New Year's Lesson 1 Remember these eight sentences to make you more comfortable in interpersonal communication!
In the first sentence, as long as there is no conflict of interests, others should generally not refute what they say. This sentence tells us that in interpersonal communication, we must learn to respect the interests of others and not easily challenge the bottom line of others.
The second sentence is the high-level skills of interpersonal communication, enthusiastic and generous, and I don't know if I ask three questions. This quote tells us to be good at expressing our enthusiasm and kindness, and at the same time not to reveal our true thoughts too much.
In the third sentence, try to restrain your emotions and learn to praise and shut up. This sentence tells us to learn to control our emotions, pay more attention to the strengths and strengths of others, and not be too attached to our own opinions and opinions.
Fourth, don't tell people about your plan, just let them see the results. This quote tells us to learn to be mysterious and low-key, and not to reveal your goals and plans lightly.
In the fifth sentence, what you really want to do, don't even talk about the gods, do it quietly, and then talk about it when you succeed. This quote tells us to learn to be quiet and mysterious, and not to be too aggressive about our thoughts and actions.
The sixth sentence, to be a man, you must have a city, only say three points when you meet people, don't throw all your heart, don't reveal your hole cards. This sentence tells us that in interpersonal communication, we must learn to maintain a mysterious and low-key and appropriate distance, and to listen more and talk less. Don't dig your heart and lungs out of someone at every turn, because you never know what others really think of you.
Sentence 7, the people who can kill you are the people who know you best, so be vigilant and don't get too close to anyone. "The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water", and it is not advisable to get along with people closely. Because once your shortcomings are exposed and taken advantage of by people with ulterior motives, you will only be hurt by yourself.
In the eighth sentence, it is difficult to pretend to do things for others, it is natural to give gifts to leaders, and it is very pleasant to spend money on lovers. These are all to protect yourself and avoid unnecessary troubles. Invite others to dinner to pretend to be very atmospheric, and talk about business with people to pretend to be very successful. These are all to show their strength and self-confidence, and increase the trust and respect of others.
In complex relationships, we need to learn to protect ourselves, be vigilant and confident. Only quietly strong can make us invincible in interpersonal communication.