There is a year of reflection, a year of progress, and 2023 is about to end, with a lot of new realizations and epiphanies.
2024 is coming, and in the new year, let's remember these 8 sentences together.
Keep yourself away from internal friction and negative emotions, focus on more important people and things, and embrace peace, happiness and happiness!
If you are wise and foolish, it is rare to be confused
People who are truly wise, people who really live freely, are often not those who strive to be the first in everything, not those who seem to be extremely smart, but those who know how to "be wise as foolish, and rarely confused".
Because in this society, being smart is not the same as being smart, and being too smart is easy to get yourself into trouble.
And the appropriate "pretending to be stupid", knowing how to be low-key and humble, will make your road go smoothly.
Let go of the past and cherish the present
People, don't dwell on the loss of the past, don't blame yourself for the mistakes of the past, and don't be anxious about the uncertain future.
Life is now, and happiness can only be obtained now.
If you are obsessed with the past and the future, you will continue to miss the good things in front of you.
Smart people, from now on, live in the present, cherish the people in front of them, and grasp every moment.
Kindness has a ruler, and tolerance has a degree
Being kind and tolerant is a beautiful quality, and it will also make your interpersonal relationships harmonious.
But not all relationships and occasions are suitable for choosing kindness and tolerance.
Kindness without size, tolerance without scale, will only make yourself the object of use by others, and will only make you weak and easy to bully.
Therefore, we must choose kindness, but also grasp the scale.
Stick to the bottom line and uphold principles
Everyone has their own pursuits, or dreams, and they are easily tempted or become a little selfish in the face of their own interests.
These are actually nothing, after all, people do not destroy the heavens and the earth for themselves.
But the reason why people are human is because they know how to "stick to the bottom line and maintain principles".
People can fight for their own interests, but the bottom line is that they can't choose to hurt others for their own interests;
But the principle is not to make a choice that goes against your original conscience for the sake of your own future.
People who have no bottom line and principles, although they are easy to succeed, are also easy to fall into the abyss.
Stop complaining and learn to reflect
Remember, complaining doesn't solve anything, and introspection leads to growth.
Most people will encounter some injustices or grievances.
But those who achieve great things will not know to complain about the environment and blame others when they encounter difficulties.
Instead, look for your own shortcomings, constantly improve yourself, make yourself stronger, and find a new way out.
Don't take others too seriously
Don't take yourself too seriously
People's inferiority complex is to look up to others too much and belittle themselves too much;
The misfortune of man is to start being a good teacher and take the initiative to give advice to others.
And don't look down on anyone, you never know who's behind the person in front of you.
We are all equal individuals, no one is nobler than the other, only who works harder than the other.
Where there is an explanation, everything has a fall, and everything has a response
Don't make promises lightly, because credit will not stand the test.
Once or twice disappointed, it is difficult to gain the trust and respect of others in the future.
Therefore, in interacting with people, we should be true to our words and be responsible to the end.
Moreover, for people who have a close relationship, "everything is explained, everything is settled, and everything is responded", which is not only respect and love for others, but also the maintenance of one's own reputation and feelings.
Take good care of yourself and stay healthy
Having said all this, the first important thing in life is to maintain a healthy body.
No matter how busy your life is, no matter how confused the future is, no matter how miserable it is now, don't neglect your health.
Exercising when you have time, eating three meals a day, and getting enough sleep are simple but key factors for happiness in 2024.
From now on, take good care of yourself and stay healthy.