15-year-old children are in the rebellious period of adolescence, their minds are extremely unstable, and in the process of going to school, they are easily disturbed by the outside world, and then do not go to school. Faced with this situation, many parents say that they are powerless and do not know how to convince their children to go to school. So, how to cultivate children's interest in learning?How to convince a 15-year-old child not to go to school
1. Communicate patiently with your child
The best practice for parents whose 15-year-olds don't go to school is to sit down with their children and have a good chat and calmly ask why they don't want to go to school. Because a child's reluctance to go to school may be related to his or her academic performance falling behind, or it may be related to the disharmony between classmates, parents need to take different measures for different reasons. Therefore, parents should not only listen patiently to their children's voices, but also think calmly about what their children are saying.
2. Parents should pay attention to the ways and means of motivation for their children
To learn to praise and encourage, parents must understand that verbal praise will play a great role in encouraging children's learning, and affirm their children's progress in a timely manner. Parents can also try to take advantage of the transfer between interest and learning. Because of their strengths and interests, children will often receive praise and encouragement from the school and parents, so that their interests will also be subtly transferred to learning, so as to complement each other.
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3. From the child's point of view, guide him to solve the problem
When communicating with 15-year-olds, parents should try to avoid strong imperative communication. Try to learn to put yourself in your child's shoes and guide him to solve problems. For example, the homework is too difficult, he can't keep up with the progress, and even says that because you keep talking about him, he doesn't study. Only by knowing what the problems are, can we solve them one by one. First you can show your understanding of your child, and then you can work with your child on the matter.
4. Let children understand the essence of learning
In many cases, children do not know what they should learn and what the meaning of learning is, and the current education system's emphasis on grades is almost their only impression of learning. In this way, it is very natural for children with poor grades to have an aversion to learning. In addition, many children are very eager to learn well, but lack the right method, and over time, their self-efficacy will decline significantly, and they will have problems such as learned helplessness in learning, so they begin to avoid learning.
As parents, we should work with our children to learn the essence of learning, reduce their focus on grades, re-recognize the importance of the learning process, and strengthen their interest in the learning process. The guidance of learning methods can make it easier for them to learn, so that they can enjoy learning more easily.
How to cultivate children's interest in learning?How to educate a 15-year-old child during the rebellious period
Care and love. Most of the 15-year-old children belong to the rebellious period, parents lack scientific methods, and education is only based on feelings and experience, which leads to unsound children's personalities. At this age, we are in the rebellious period of youth, we must take care and love, persuade education to carry out psychological counseling, at this time you can not take reprimand or scolding, do not put too much pressure on the child, you have to reason with the child, choose the appropriate sports, and give the child positive action guidance.
That's all for sharing how to cultivate children's interest in learning, and communicate with children on an equal footing. In ordinary family education, the tension between parents and children is mostly due to the defects caused by the communication environment, such as always forcing children to go to school, or they play with mobile phones for a long time, and we ask them to stop playing with mobile phones immediately. We are all familiar with these communication episodes, because we have all experienced them, in fact, from such an environment, you can feel as if there is a command relationship, so this relationship is placed in a 15-year-old child, and it is easy to cause rebellion.