If a woman reaches middle age, she will still be trapped by love.
Then her life will probably become more and more miserable as time goes by.
Because when you are young, everyone has tried the taste of love to a greater or lesser extent.
Although love is not just for young people, but for middle-aged people.
Love is indeed a luxury, which many people can't afford.
So for every age group, there will be a theme to match.
The theme for young people is growing up, and the theme for older people is to enjoy old age.
The theme of middle-aged people is the struggle for life.
If you don't work hard at the age when you should be struggling, you will pursue something romantic.
Then as a result, it is very likely that you will only make your life more and more miserable.
I had a female colleague in her early forties, divorced, and alone with a daughter.
Her parents are not in good health, and her daughter is still in high school.
So the pressure of life is undoubtedly huge for her.
It stands to reason that she should find a man with financial means to consider remarrying.
In doing so, she can not only find a shoulder to lean on, but also win a lot of benefits for her parents and daughter.
But in reality, she did the opposite.
In order to pursue the so-called love, she will always fall in love with some young people in their twenties and thirties.
Speaking of which, her relationship is still extremely unstable, and she often breaks up and gets back together.
And every time she is hurt, she always proves her sincerity by dying.
She did so while worrying her elderly parents.
In addition, her own work is not so prominent, so most of the people who interact with her are young people who have no economic foundation.
As a result, her life became a mess, and her parents and daughter suffered with it.
In the long run, her future life is unimaginable.
I believe that many people should have heard a sentence, that is, in our life, everyone will have more than four opportunities, seize it, you can turn over.
The first chance is when you are born, the second chance is when you take the college entrance examination, and the third chance is when you get married.
If you don't take the first three chances, then you have one last chance left, and that's on your own.
Yes, the mountain that sustains you can fall, and all those you can rely on can escape.
But you alone are the most reliable.
No matter how bad your state is, as long as you work hard with your own hands, there is still no problem in supporting your family.
However, there will still be many people in life who are not willing to work the ground.
Always fantasize about the good things happening in one step, such as some people study the lottery every day and dream of winning the first prize.
Others think of themselves as late bloomers, staying at home all day ...... doing nothing
These people don't give up easily, but they always want to take shortcuts.
However, they dare not admit that there are no shortcuts in life.
So if you don't take your life seriously, then you can only end up being slapped in the face by reality.
So if you want to get something, then you have to learn to give first, it's an eternal truth.
Therefore, when people reach middle age, if they want to not be trapped by love, then they must do things in a down-to-earth manner.
If you always think about those things that will reach the sky in one step, then you are destined to be tied up by many things.