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As the saying goes: "Men are afraid of getting into the wrong business, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man".
Marriage is a woman's second life, and the family of origin in the first half of her life is the choice of fate.
It's hard for us to change, but marriage is the result of our own choices, and your choices are crucial to your future life.
To put it simply, it's who you marry is what kind of life you choose.
Everyone knows the truth, but emotional women, after falling in love, tend to get lost in it and thus make some irrational decisions.
When you are in love, of course, you can only say love, but to get married, a man's personality is the most important selection criterion.
So, no matter what your criteria are, for the sake of your happiness for the rest of your life, you must stay away from these three types of men.
Blind obedient mother and baby male
Men should be the pillars of a family.
A responsible man is a woman's best sense of security.
But if your partner is a "mom boy", not only will you not feel safe, but you will also fight against "mother and son together" alone.
There is nothing wrong with the filial piety of a child to his parents in itself, but everything should be paid attention to a "degree". If filial piety has arrived, whether your parents are right or wrong, then your existence is only a vassal of your parents.
Not long ago, it was reported that the mother-in-law was too controlling and the man was weak, which led to a tragedy in the marriage.
After the wedding banquet, there was a young couple in Harbin, Xiaojun and Yangyang, who were ready to go to Europe for their honeymoon.
But the mother-in-law always thought that the two of them were not good at taking care of themselves, and had to spend their honeymoon with the younger couple.
Soon after going abroad, Yang Yang discovered a big problem. He likes to be shopping and shopping, but every time he starts shopping, his mother-in-law puts on a face and says a few words lukewarmly at night.
At this time, her husband Xiaojun always stood by his mother's side and took care of his mother's mood.
Yang Yang also said that her mother-in-law has to interject in everything. "Where to play and what to eat, it's all my mother-in-law's idea.
My husband would say 'yes, yes, okay', and he was a mommy boy who didn't have any ideas of his own, which made me very uncomfortable. ”
The honeymoon naturally broke up unhappily, and the first thing he did when he returned to China, Yang Yang contacted a lawyer to prepare for a divorce.
Yang Yang's mother also supported the divorce. She said: "When there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, he can hide or let his daughter endure it." Long pain is better than short pain, or it is better to disperse early ......”
The essence of Ma Bao Nan is actually the spiritual "unweaned".
They are like a "giant baby", as if nothing can be done without their parents.
In their hearts, whoever you and his mother are, it can only be your fault. So the mantra of this kind of man is generally "My mom said." "It wasn't easy for my mom to raise me. ”
When you talk about a relationship with a mom boy, you should never expect them to put you first, let alone imagine that they can accomplish one thing independently.
Because in their world, the mother is the unchallengeable authority and their fearless dependence.
As the saying goes: "Ma Bao Nan is a more terrifying existence than a scumbag".
If you are not a person who can give up your principles, swallow your anger, and unite with your mother-in-law, please stay away from Ma Bao Nan.
Irritable men are emotionally unstable
With emotionally unstable men, you are like a firefighter.
Many women have this question: "What kind of man is suitable to be a husband?"”
The answer is simple, emotional stability.
A man who is emotionally stable, mature and steady, knows how to manage his emotions, and will give you a unique sense of security.
And an emotionally unstable man, like a time bomb, doesn't know when, will blow you to pieces.
I've seen ** like this before.
A man and a woman were standing upstairs, and the man grabbed the woman's mobile phone to look at it, and angrily threw it out.
This was not enough, the man turned around and picked up the woman and threw her downstairs, the woman grabbed the railing and was still tumbled down the stairs like a toy man by the man.
Fortunately, the woman's life was great. After being thrown down, she grabbed the railing downstairs and survived.
Later, the investigation results showed that the two were husband and wife, and the man saw that his wife had ambiguous messages with other men on her mobile phone, and he was so angry that he threw his wife downstairs.
The All-China Women's Federation once gave such a set of data: "Among the more than 200 million households in the country, an average of 7Within 2 seconds, a woman was beaten by her husband. ”
That is, in marriage, violence against women is still very serious.
If there are two men who are courting you, one with a mediocre family, but emotionally stable and gentle, and a wealthy family, but with a short temper, do not agree to start.
You have to choose the first type of man because although they may not necessarily guarantee you a smooth and hassle-free life, at least one day he will not hurt others and yourself, and even excitement will kill you.
And an emotionally unstable man will spoil you as a princess when he is good, and he will also treat you as an enemy when you make him unhappy.
If you want to pay for your husband's emotions, your partner largely determines your joys and sorrows. Men who are emotionally unstable and have a bad temper really can't get married.
A romantic man who likes the new and hates the old
To put it bluntly, men like the new and hate the old because they are not satisfied.
They often eat from the bowl and look at the pot, no matter how much you pay and how much you love him, they still stubbornly think that the flowers outside are more beautiful than the flowers at home.
In their eyes, it doesn't matter that a woman who is wholeheartedly good to him. All they want is a "sense of mystery" that will never go away.
When you marry a man who doesn't know how to be satisfied, your life can only be wronged for the rest of your life.
When the late Taiwanese master of Chinese culture Li Ao married Hu Yinmeng, the "first beauty in Taiwan Province", he was talented in the eyes of outsiders.
One is a genius, the other is a peerless beauty, and everyone says that this marriage is a match made in heaven.
But sadly, their marriage only lasted three months before they broke up.
Later, when asked about the reason for the breakup, Li Ao said that once he saw his wife go to the toilet because of constipation and blushed.
After the hazy mystery disappears, the goddess is also an ordinary person, the image of the goddess disappears, and love disappears.
In fact, it is human nature to like the new and hate the old.
A man who likes the new and hates the old will have infinite motivation to pursue it when he can't get it, but after getting it, no matter how perfect the other party is, their attention will be attracted by other "beauty".
But wise men understand that marriage has more important responsibilities and fidelities than mystery.
Therefore, it is difficult for a man who likes the new and hates the old to find a woman who can make him feel at ease with him in his life.
Similarly, if a woman marries a man who likes the new and hates the old, she is bound to be displaced throughout her life.
Whoever you meet will be who you are.
Marriage, for everyone, is a major event in life, choose the right person, and naturally live a happy life.
But if you are blinded by "love" and choose the wrong person, you are falling into the abyss and spending the rest of your life in pain and suffering.
Therefore, when getting married, be careful, a person who can make you true to your character is the person you can trust the most.