Does a bad family of origin affect your future?My story tells you

Mondo Parenting Updated on 2024-01-28

In '88, I was born into an ordinary working-class family, and my parents worked hard to support the family. When I was a child, I used to look at the backs of my parents and silently vow that I would get ahead and give them a better life.

At that time, I thought that if I worked hard to study Xi, I would be able to achieve all my dreams. But life is not so simple. After graduating from high school, I was forced to enter the social work because of my family's financial problems.

Xiao Yang, you are not doing the right thing here, if you continue like this, I am afraid that you will not be able to do this job. The boss's words pierced my heart like a needle. I understand that if you don't improve yourself, you can only be looked down upon.

One day after work, I passed by a park and saw an old man practicing Tai Chi. His movements are fluid and steady, as if isolated from the world. Curious, I stepped forward to ask for advice.

Young man, you see, Tai Chi is about the balance of yin and yang. Life is the same, there are advances and retreats, gains and losses. If you want to be at peace, you must learn to adjust yourself. The old man said earnestly.

I began to reflect on myself. The work is not going well because I only see the difficulties of life and ignore its beauty. I decided to change myself, start from the heart, and find the true meaning of life.

I quit my job and decided to start over. I used my savings to sign up for a computer training course and planned to start from scratch. In the training class, I met Xiao Zhang.

You're also here for trainingXiao Zhang asked curiously.

Yes, I want to start over. What about you?”

Me too. I had failed in my business before, but I was not reconciled, so I decided to learn Xi a skill. ”

We looked at each other and smiled, as if we had found a soulmate. On the road to learning Xi, we encourage and help each other. Whenever I encounter difficulties, I will think of the old man's words and adjust my mentality. Finally, at the end of the course, we all found satisfactory jobs. My income has also gradually increased, allowing my parents to live a better life. The smiles on their faces are my greatest pride.

Son, you've changed. One day, my mother looked at me and said, "Your eyes are full of confidence and determination now." ”

I smiled, "Yes, Mom." I learned how to face life's difficulties and challenges. ”

In my work, I not only strive to improve my business ability, but also actively convey positive energy. When a colleague is struggling, I lend a hand;When the team mood is low, I use humor and optimism to infect everyone. I've found that when I use my heart to help others and pass on positive energy, I become happier and more fulfilled.

One day after work, I received a text message: "Thank you for always giving me encouragement and support. Because of your help, I am now confident in my work. "Looking at this text message, I understood my value.

Life is always full of uncertainties. One day, the company suddenly announced layoffs, and my name actually appeared on the layoff list. In the face of this sudden blow, I did not frustrate and complain. I was reminded of my vows and the hardships I had made along the way. I knew I couldn't be defeated.

I decided to start anew and look for new opportunities, and during this period of unemployment, I did not give up on myself, but took advantage of this opportunity to learn more knowledge and skills Xi improve my mind. I understand that only by constantly improving myself can I be reborn in the face of adversity and become a phoenix reborn from the ashes.

Finally, one day I received an interview notice from a large company. During the interview, I managed to get the job with my own strength and confidence. My new life started here, and I will continue to work hard to improve myself and meet more challenges and opportunities.

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