One night two years ago, I attended a friend's as a bridesmaidWeddings。It was a romantic evening, and when Zhang Shuai took me by the hand and entered, I was deeply attracted by his gentlemanly demeanor. WeddingsAfter it was over, unexpectedly, he called me **, expressing his willingness to pursue. Although I have some crush on him, I am not in a hurry to say yes and want to see how he performs.
But he doesn't care about giving, in the time we get along, he will always pick me up from work, take me out on a date, and prepare elaborate gifts every holiday, so that I can feel his sincerity and care. This kind of care and care gradually touched me, and I began to accept his pursuit.
A year later, I went to meet Zhang Shuai's parents, and my mother-in-law was very enthusiastic about me, and I felt that I had really found the right person. Soon after, we decided to get married. When my friends heard about us, they were all very envious of me. Who would have thought that because of a chance encounter, I would marry a rich and handsome man.
On my wedding day, I was busy all day, but I was still looking forward to my wedding night. After the guests left, I washed up and walked into the bedroom full of joy, only to find that Zhang Shuai had fallen asleep deeply. At first I didn't blame him, after all, he was really tired after a busy day. But the next day, he still couldn't do it, and I wanted to comfort him, but after two years of marriage, I was still a "girl".
Although I have some opinions about him, Zhang Shuai is still very good to me. After marriage, I didn't change my attitude. But in this paragraphMarriageWe often face some troubles. A few times, I persuaded him to see a doctor, but he felt ashamed and refused to go. I also often look at my friends around me and envy the integrity and happiness of their married life.
What angered me the most was my mother-in-law's attitude. It was supposed to be a matter between us and wife, but she intervened and blamed me. Criticize me every day, even that I'm a hen that doesn't lay eggs. Once, I couldn't get angry and voiced my dissatisfaction. The mother-in-law was taken aback, but looked at the angry Zhang Shuai and didn't say anything more. I didn't expect that Zhang Shuai felt hurt in my pride because I leaked his secret, and he actually slapped me.
After being slapped by my husband, I couldn't bear such a grievance, so I immediately returned to my parents' house. In front of my family, I poured out my heartache and grievances in the past two years. The family was very angry, so the whole family went to Zhang Shuai's house to ask what was going on. However, this was originally a matter between me and Zhang Shuai, but he didn't feel that he was wrong at all, and even contradicted my parents.
Zhang Shuai's attitude made the two families completely fall into a quarrel. My father's blood pressure elevated during an argument and he was eventually admitted to the hospital and died. After all this happened, my family didn't blame me, but I couldn't let go of the fact that my father left because of me, and that experience became a pain in my heart that will never be healed.
Looking backMarriageI realized that inMarriageThe harmony of sex life is essential for the relationship between husband and wife. It's not just a physiological need, it's moreEmotionA way to communicate. Zhang Shuai and I had difficulties in this regard, we did not face the problem, and did not seek a solution in time, which eventually led toMarriageof rupture.
MarriageIt is not only dependent on love, but also on understanding and tolerance between husband and wife. I have always tried to understand and accept Zhang Shuai's difficulties, but he did not have the courage to face the problem and selfishly insisted on resisting**. This irresponsible attitude hurts usMarriage, which eventually led to tragedy.
For those who haven't stepped in yetMarriageFor the people of the temple, this story is a cautionary tale. MarriageIt is a journey through thick and thin, and understanding, trust and communication between couples are crucial. In the face of problems, we should not run away from them, but should support each other and solve them together. Only then can we be thereMarriageto gain happiness and contentment.
Through this experience, I understoodMarriageIt requires the efforts and dedication of both sides, and there can be no unilateral expectations or accusations. Whether it's having a happy oneMarriageStill experienced failureMarriageWe should all learn from this and continue to grow. I choose to get out of the pain of the past and believe that in the days to come, I will find my own happiness.