Middle-aged
Wen Xiaoyi. Edited by Xiaoyi.
In recent years, many people have begun to say the word mid-life crisis, and they all say that mid-life crisis is a threshold, and women, especially female celebrities, are afraid that they will have no market and no value when they reach middle age.
This time, the tea guests told the truth, perhaps not what many people thought.
It happened a few days ago, a few tea friends got together for a tea party, the purpose of which was that everyone could let go of their identities, speak freely, and brainwash themselves.
The idea is not enough, friends come to make up, and the three stinkers are Zhuge Liang, jumping out of the original circle to find a wider range of ideas.
I have to say that everyone who seeks to improve always has their own way.
Although I usually drink tea, it is almost all kinds of chats, but we are still more excited about a purposeful topic together, who has no ideas, ideas determine the way out, listen to other people's ideas, collide with different sparks, maybe their own decisions will be different.
These friends who came to make up the game are almost middle-aged, and a friend happened to bring some beautiful tea from Yunnan, and the sharing of middle-aged people is sometimes as simple as that, a cup of tea, a topic, the important thing is not to eat, drink and have fun, but because it is a friend who just wants to chat.
A few friends who have known each other for many years are together, and as soon as they open their mouths, they hit the pain point, and now the market is not good, and middle-aged people have become worthless.
Now there are a lot of slash youth, and behind this slash, there is a sigh. In the final analysis, an iron rice bowl can eat very well, who is willing to spend extra energy to intercept and grab food, these years, really do have surplus food in hand, people who do not panic in their hearts, and few, and difficult!
Especially middle-aged people, old and young, have experienced a sudden three-year life, full of crises, unpredictable things, and no one knows when the next risk period will come.
It is said that people who have eaten enough will be particularly afraid of hunger, and all those who have had it will be particularly sensitive in the face of crisis.
Everyone chats for a few hours, and it can be summed up that people are middle-aged, whether they have money or not, it depends on whether they are worth money, and people who are becoming more and more valuable have these abilities.
Dare to face it. On the road of life, the brave wins.
As the saying goes: "Men are afraid of entering the wrong business, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man." "Everyone is trembling when they choose, and they will inevitably face another change.
Even Dong Yuhui, who has been hyped recently, his previous remarks were: He used to be a teacher, and now he is a salesperson, and he suddenly changed the track, and only he knows the various tastes in it.
From his experience, it really verifies the saying that without some frost and cold, there is no plum blossom fragrance.
Of course, he is not middle-aged, but he is like a ripening fruit.
Having said that, in the adult world, everything is not a trivial matter, there are too many things to worry about, and too many to face.
Although, everyone has not yet become an embryo, our efforts have begun, but the road of life is long, not always all the way to the sun, on the rugged road of growth, there are many people who will be defeated by setbacks, become panicked, and dare not face it.
Even if I knew that it was the darkness before dawn, I chose to lie down in the torment, and missed the opportunity to see the sun again.
Mr. Qin is like this, he can't stand it anymore, he chose to get off, and now he is at a middle-aged trough.
And Mr. Jiang, who came with him, also made small household appliances before, and was still a person with a name in the Nanning circle back then, but everyone thought that he had a smooth road and made money, but he threw the company to the professional ** hand invited to invest himself.
At that time, many people said that he didn't toss, he could eat for a lifetime just by doing a line, and engaging in investment was messing around, and taking money to waste.
Only he knows that his company has little room to do bigger, and there is a chance to develop in many aspects.
Everyone said that he had a unique vision, and only he knew that his current success was due to often sorting out his own shortcomings and daring to face all difficulties, and his sensitivity made him find more opportunities for himself.
Once you encounter the right opportunity, you must step out of your comfort zone and choose to fight decisively.
Life is always choosing, and daring to face it is the source of everything that begins.
Willing to fight. There is a saying that the only way to win a life is to create it yourself.
In one's own life, everyone can fantasize about being God, and when God wants the world to have wind, there will be wind in the world, and when God wants the world to have rain, there will be rain in the world.
The changes of people in the trough period can often see a person's underlying thinking.
As experts say, the richer you are, the sooner you prepare survival skills for the next generation, and those who are prone to crises in middle age are often those who are not prepared.
These deficiencies are limited by family conditions, limited by their own growth experience, and limited by their own face.
Everyone said that if you don't do anything, you will always think that face is important, and in the face of survival, face can step into the dust, and these truths that are easy to be ignored are actually very heart-wrenching.
Some people live for a lifetime, but they just cycle the same day many times. And for some people, every day of life is a new day.
The latter is the one who becomes more and more valuable after middle age.
Opportunities are left to those who are prepared, in the reserve crowd, there are not many people in Meng Zuyin, the vast majority of ordinary people, or rely on their own precautions, early for themselves to make a lifetime of planning, not to mention that all the changes are expected, but it is also a sense of security not to ask for too many accidents.
In this way, every time a risk comes, it is not a waste of time to think of a way to get emergency help, but to face every setback, like seizing a new opportunity, dare to face it, be willing to fight, and strive to take every opportunity as the cornerstone of growth.
Everyone who knows Gree knows that Miss Dong fought hard in a particularly difficult situation, not only to break through herself, but also to find a new direction for Gree.
Boss Huang here is to do Gree**, they have been following in the footsteps of Miss Dong, and they have also made a lot of money, in his own words, that is, when he has no ideas, follow the people who can fight, and others eat meat, so that they will not have no soup to drink.
Give it a go, the bicycle becomes a motorcycle, the more bad it is, the more you are willing to fight, there is still a chance to fight.
I can persevere. In this year's Xiaohongshu, there is a sentence like this many times: "Giving up is a particularly easy thing, and it is a cool thing to be able to persevere." ”
There are a lot of people who cry enough on this cool side, but once their eyes sweep over, they immediately swallow their tears and keep smiling.
Therefore, those who can persist are ruthless people, ruthless to themselves, and even more ruthless to things.
Just like Mr. Hu, they made maternal and child products, and in the first year of the epidemic, because many imported products were stranded at the customs and expired, the store could only be closed for more than half a year, plus various expenses of rent and labor, which directly crushed them and chose to close the company.
In less than a year, the net loss was almost two million, which was really back before the liberation, and the competitor opposite him for more than ten years, but after the same shutdown for half a year, he slowly stabilized his business.
Although everyone comforted him, it was really not his fault that the special circumstances and unpredictable risks in the past few years were unpredictable.
But Mr. Hu himself felt that he was a net loss, and others were just a floating loss, and the difference was whether he was willing to insist at the beginning.
Every persistence is not an easy task, it is necessary to have excellent ability, but also to have a strong will, and perseverance to achieve the goal.
Middle-aged people are becoming more and more valuable, it is the wisdom and pattern of life that have changed, there is a strong heart, the ability to dare to face everything, the pattern of willing to fight, and the correct persistence is the magic weapon to win, right.
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