesn't have to be the male classmates tsundere, a college boy candidly expressed his inner feelings.
In an online speech, a male university student in Ningbo shared his views on some female classmates, which resonated with many college students. You may have heard of the term "Puxin men", which describes those boys who are obviously very ordinary but extremely confident.
In fact, classmates with this personality trait are not limited to male students, so this college student also used a similar pronoun to describe similar female classmates, calling them "Puxin Girl".
Although the acceptance rate of the gaokao is relatively high, students who are able to enter regular universities usually maintain good study habits, and most are not in a hurry to fall in love in high school. They often don't really think about relationships until they are in college.
Female classmates often have stricter expectations and standards, and male students bluntly say that some students are not from wealthy families, but they show a tendency to "princess disease". Even though we are all in college and dependent on our parents for living expenses, they always expect decent gifts from boys.
In their usual study and life, they often ask the boys to take care of them meticulously, send them downstairs in the morning, occupy a seat in the study room and need the boys to do it for them, and even occasionally invite other roommates to eat together, which makes it quite challenging to meet the "qualified" standard in their hearts.
What makes this college student even more distressed is that such female classmates are often ordinary in terms of family, appearance, academic level and personal ability.
According to such ordinary conditions, if you can evaluate yourself more rationally, you should not make too many demands on boys, nor should you show excessive "princess disease". However, this kind of student is just the opposite, and their "popularity" can be rated as a five-star rating.
The academic status in college is also crucial, and students don't have to rush to fall in love if they don't find the right person. The outspokenness of this male classmate does reflect the real situation of some female students. However, we should not generalize that their expectations are unrealistic, and sometimes they are not just concerned with external forms.
To deal with the relationship between two people, we need to not only see the surface, but need to discover the real need through their expectations and behaviors, that is, the desire to be noticed and affirmed by boys.
Others should be evaluated with a more holistic perspective and not just at the surface. In conclusion, every student's attitude towards campus love is unique, and it is the individual's right to choose how to behave.
Students just need to make it clear that they still need to pay attention to their academic status after going to university, and understand the importance of learning well before thinking about other things. If you can't ensure that you pass the exam successfully, you will have problems even graduating, let alone other aspects.
College students who have received a high-quality education should also show enough seriousness towards their feelings. There are many people who think that it is a big regret that they did not experience talking about friends during their college years.
In my opinion, getting involved in love too lightly is a sign of a lack of responsibility, and students who take their feelings seriously are more worthy of respect than those who take their feelings seriously. If you haven't found the right person yet, you don't need to rush to determine your relationship.
Think] College life is colorful, and talking about friends is also a beautiful aspect. At the moment, college students' attitudes towards relationships can be polarized, with some becoming more "Buddhist" and others more likely to fall in love rashly.
So, what kind of attitude do you think college students should have towards feelings?