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I love to share dry goods with you and accompany you to achieve financial independence.
Please submit your resume and certificate, thank you for your cooperation!”
Looking at the line of words on the screen, I was excited and nervous. This is the first time I have submitted my resume, and the content of the work is also what I am interested in, so I carefully began to choose a template and write my resume seriously.
In less than half an hour, I collected the materials required by the interviewer, and after packing the documents, I couldn't press the send button for a long time
Will my resume be too simple?Did I write too little in my Xi experience?Isn't my sentence coherent enough?
All kinds of questions lingered in my heart, I hesitated, and silently thought in my heart: other people's resumes may be full, I should change them again.
So, I went through the experience posts of various resumes with anxiety, revised them over and over again, guessed over and over again whether my resume would appeal to the interviewer, and after a day, I finally changed my resume to the "perfect" look in my mind.
However, when I confidently submitted my resume, I was told by the interviewer that I had hired the right person.
I held the "perfect resume" in my hand, it was indeed better than the first version of the resume, but just as I was "dressing up" for it, the opportunity slipped away.
I regret that if I had been less anxious and hesitant at the time, I might have made it to the job and submit this not so perfect resume – it was flawed, but I still had a chance to succeed.
Because of my hesitation, I have been waiting for the moment when everything is ready, and I want to wait for all the conditions to be in place before I start acting.
It wasn't until I handed in the "perfect" resume that I had changed countless times to the interviewer and found out that I had already hired someone that I realized that I couldn't have it both ways, and that perfect preparation would make the right opportunity slip away.
In psychology, hesitation is a normal psychological phenomenon. It's understandable that our brains do a lot of thinking and weighing before making a decision.
However, excessive hesitation can cause us to be anxious, unable to make decisions, and even cause us to lose confidence and courage – deciding not to start because of the fear of the unknown.
There are many choices in life, but opportunities are fleeting, and a hesitant personality can make us miss many important opportunities.
When we want to do something, we should act immediately, because only when we really start to act, can we find our own shortcomings and areas that need to be improved, and we can continue to improve and improve ourselves.
While the timid wisdom is still hesitating, the brave ignorance has acted.
Xiao Chen, I want to take you to do research on this topic, I don't know if you have time?”
The teacher's invitation appeared in the chat box, and I looked at this novel research direction, eager to try it and at the same time hesitating whether I could do it well and whether I would live up to the teacher's expectations.
What an opportunity!The professor takes you to do what you don't worry about!”
It's because he's a professor, and if you promise and don't do a good job, he'll be disappointed in you!”
The two villains in my heart kept arguing, and hesitation took root in my heart. But after experiencing too many "hesitation and failure", I thought about it: even if my research results are mediocre, this is a process of learning Xi and a way to improve myself.
Hesitation and missing out brought me not only a foregone conclusion, but also endless regrets and regrets, even if I fail after trying, the regrets will gradually fade, and the regrets brought by not doing it will increase day by day.
No matter what the final result is, it is the crystallization of my efforts, even if it is not satisfactory, it is also a valuable life experience for me.
Looking at this opportunity in front of me, I decided that I couldn't afford to lose it because of hesitation. Even if you fail, you have taken the first step to success by daring to try, and the remaining shortcomings will be made up for with actions!
Okay teacher, I'll try to do research with you!"Sent successful!A big rock in my heart also fell to the ground.
I was afraid of the unknown possibilities, so I looked ahead and chose to stop at the intersection. Recognize that opportunities don't wait for anyone, and act first.
Realizing this, I felt as if I had opened up and participated in the epidemic prevention and control volunteer and ran for the ...... of the student union presidentWhat seemed like a whimsical action before is now carried out meticulously. And every achievement I have received proves that I made the right choice.
As Yang Lan said: Sometimes the joke of fate is that you have been hesitating, and when you finally make up your mind, it is time for the curtain call. Hesitation is not a careful analysis, it is simply a swing of thought and will.
Instead of indecisively worrying that things will turn out for the better, take advantage of these rare opportunities.
There is no such thing as a completely right decision in the world, and what we have to do is to do our best to make the right choice after the choice is made.
The best time to plant a tree was ten years ago, followed by now. It's happened, and we're at the point where it's time to make a decision again.
Only at the beginning, can you gradually discover your own shortcomings, instead of self-denial in hesitation, it is better to improve yourself in action, don't worry about unknown problems, the future is endless.