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We all know that people treat love differently. Compared with men's frank and straightforward expressions, women appear more reserved, reserved, and restrained in love, and sometimes appear perfunctory, disguised, and contrived. Women are good at hiding their true emotions in various ways, appearing calm and rational on the surface, but turbulent inside. This kind of contradiction and conflict also makes women appear more mysterious, charming, and charming in love.
To know if a woman really loves you, you can't just watch her "show off" in the WeChat circle of friends, and you can't completely believe what she says "I love you to death". These can be wrong and can confuse your judgment and lead you off the path of love.
To understand if a woman really loves you, you need to go back to the essence of love. You can often find clues in a woman's behavior in bed. It turns out that if a woman really loves you, she is likely to have such a physiological reaction in bed, but this cannot be faked. Therefore, only by respecting women and valuing their true feelings can we get better love.
I can't help but feel sorry for you.
I once heard the saying, "To love someone is to be helpless." This sentence made me think deeply because it revealed the most precious quality of love: heartache, which I was forced to do. 。If a person truly loves you, he genuinely cares about you and cares about you, and they can't bear to let you suffer, and they can't bear to see you sad. He will do everything in his power to protect you and bear all the sorrow and sorrow for you.
There is a woman in my unit named my sister. She is the happiest woman I have ever met. My husband and I have been married for over a decade, but even at this age, I am still pampered like a princess. My sister once told me that she was hot in the summer and cool in the winter, but luckily she had a husband who was always there to help her. In the summer, when the heat is unbearable, I am irritable and can't sleep with the air conditioner on.
At this time, my husband went to find a ** fan, and he patiently continued to use the fan in the middle of the night, sweating profusely. In winter, my hands and feet were cold, so my husband asked me to put them directly on my stomach to keep warm, and I was cold several times, but he never complained. Sister Mi said that life is full of such small details, and the reason why she wanted to marry him in the first place was because of his kindness. The reason why he married her in the first place was not because of how good she was, but because she was the only woman who made him miserable.
I think it's probably the best relationship. You pity me, I pity you, it's all from the heart, unconscious, and for no reason. Mr. Yang said: "No matter how good a person is, if you don't sympathize with him, it doesn't mean anything. You can make vows, you can pretend to be romantic, but the heartache is real. You can't fool anyone. "You see, if someone cares about you, you don't have to face it alone, you don't have to grit your teeth and put on a show, you just have to bear all the setbacks in silence, you don't need to.
Forgive your sleep Xi.
As the saying goes, "everyone is different", and in this colorful world, everyone has their own unique personality and Xi. Some men don't like heat in the first place, so they don't want to use warm blankets even in the cold winter, and they don't want to sleep directly on the mat in the hot summer, but want to cover the quilt. "Cover yourself with ** and turn over. "Someone said. Very low from the bottom of the air conditioner. Similarly, when it comes to sleeping positions, some men like to be tightly wrapped in ** and protect themselves like silkworm babies, while others prefer to lie on their sides with their backs to others.
These seemingly strange Xi habits are actually like the rings of trees, deeply engraved in the bones during the growth process, marking the cycle of their lives. For them, these Xi are like the spice of life, making life more personal and attractive. Perhaps it is only in this familiar environment that humans can truly relax, fall into a deep sleep, and enjoy a sweet dreamland.
If a woman really loves this man, she will not easily criticize him and will not try to change his Xi. Instead, she will understand and accept these Xi with the utmost tolerance and respect. Her heart was filled with love for this man, and she noticed not only his sleeping position, but also his smile, eyes, kindness, and talent.
She knows that everyone is a unique individual, and everyone has their own way of life and Xi. These Xi cannot measure a person's worth or love. Therefore, she will not force him to change, but will try her best to adapt and understand him. At the same time, she also cherishes every moment with him, and his calm sleeping face and happy smile are the most precious memories in her heart.
No matter how he slept, no matter what his Xi was, as long as he slept next to her, as long as her eyes could see his sleepy but not sleepy face, it was enough, she knew. This is because, it means that the love between two people is real and deep and does not need words.
That is, these seemingly different Xi and gestures are actually unique expressions of their personalities and emotions. Each person has their own unique characteristics as well as lifestyle and ways of expressing themselves. A woman's love and respect for a man is often reflected in whether she can understand and accept his uniqueness.
I can't help but give in to you.
Chen Xiaochun once gave us advice: "Quarrels are not determined by the outcome, even if you don't want to listen, you should calm down and calm down." "She. This view deserves our approval and consideration. I saw a very interesting and touching article on the Internet the other day. When I played chess with my wife, I was already convinced that I would win with just five moves. My wife didn't believe it and insisted that the horse was a thousand miles so it could go through the "field" squares, so I put up with it. She also said that since it was a special force, the soldiers could retreat, but I still couldn't hold back, I endured ......After a few steps, she asked the pawn to carry the elephant across the river, saying that it was Dumbo, but I still held back ......In the end, she won.
We talked all day, and she poured me a glass of wine during the meal. This story touched me deeply and made me realize that if people love you deeply, they will always be considerate of you and tolerate your temper and occasional selfishness.
In relationships, disagreements and arguments are not scary. The scariest thing is that two people can't communicate well. A good relationship is not about not quarrelling, but about being able to spend a long life together even if you quarrel. After a fight, a person's attitude and behavior can accurately tell what he thinks of you. If a person is truly in love with you, he will not blindly vent his feelings, but will bow his head and try to have a heart-to-heart conversation with you. These people don't have a bad temper and aren't easily bullied, but they genuinely care about you.
Many relationships break down because both parties are unwilling to bow their heads and reconcile. Therefore, when you quarrel with your beloved, you can bow your head first and try to make your love more lasting and beautiful.
I always agree with this statement. "The best dowry for a man is a lifetime of tolerance, and the best dowry for a woman is a lifetime of understanding. This sentence touched me deeply and made me understand love. The most important qualities in life are tolerance and understanding. No two people are perfect partners in the emotional world, but only with gentle concessions, mutual tolerance and understanding, two people can go further and build a more lasting love.
If you meet someone who gives in first when you quarrel, cherish it. Because behind those who bow their heads and give in, there is the quietest love. Such people often know how to take care of their feelings, give and compromise. Instead of impulsively saying hurtful things, he or she will communicate calmly and find solutions to problems. Such people deserve our care and concern.