My name is Xiao Huan, I am 25 years old and I am a kindergarten teacher. My boyfriend Xiao Ming and I have been in love for two years.
Xiao Ming was a college classmate of mine and worked in a foreign company after graduation. He was very nice to me when we were in love, often asking me out to the movies, going to the park, and taking me out every weekend. I think Xiao Ming is the most caring person I have ever met.
Last year, Xiao Ming's career has developed greatly, he was promoted to project manager by the company, and his salary has doubled. He began to think about buying a house and getting married. One day, he said to me excitedly: "Baby, I have been looking at a house recently, and I am going to buy two sets, one for us to live in, and one for future children." I am optimistic about the housing price trend in Beijing and want to buy two houses in Huilongguan, what do you think?”
I was very happy when I heard it, after all, Xiao Ming was proposing to me. I said excitedly, "Okay, okay, I agree with what you say, I can't wait to marry you!".”
Xiao Ming hugged me with a smile and said, "I'm super glad to hear you say that." I'll officially propose to you next month!”
I was a little surprised and immediately said, "What?".You're going to give one of our houses to your brother-in-law as a wedding room?But you said before that you wanted to buy two sets so that we could have children in the future?”
Xiao Ming explained: "I know I said that before, but my brother-in-law really needs this house now. He and his girlfriend are engaged, and the family is urging them to get married quickly, but he doesn't have the money to buy a house. I'm his dearest nephew, and they're all counting on me to help with that. I'm also embarrassed, so I would like to ask you to understand me. ”
I was a little anxious after hearing this: "But how can you decide to give away our house on your own without consulting me?"I understand your brother-in-law's difficulties, but that shouldn't be our responsibility, right?You make me feel like you're in charge of our future, and you don't think about my thoughts or needs. ”
Xiao Ming hurriedly took my hand and said, "Baby, I really know it's wrong, there is really a problem with the way I thought about the problem just now, and I shouldn't have made a unilateral decision." But, please think about it again, help my little brother-in-law, you should do me this favor, and I will compensate you later. ”
I shook off his hand and said angrily, "Okay, you can figure it out for yourself and contact me, I'm disappointed right now and need time to calm down." With that, I turned around and left.
When I got home, the more I thought about it, the more angry I became. How can Xiao Ming be like this, he promised me to buy two suites before, one for us to live in, and one for our future children. Now he wants to take one of them to his brother-in-law as a wedding room. I don't care about my feelings and needs, is such a person really suitable for marriage?
In the evening, Xiao Ming called me a few **, but I didn't answer. Later, he sent a message saying, "Baby, you calm down for a few days, and we'll talk about it later." I know I didn't think it through, but please put yourself in my shoes and think about it, my brother-in-law really needs this house. The stakes are high for him. We might as well all take a step back and be considerate of each other. ”
Two days later, Xiao Ming came to me again and said that he wanted to talk to me in person. I reluctantly agreed.
Xiao Ming said to me apologetically: "Baby, I've been thinking about it a lot in the past few days, knowing that I didn't think it through before and didn't respect your feelings. I was really wrong. I reconsidered it and felt that the future of the two of us was the most important thing, and that our interests should not be sacrificed. I decided to buy just one apartment and keep it for us. My brother-in-law's side, I'll find other ways to help him. Can you forgive me?”
I was still a little angry after hearing this: "It's still hard for me to accept it now, you ask me first and I'll make a decision, how can I feel safe with you?"I need time to figure it out. ”
Xiao Ming said anxiously: "Baby, I know that I didn't think it through this time, but I definitely didn't mean not to take you to heart." I swear that I will discuss all major matters with you in the future, and I will never make decisions without your consent. Please give me a chance to start over!”
I looked at his sincerity and felt conflicted. The bits and pieces of these two years have reminded me that he is a responsible person. But this time he did a hard job for me to accept. I struggled for a while, and finally said, "Okay, I can try to stay with you." But I want you to understand that marriage requires mutual respect. You can't just make decisions just because you think you have good intentions. This time you need to take your time with my trust. ”
I nodded, deciding to give him another chance. I hope that this issue will make our relationship stronger and make Xiao Ming grow. There's still a long way to go, and we will.
I nodded, deciding to give him another chance. I hope that this issue will make our relationship stronger and make Xiao Ming grow. There is still a long way to go, and we will continue to walk step by step.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye our wedding date is approaching. Xiao Ming only bought one apartment as promised, and he began to plan our wedding in earnest. I gradually let go of this unhappiness and decided to prepare for marriage wholeheartedly.
Yesterday Xiao Ming came to me in a hurry and said that he had booked the wedding venue and the honeymoon trip. He also said to me mysteriously, "Baby, I have a surprise for you!".With that, he took out a gift box, and inside was a beautiful veil. I was so happy that I couldn't help but hug him.
I was also moved to say to him, "I know you are a responsible person. This time the problem has strengthened our relationship. I am so lucky to marry you. ”
And just like that, in our sweet preparations, the day of the wedding is getting closer and closer.
Yesterday, my best friend Xiaofang came to the house to help me try on the wedding dress, and she chatted with me while sorting out the skirt of the wedding dress for me: "Xiao Huan, I heard that Xiao Ming wanted to give the house you bought to his brother-in-law, and you found out?"How did this matter be resolved?”
I smiled and said to her, "Well, it was really hard for me to accept at first." But then we communicated well, and Xiao Ming realized that the problem was that he made a decision without considering my feelings. This experience has strengthened our relationship. ”
Xiao Fang nodded and said, "You guys handled it well!."It is true that marriage requires mutual understanding and respect. Xiao Ming has also learned a lesson this time, and it will be better for you in the future. ”
I said, "yes, I'm sure we're going to have a happy marriage." Xiao Ming is very good to me and will make me feel at ease and happy. ”
We chatted and chatted, and time passed. Today Xiao Ming and I are going to get the certificate, and our wedding will be in a few days. I looked at myself in my wedding dress in the mirror and was thrilled. I believe that the future with Xiao Ming will be very bright.
Today Xiao Ming and I went to get the marriage certificate, and we officially became a legal husband and wife. In the evening, Xiao Ming said to me excitedly: "Wife, we are finally married!".It's me, an incompetent man, who is so lucky to marry a woman as wonderful as you. ”
I laughed and quipped him, "Okay, okay, the talker." I am the luckiest one to have such a considerate and responsible husband as you. ”
Xiao Ming shook my hand and said, "Every year today, it will be our wedding anniversary." I will remember this day and give you the most special surprise every year!”
Well, me too. I said happily.
A few days later, our wedding finally took place. The wedding scene was very lively, and all the family and friends came to send us blessings. I put on a beautiful wedding dress and exchanged rings, hugged, and kissed Xiao Ming in front of everyone's gaze. Our union was witnessed by all, and I felt extremely happy and satisfied.
After the wedding, Xiao Ming happily said to me, "Wife, our wedding is really perfect!".It's all like a dream, I love you so much!”
I also smiled and said, "I love you too!".It's a scenario I've imagined countless times, and today it finally came true. Thank you for giving me such a wonderful wedding. ”
After the wedding, we started preparing for our honeymoon. Xiao Ming told me mysteriously that he had already arranged the itinerary, but the specific going ** should be kept secret, and I would be surprised when the time came.
Finally, the day of departure has arrived. Xiao Ming drove me to the airport, and it turned out that he had booked a plane ticket to Hawaii!I couldn't be happier that Hawaii was my dream honeymoon. When I saw the boarding pass, I hugged Xiao Ming excitedly and said, "Oh my God, that's great!."I want to go to Hawaii the most, how do you know?”
Xiao Ming smiled and said, "Wife, do you need to talk about this?"I know all your preferences. It's my life's job to make you happy. This trip is sure to be wonderful!”
Sure enough, this trip to Hawaii was very romantic and unforgettable. We walked by the sea, watched the sunset, swimming, diving, and embraced each other. It was the sweetest memory of our lives.
After returning to China, we officially started living together. Xiao Ming keeps the house warm and comfortable, and often cooks food for me after work every day. With him by my side, I felt more fulfilled and happy than ever.
One night, Xiao Ming suddenly said to me mysteriously: "Wife, I have prepared a surprise for you, come and guess what it is!".”
I smiled and said, "Well, it's so mysterious, it can't be a baby, right?"”
Xiao Ming shook his head with a smile: "No, guess again!."”
I thought for a moment, "Was that a surprise trip?".”
I thought for a moment, "Was that a surprise trip?".”
Xiao Ming said: "No, guess again!."”
I coquettishly said, "Oh, tell me, I can't guess!".”
Xiao Ming smiled and took out a small box from behind him, and when he opened it, it was a pair of delicate rings. He looked at me tenderly and said, "Wife, we've been married for a year. Every bit of this year has been the happiest time of my life. Today is our wedding anniversary, and I want to give you this, hoping that we will grow old together and be together forever. ”
I was so excited that tears came out, and I immediately hugged Xiao Ming and said, "I love you too, you have given me great happiness this year." We'll be together forever. ”
Xiao Ming helped me put on the ring, and I helped him put it on. This pair of rings symbolizes our strong relationship and commitment to the future.
Finally, our baby was born. Xiao Ming hugged the child, his eyes were full of love: "Wife, our baby is so cute!."In the future, we will take care of her together and give her the best life. ”
I nodded and said, "We will, we will give her a warm home." ”
And just like that, we became a family of three. Xiao Ming will make time to spend with me and my baby after work. He will tell stories to the baby and make her happy. The baby is getting clingy to him.
One day, the baby said to Xiao Ming: "Dabi, I like you the most!".”
Xiao Ming smiled and said, "Baby, Daddy likes you the most!."”
I looked at the intimacy of their father and daughter, and I couldn't help but sigh: "We are now a happy family." It's all something I've ever dreamed of. ”
Xiao Ming came over and put his arm around my shoulders and said gently, "You gave me the courage and strength to be a good husband and father. I will always love you and accompany you through every moment of your life. ”
I leaned into his arms, my heart full of happiness. We've had ups and downs, but we've finally come together. I believe that we will continue to walk hand in hand in the future.