There are many old sayings circulating in our country, and some of them contain people's understanding and respect for life and the environment. In the traditional culture of our country, the cemetery is the resting place of the deceased, and it is also a place for the living to express their filial piety and nostalgia, so when planting plants around the cemetery, people pay special attention to selection and consideration;The bed is a place for people to rest and sleep, which is closely related to people's health and fortune, and the placement of items around the bed directly affects people's sleep.
In my country, there is an old saying called "three do not plant before the grave, and four do not leave before the bed", so what do the three do not plant and the four do not stay?Let's find out sooner.
1. Do not plant trees that grow too fast in front of the grave
Many people will plant trees in front of the grave, such as cypress and pine trees are typical "tomb trees", these two kinds of trees are evergreen all year round and have a long lifespan. However, trees that grow too fast, such as bamboo, banyan trees, poplars, etc., are not suitable for planting next to graves.
When choosing to plant trees in front of the grave, we need to consider the characteristics of the trees, especially the growth rate and root system of the trees. Some tree species such as bamboo, banyan, poplar, etc., grow rapidly, and the root system will penetrate deep into the ground and extend into the interior of the tomb, which can cause damage to the structure of the tomb.
Secondly, because of the rapid growth of such trees, they can almost fill the grave in a single summer. For the ancients, the tomb was too closed as a bad symbol, indicating that there was no successor, which meant that the family was in decline or there was no one to pay respects. In addition, the dense vegetation also attracts small animals such as rats, rabbits, etc., which dig holes for burrowing, which may undermine the safety of the grave. Therefore, the grave side should avoid choosing trees that grow too fast, are dense and easily shade the grave.
2. Do not plant peach trees in front of the grave
As the old saying goes, "there is no tree wrapped around the vine behind the grave, and there is no peach blossom red in front of the grave", in the traditional culture of our country, peach wood is considered to be a symbol of exorcism and evil spirit, and the peach sword is believed to have the ability to drive away **, and at the same time, the peach is also respected for its meaning of longevity, and is often used for birthday banquets and birthday ceremonies.
However, in such an environment where graves are regarded as the rebukes of the deceased, it is clearly inappropriate to plant peach trees, which symbolize the exorcism of evil spirits or longevity. In addition, the peach blossoms are very bright in color, and the tomb is a symbol of solemnity and solemnity, and planting peach trees next to the grave is also disrespectful to the ancestors.
In addition, the peach tree fruit is delicious, which inevitably attracts people to come and pick the fruit. This behavior will not only disturb the peace of the grave, but will also lead to the grave being trampled on, and the environment of the grave may also be polluted (littering, open defecation), which is also disrespectful and disrespectful to the deceased. Out of respect for the deceased and traditional cultural values, it is not appropriate to plant peach trees around the grave.
3. Do not plant "thorny" plants in front of the grave
This is easy to understand, but if there are thorny plants around the grave, it can cause harm and inconvenience to those who come to sweep the grave, pay respects, or take care of the grave.
Some families may bring their children to the grave during a grave visit, in which case if thorny plants are planted in front of the grave, the children may come into contact with these plants out of curiosity or mischievousness, resulting in accidental punctures. Therefore, thorny plants should not be planted near graves.
1. There is no mirror in front of the bed
The main reason for not leaving a mirror in front of bed is that mirrors can easily trigger anxiety and insomnia. In traditional culture, some people believe that placing a mirror in front of a bed can easily trigger some paranormal phenomena, and if you see a reflection in the mirror at night, it may trigger a panic reaction, leading to insomnia and anxiety.
Sleeping in front of a mirror may cause people to feel scared or anxious when they wake up at night or just wake up and see their own mirror image. Therefore, from a health point of view, it is best to avoid placing mirrors before bed, or to place mirrors that are not directly facing the bed.
For some people who are particularly sensitive or easily frightened, other measures may also be needed, such as the use of eye patches, earplugs, etc., to reduce the impact of external stimuli. Maintaining a quiet, comfortable, and relaxing sleeping environment is important for improving sleep quality and physical and mental health.
2. Do not leave sharp weapons in front of the bed
A bed is a place where people sleep, and if someone touches these objects in low light or at night, it can cause scratches or other accidental injuries. Therefore, avoiding sharp, injurious objects in front of the bed is to ensure the safety of family members and avoid possible injuries.
In addition, our ancestors were also superstitious that man-made sharp objects are prone to evil spirits, which will adversely affect the fortune of the occupants, which is of course a superstitious statement.
3. There is no clock in front of the bed
There is no bell in front of the bed because "bell" is homophonic with "end", which means "to send the end", which is considered unlucky in traditional culture.
In addition, from a practical point of view, having a clock in front of the bed can also be a bit inconvenient. For example, ticking may affect sleep quality, especially for some people who are sensitive to sound. In addition, if the clock in front of the bed is accidentally knocked over or broken, it can also cause injury or property damage.
In my opinion, having a clock in front of your bed can be stressful, especially for those who are sensitive to time or are prone to anxiety. Seeing the clock time go by can increase people's anxiety and affect their mental state
Fourth, do not leave the relics of deceased relatives in front of the bed
There are two reasons why the relics of the deceased loved ones are not left in front of the bed
First of all, these relics can trigger feelings of sadness and longing, affecting mood and sleep quality. For some people, seeing the relics of a loved one can make them constantly think of their deceased loved one, especially at night or while sleeping, and this emotional touch is likely to cause problems such as anxiety and insomnia.
Second, relics often have a special commemorative significance, but for most people, there is no need to remind themselves of the memory of their deceased loved ones at the bedside. Placing relics in a specific place, such as a souvenir box or photo album, allows for better preservation and cherishing of these memories, while also avoiding unwanted mood swings.
In summary, the old saying "three before the grave, no four in front of the bed" warns us that when planting and arranging the environment, we need to respect traditional culture, but also take into account the beauty and practicality of the environment. Only in this way can we create a harmonious and beautiful living environment for ourselves and our families.