Sister Su is my colleague and fellow countryman, and I chatted with me at noon today and said that she was particularly troubled recently, and she wanted to resign and not do it, but she didn't want to tear her face with her employer, so she wanted to write a resignation letter to her employer, and what to say to her, she just didn't say anything, and I didn't know what she thought in her heart, and there was no way to communicate with her language, and I didn't know how she thought in her heart, so she could only think of writing a resignation letter to her and sending it to her on wx.
The following is Sister Su's oral statement:
I have been working in this employer's house for six years, I have retired two years ago, I have been doing it here before I retired, at that time, the efficiency of the factory in my hometown was not good, a child also got married, and my grandson also went to elementary school, I don't need to take it, and there is nothing to do at home, so I chose to come to Shanghai to work, earn a little money to subsidize it, and by the way, I also came to the big city to see it.
Under the introduction of acquaintances, I just came to this home as a live-in nanny, 5500 a month, and I don't take a break to work overtime.
The employer is a post-80s generation who works in a hospital and has two children, the eldest is a son, who is in his first year of high school this year, and the younger is a girl, who is in his first year of junior high school this year.
When I first came to their home, my employer's two children were still in elementary school. I picked up the older children, and then I had to pick up the younger ones, and I had to cook and buy groceries and do housework. It's tiring, but it's also fulfilling.
The employer's house is not big, I don't have my own independent room, I have been sleeping on the sofa in their living room, I have been sleeping for six years, at first I was not used to Xi it, and then slowly she Xi got used to it, the employer and her husband did not live here for a long time, I don't know what the reason is, we are aunts, it is inconvenient to inquire about the privacy of the employer's house.
In the second year, the employer's lady gave me a monthly increase of 6000, and then there has been no salary increase, last year I told her that the minimum salary of a live-in nanny in Shanghai is now 6500, and the young lady seems to be very reluctant, but she still gave me a month to 6500.
I get along fairly well with Miss Employer, otherwise I wouldn't have been able to do it for so long, and I don't know what's going on since this year, I feel like Miss Employer has changed as a person.
My employer has always advanced 1,000 yuan for my vegetables, rice, noodles and condiments, and then she advanced 1,000 yuan to her after it was used up, and then she advanced 1,000 yuan to me. It was like this for the first five years in their family, and the cooperation was good.
This year, the young lady did not have an advance money for me, and the oil, salt, sauce and vinegar seasonings at home, plus the money for grocery shopping are also a lot of expenses. At first, I thought that Miss might be busy and forgot, I first advanced 2000 money to run out, I told Miss that I had no money to buy vegetables, Miss gave me 500 yuan, three meals a day, Shanghai food is expensive, their family does not eat leftovers, 500 yuan is enough for a few days, I have already advanced more than 2000 myself, so what should I do?If you don't pay for it yourself, you won't be able to cook the meal.
I told Miss that there is no oil at home, and there is no seasoning, or you go to buy it yourself, I will do what you buy, Miss is silent, anyway, she is twenty-four silent, a look of "one person does not speak, the gods are difficult to start", do not speak, do not communicate.
I really don't know how to communicate with him, what do you say to him, he just doesn't say anything. I'm a part-time worker, I can't always pay for my living expenses, when will I be the first to be a part-time worker?
If you have something for the time being.
It's so difficult, you can tell me first, it's okay for you to help me cushion during this time, but you don't say anything, I know what you want to do, isn't it just to earn a coolie money when I'm out of the house?If you don't want me to do it, you can tell me that I will stay at your house and not leave, but you can't ignore my existence like this.
There is also a trouble in their family, that is, his son is in high school, and his grades in Xi are not particularly good, and the high school he was admitted to was not a good high school, but now it is a residential school, and his son comes back every Friday, not to talk about the grades, but to talk about the grades, the mother and son will do it.
It really verifies the sentence "don't talk about learning Xi mother is kind and filial to children, when you talk about learning Xi, chickens fly and dogs jump". As soon as the child returned on Friday, the house was like a battlefield filled with gunsmoke, and the atmosphere was so oppressive that people felt suffocated.
I'm scared until Friday now, and when it comes to Friday, I feel an inexplicable sense of fear in my heart.
Miss pulled her face long, the family did not dare to come out, sometimes the meal was ready, put it on the table and did not dare to call them to eat, I lived in the living room, slept on the sofa, and did not have my own independent space, I don't know what I am going to do, I am not sitting, standing is not, I am almost depressed.
So I want to go and ask him to resign, I told her twice, and she didn't say anything, I really have no other way I want to discuss with you, can I write out the resignation on WeChat and send it to Miss, I am all in writing, do you think it will work?
I talked to her face to face, and she was silent, and I was afraid that I would not be able to control myself and would quarrel with her.
After all, I've been working in their house for 6 years, and now I'm leaving, how can it be an employment relationship, I think it should be good to get together and disperse, I don't want to conflict with her, don't you say?
At around 5 p.m., Sister Su came to WeChat to say that she had written a resignation letter to their employer on WeChat.
I expect their employer to agree to her resignation, after all, people are prone to anxiety when working in such an environment.