Recently, the backstage has received a lot of questions from parents, all about how children can quickly teach new friends in kindergarten.
Bao Ma 1: My Niuniu just went to kindergarten, the crying is not serious, but the mood is a little low, I thought it would be fine after a while. But it's been three weeks, and yesterday the teacher said that Niuniu was at school, never playing with other children, and always seemed very lonely. How can we make new friends and integrate into the group as soon as possible?
Bao Ma 2: Because my family moved, I changed my child to a kindergarten. But after the change, the child always looks very low, I can understand that it is because the previous friends can not play together, but how can the child make new friends in the new kindergarten?
Soon it will enter September, and September is the kindergarten season, many children's crying, rejection of the kindergarten, because there is no one in the kindergarten, let alone friends, so the child will feel anxious, nervous and fearful.
But if the child can quickly make new friends, not only can he greatly relieve the crying when entering the kindergarten, but also feel the happiness brought to him by the kindergarten;It can also exercise children's social skills. So how do you get your child out of being out of place?3 ways to make your child a social expert!
1. Increase opportunities for communication with partners
Some parents like to keep their children tethered to their side, or give their children to mobile phones and iPads, which will affect their children's communication, collaboration and problem-solving skills in the long run. Parents should take their children to play with their friends more, and even help their children develop some hobbies, which will help him better integrate into his peers.
2. Set an excellent emotional example
Every child has their own role model in mind, and this role model is initially the parents, so it is important for parents to set an example.
The social attitude of parents and the way they treat others will be seen and remembered by children. If children like to watch cartoons, they will take some virtual characters as role models, and parents can also guide their children to see some positive aspects of virtual characters to reinforce their imitation of their behavior.
If a child encounters social problems, parents can let their children imagine what they would do if their role models encountered such a thing, so as to exercise the child's ability to analyze and solve problems, and improve social skills.
3. Help children get out of the circle of self-isolation
Teach your child to talk to familiar people first, then work your way up to the level of talking to strangers. Usually at home, you can virtualize a public place, there are countless listeners below, let the child speak, after a long and arduous psychological exercise, as the age increases, the personality is perfected, social phobia can be gradually overcome.
In fact, the so-called education is to start from the details, so that children can avoid mistakes and reduce the probability of going the wrong way. In fact, the most important thing isIt is necessary to focus on the cultivation of character and character。Therefore, it is very important to cultivate children's good behavior Xi in time for children's growthCultivate excellent character Xi,Having a confident and optimistic attitude, learning to control their emotions, and reasonably resolving negative emotions in life are the skills that children should learn Xi.
There are no bad children in this world, only parents who can't teach, and parents put more effort into growing upGive the right guidance and raise excellent childrenIt's actually quite easy.
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