Leo Tolstoy once said, "Women are not lovely because they are beautiful, but beautiful because they are lovely." Obviously, beauty is not a necessary condition for charm, and the highest level of charm of a woman is to live a "high-class" life.
In terms of interacting with people, some women exude kindness and proportion from the inside out, which makes people feel comfortable and comfortableThere are also some women who feel offended as soon as they do something, and then always want to stay away.
Specifically, a woman has four of the most priceless behaviors, and hopefully you don't have one.
Everyone has a heart for beauty, only if you love your own image more, your man will love you more, women don't be lazy anymore, even if you get married together, you must also maintain a heart that loves beauty, if you don't care about your external image, men will think that you are getting cheaper and cheaper, and they won't care about you so much.
Poor self-support in the relationship is the easiest to exchange for the contempt of others. To maintain the refinement of life, the appearance of decency and generosity, and the abundance of inner heritage, not to please others, but to strive to become a better version of yourself. Really smart women know how to "enrich" themselves.
For a woman, you have to remember that the person who has you in your heart does not need you to go to great lengths to please, and the person who does not have you in your heart, even if you grovel to please blindly, will not really take you seriously. If you are always Xi to please others, in addition to having less and less self in your heart, it is also the most cheap behavior, in a relationship, if you do not have your own boundaries and bottom line, then the relationship must be shaky.
Women who constantly accept all kinds of ambiguity and take pride in them are difficult to be looked down upon by men, and really good men will definitely avoid them. The men they can attract are often men with the same bad intentions as them, so they will only cycle in pain and never get true love for the rest of their lives.
A woman who is truly respected, has a degree of speech, and has a sense of boundaries in her heart. They don't want to stir up gossip, and they don't want to cause trouble to their friends' families. Don't cross the line, don't rely on, don't be ambiguous.
Blindly giving, blindly pleased, can not be exchanged for a man's touch and man's love.
Love is mutual, feelings are two people's business, if you always blindly give, and he will only enjoy your pay, but not for you, then your love will be unbalanced, your pay to him, will only make him worse, think that your pay, your concession is taken for granted.
Women, you must not let men think that you are very "cheap", and don't let men think that you are not worthy!You have to keep working hard, keep getting yourself, live for yourself, not for men, love yourself well, instead of blindly paying, blindly please, let men revolve around you, instead of trying to capture men's hearts!
For the rest of your life, may you retain the ability to love others, and don't lose the bottom line of your feelings. The most important thing is to live up to the time and live up to yourself.